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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!
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ok im like seriously self conscious about myself....like im about 5'4" and im 155lbs.. and i hae it.. but every sys that i look good adn stuff but i dont feel like i look good at all.... heres a picture of me.... http://www.myspace.com/ann1990marie adn im not doing this to promote my myspace either... u owuld have to go to my pics and look in there and im the one in the green dress but i dont normally look like that cuz i accually have curly hair thats down to my mid back... just that pic was taken in november... so i just wanted to kno what some people thought...
I didn't actually look at your picture because I don't have a myspace... but anyways if you don't feel good than you don't look good. Try having a little more self confidence and try wearing make-up to make your self feel prettier. Self-confidence usually goes down in girls when they hit puberty so don't worry, a lot of girls feel this way about themselves.
ok, this is kinda wierd asking...but, whenever I go poop...when I wipe, there is bright red blood...is something wrong?!?!?!
your advice is greatly appreciated!
Unless it's something you ate, which I highly doubt, it can't be a good, or natural, thing. Please consult a doctor immediately.
what is the meaning of life?
Read the Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom.
ok well i was wondering if the workouts in the seventeen magizne actually work because i dont want to waste my time doing it and then it doesnt work lol but if they dont work is there any workouts on the internet u could tell me about?? well thankzz i will rate 5
The Seventeen Magazine workouts do work. I use this one from a really old issue called "Your Ab Workout" and I've been using it for about two years now. When I read the new magazines I find more and more but I still stick with the old one because I've memorized it. All of the routines are by the same person so I'm pretty sure all of them work as well as the one I use. You can usually feel the different the next morning!
would you consider "to hell with it" to be vulgar? as in cursing?
I don't consider it cursing because there are plenty of other words that are way worse than it... not saying that it's bad or anything.
hey does anyone on here know how to make your myspace private. i have been looking everywhere. thanks!
You change your age to 14 which would be in either 1991 or 1992 depending on the month in which you put your birthday as.
Alright well usually I don't let the things other people say to me get to me, but I hear this from pretty much every person I meet. Apparently, I'm really out of control with my "moody-ness". I know I have times (especially once a month haha) and I have bad days but is there any way I can control my mood swings? It's nothing serious but I know I am kinda moody all the time.
Thanks!
Free 5s
Try keeping the same personality no matter how much your mood swings. If I feel like I'm mad or if I'm in a bad mood, I try not to talk so people don't notice. Once you get a hang of it, it's really easy to control it. You should also try asking your friends when you get moody so they can remind you when you do so you can remember not to do it again.
hey thanks for the last answer to my xanga question. i just tried to put it in tho (the code) into the custom module and it wouldnt let me. do i have to have premium for a layout? do i need to pay? HELP!!
Ohh sorry I worded that wrong. You put it in the top box, there's a drop-down that says stuff and use "Input your own Header HTML" and you put the code under the blank box that comes up. Sorry about that.
where do you put a link to add a layout to xanga?
You put it under "custom header" which is under "Look & Feel" on the sidebar.
okk you know how on myspace to put a picture you have to have that code. the html. well i know how to get the picture code but i completly forgot what the thing to put it in your profile was, does anyone know the answer. or what im talking about.
www.whateverlife.com has a tuitoral of how to put pictures on myspace.
This may sound a little stupid bit i dont know what to do. For what me and my friend did,we might of caused everyone in our school to get their myspace accounts caceled! It all happend when my friend made this fake girl named Alison a profile. She did it so this boy that is a total loser who is obbsesed with me could start liking her and not me anymore. He liked this "girl" Alison soo much that he gave her his adress,number, and wanted to meet her so he could take her out! Hez so stupid! What if it was like a 40year old guy!EEEWW! So he gave her(really me and my friend) his password and we changed his profile and wrote pretty funny stuff and changed his password,lol. Anyway,now he was obbsesed with her, and at school that is all he would talk about!Then oneday,he found out from someone(?) that she wasnt real! He was pretty mad and humileated(however you spell it) for a while, but then he got over it. Then oneday he started sending some pretty harsh things to my fiend because she is a little overweight and her sister found out and was SOOO mad. She sent him a message telling him that they(her friends) were going to beat him up,lol. The little wimp told his mom whotold the principal and now my friend is in trouble because she took the blame for her sis.But then, he mentioned the Alison thing and said my name!!! They are going to call my dad,afer he had JUSTseen all that bad stuff about myspace on the news!What the hell should i do!!! IR5s!!!! :0 &hearts he'll be so f****** pissed!
That was a really stupid thing that you did to a guy that liked you. It probably humilated him and made him so angry when he found out. You're just going to let what happens happen because there is no way that you can prevent it. You can't just stop the principle from telling your dad or something. Also, if you don't want your dad to see your myspace, you shouldn't have made an account in the first place if you knew he wouldn't approve of it. I guess you could delete your account before he finds out so they don't have proof ...? Haha.
