hey everyone .. my name is casey .. ive been at this advice stuff for a pretty long time .. i have brown hair and blue eyes and im pretty outgoing .. I love dancing and being crazy and laughing .. i recently lost my aunt who was my biggest hero and i lost her on christmas .. she was a great person and i hope i can be who she was one day .. ive tried many different sports .. ive done cheerleading, field hockey and volleyball unfortunatly i always going hurt in these sports which prevented me from doing them any longer ..
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E-mail: x0_with_luv_0x@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: NY
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: August 12, 2004
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I am 14 and i let a guy go down on me. He told me i was *tight*. What does that mean and how can i get loose like most girls!? It really bothers me.
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well .. if you havent had sex then you're not "loose". it just means that your vagina or what not isnt stretched like it would be if you had sex.
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hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0 (link)
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i think he obviously noticed if he cared and if he pays a lot of attention to you .. anyone would notice if you went from 115 to 99 lbs. i think its utterly ridiculous that everyone is so engrossed with being skinny .. curves are nice .. boys dont like girls who look like they're a few meals short of breaking in half. i think you should stay where you are .. hell i sometimes wish that i was 115 .. but im fine with the way i am right now .. im proud that im toning down without doing it because i think im fat im doing it to be healthhy .. that should be the ONLY reason for dieting not to lose 16 pounds because "you think you're fat" thats ridiculous .. you arent and you shouldnt put yourself through throwing up because you "dont like 3 numbers" dont do it.
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hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends? (link)
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usually its the girls who like to talk thats why i have close relationships with some of my guy friends because they arent going to go blab to who im telling them about or get pissy at me for some stupid reason .. but i do have a lot of close girlfriends because ive known them for oh so long .. i guess it depends on what kinda relationship you have with them .. if you arent very close dont tell them ur secrets cuz sooner or later you're going to hear her telling someone what you just told her .. you can only trust your close close friends
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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
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this exact thing happend to me .. and i asked him and .. he lied!!!!!! so my friend played truth or dare when i wasent there it was supposed to be man hunt or something but it got boring? but he said truth and she asked "have you ever smoked" and he said yeah so i found out the truth .. trust your friend
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what do they do when you get a sports physical? anything with your privates?
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well once my doctor checked me for lumps in the breasts .. lord .. i hated that .. and it was weird .. but they dont do that nemore
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ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose? (link)
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omg .. sweetheart when i was in 8th grade i weighed like .. 135 .. you're fine . you could even gain weight in sure you look fine
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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :) (link)
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all i have to say is .. ashton and demi .. haha just kidding .. i know your friends are trying to be helpful but you can listen to what they have to say but really listen to whats in your heart
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okay, so im taking my school picture in two days and i was wondering how i should look i guess, quick description of me: really tan skin, medium dark brown hair (long and straight), not skinny or fat, big hazel eyes, straight smile i guess, im really lost on what i should wear and how i should do my hair if anyone could please help me quick it would be greatly appreciated thanks (by the way im a freshman) i rate! -Nicole (link)
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well what i wore for my pictures .. was a tank top underneath one of those tops that are sheer and tie in the back and cross over [if that makes ANY sense] lol .. it looked cute .. dont wear your hair in a pony tail [just a suggestion because when people usually do .. it looks .. weirdd] i wore my hair half up half down which looks pretty. ill suggest that
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks! (link)
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wow .. thats completely wrong of both of them to do.. dont get him a birthday present, he doesnt deserve one from you. As for your "best friend" i think you should tell her how you really feel. I mean you're supposed to beable to tell friends everything thats on your mind right?? Just tell her that you dont appriciate her telling you every nook and cranny on their relationship and that you'd rather not hear it because you're not completely over him and you dont know when you will be. And if she wants to discuss something that hes done it would be nice if she didnt bring that shit to you. And that you're really upset about her betraying your friendship .. hope that helped
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the pink and blue roos
or ... the pink and gray vans
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or this??
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PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION ASAP PLEASE PLEASE MODERATOR DONT DELETE I NEED THE OPINION (link)
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DONT get those "roos" ones their wayyyyyyyy too bright for my taste.. id say go with the grey and pink
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girls ok im a guy ok looking good since of humor fun to be around.but gettin to meet u is the hard part what is best way to confront a girl i see (link)
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you just go up to her and say hi .. pretty simple sounding i know, but i love when guys come up and talk to me .. it sounds stupid but it always makes me smile .. just try walking up to a girl and say hello .. and then let the conversation flow .
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well okay i really want to get back wit my ex boifriend but idk how to ask him n im so scared cuz hes really mean sometimes (hes bipolar) n i dont know what to say or where n how n everything...ever since we haven't been together i've been really depressed and i miss him a LOT! He means the world to me and were perfect for each other...can someone please help me i don't know what to do or so!?...i don't really wanna get in the whole mushy b/s with him i just wanna get back with him yah know? please ill rate!
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well, do you tell him that he hurts you sometimes? im sure he doesnt mean it when he makes you upset or when hes mean. He should find a way to control the anger but maybe you can start off as friends and see if hes getting better with his anger or go out with him and just dont say anything that would piss him off??
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okay i always get hungary and i always end up chosing sweets or salty things to eat...is there sumthing more healthier and that will hold longer bcuz i knoe salads r healthy but i mean you get hungry like 10 minutes later.
please help ssoooooon b4 i get hungary again! (link)
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what i LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE!! is chicken ceasar salads. they fill you up! what you put in it is lettuce, maybe carrots and grilled chicken with that non carb italian dressing. i lived on that for weeks and i didnt gain any weight and its healthy cuz your getting your protein and vegetables. good luck
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ok this might be long. i went out with this boy a while back probably a year ago and we broke up because he kissed a girl. but he told me..and then like about a month ago his brother and my sister started going out. and they want to get married. ahh and this boy and me started talking again and i love him so much but he has a girlfriend. and i was going to go out with him but he said i showed no intrest in him. so last night i was talkin to my sisters bf and hes tryin to hard to keep me away from his brother hes sayin hes a player and hes going to hurt me. and all this shit. and i told him whatever i dont care i love your brother and he said you dont know what love is your a child. and im 16 and this boys 16. and i dont know it pisses me off so much because everytime i talk to the boy i love it reminds me how much i love him and i cant have him. and im trying SO hard to keep his brother from marrying my sister. what do i do? sorry if this doesnt make any sense. his brother is 18 and my sister 17 turnin 18 september 30. ( And if they get married then i wont be able to date his brother cuz we'll be inlaws. ) and my sister is considering NOT marrying him cause of me. please helP!! (link)
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this is a difficult situation for you. I dont want to give you the wrong advice, but if your sister is happy then dont interfere. As for the other brother i think that he should keep his opinions like that out of the conversation and let you decide for youself if his brother is right for you or if he isn't. As for him saying you don't know what love is, what makes him think he does? hes only 2 years older then you, not much of a difference so what makes him so advanced in this subject? I hope i helped a little
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ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do (link)
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ive had a problem like that before .. and i know just ignoring them if almost physically impossible! but you can do it .. they probably arent great looking anyway and their doing this to "get a rise outta you". just laugh at them
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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
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i think you should cut it.. but not as short as you're thinking maybe a couple of inches below your shoulders. I had longer hair and i cut it shoulder length its annoying if its not pin straight because its so poofy sometimes! but i cut it so that i could get curls from a perm i had like 4 yrs ago out they were pissing me off. but dont cut it that short
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ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can
ill even rate you 5'z
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yeah i think you should have her