Just yesterday, I started feeling sick. Today I have a little bit of a sore throat (it has improved)& the beginning of a stuffy nose and last night I'm pretty sure I had a fever, and I'm not sure if it's gone or not. I've been drinking Tons of water, and I've been resting. Today I will be going to my friends birthday party for about an hour, and tomorrow I'm going to my granparents house. I hope to be better by Monday.
Do you think I will be better by Monday? & Besides drinking water & resting, what else can I do to get better? Are there any foods that will help?
Thanks, I'll rate.
You most likely will be a lot better by Monday. It sounds like you have a mild cold which a lot of people get this time of year. Even if you're not one-hundred percent better, you'll still be able to go to school or whatever unless you're really feeling horrible which you shouldn't be.
I just turned 16 and I want a job, but I don't want to work at a busy place (like a grocery store, blockbuster, etc.). Any ideas?
Work at a small store or a resturant. Resturants are probably the best idea.
i am a female and i am 14
There is something that you can do about it. If you don't want to directly tell her... maybe you could tell her boyfriend, whom she really loves, about how you feel and then have him tell her? Or you could right her a nice long note on how you love to be her friend and all the great times you've had together. Notes that will make someone go "aww" and love you forever. That's what I do when it feels like friendships are slipping. You kind of just have to wait until she gets over her boyfriend obsession...because best friends are best friends through everything and anything. Try finding other friends that you can chill with in the meantime... and maybe even gather your own guy along the way. Just take what fate brings you.
Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!
Hev
You're not totally worthless, and it's just not right to totally hate yourself. Just beacuse he said that he doesn't like you "at the moment" which is he doesn't like you right now, doesn't mean that he's never going to like you. Maybe you should take a break from liking him and find another guy, or you can continur to like him until he might like you. So time is basically the best answer.
Sorry if this takes a little while, i put it on the regular site but no one answered it and you are the top rated columist so i rele hope you can help....
My best friend's has a boyfriend and about a month ago she found out that one of our other friends liked her. Even though she didnt like him somehow they ended up talkin more and they always got upset cause somehow the subject of him liking her always came up. Well through their fights and talks, they have become like best friends. They see things the same as each other or something. i felt jealous that my best friend was gettin stolen away so i confronted her about it, and she told me that it went her bf, me, then this other guy on her list of friends and she wasnt just sayin that cause she was talkin to me. but it feels like she confides more in him, and she talks to him a lot. sometimes it almost seems like shes blowing me off, in general, not just for him. every time i try talkin to her about it it always comes out wrong and i end up sounding mega possesive and like im making a mountain out of a molehill and i hate it. it seems like my best friend is slipping away and theirs nothing i can do about. what do i do? and please, if theres anything you can say that doesnt just involve "talking about it to her" that wud be even better, although i would take anything i can get
Okay I just need specification whether or not you're a guy or a girl so I can correctly answer your question. It would help if you leave your sex and age in all entries so columnists can answer well. Thankss.
Hey anyone know any good old school songs? Like ones with a good beat and not to slow.
These songs are really good from the 90's... they're upbeat and almost everyone has heard them before. Jumper isn't that upbeat though.
Parklife- Blur
Two Princes- Spin Doctors
Semi-charmed Life- Third Eye Blind
Jumper- Third Eye Blind
How do I make my lips apear bigger?
Go to Wal*Mart or any other department, retail, or drug store that sells make-up. There's this Sally Hansen lip inflation gloss that costs about five dollars.
ok here's the thing...there's this girl that i really like..but the problem is shes very shy and its hard to get a signal..going to different schools and having different things dont make things easier..i only see her once a week(our families are very bonded with each other) and so our parents and relatives r always in the same room..we barely talk to each other and that makes me nervous..when i stare at her she looks somewhere else or to the floor but doesnt seem uncomfortable..its hard to explain..i do have a crush but im not looking for a relationship..right now i just wanna know if she likes me back before i figure out my next move..can u plzz help me know if she likes me back without having to flirt or do something funny in front of my parents! (they r cramping my style)..she is a twin (almost identical) for what its worth..thnxx and i hope u can help me
You can get her screen name or cell phone number so you can talk to her in private and get to know her better. Or say that you want to go outside and play wiffleball or something and tell ask her to come with you. When you're alone with her outside you'll get to know her better and once she knows you then you'll be able to tell if she likes you or not, or even ask her. It shouldn't be too hard to get away from your parents/relatives. You don't even have to go outside you can just go in a seperate room. So yeah... I hope everything works out fine.
i am 14 years old(girl) and i geuss fairly attractive... so i dont really have a lot of trouble finding guys. The thing is once i begin to date the guy i like and i find out he really likes me i get bored of him and we end up breaking up.i geuss i have a desire to be desired?i dont know.....what is my problem and what can i do to fix it?
Your problem is that you're going out with guys that you don't really love. Having a boyfriend is a commitment and if you really like the guy that you're going out with him then you wouldn't get bored of him because he would try his best to keep you "entertained." I don't think that you should go out with a guy unless you're sure that you like him enough that you'll be able to stick with him for as long as possible, because when you break up with him without letting it last a bit, then it will break his heart. Just don't say yes whenever a guy asks you out.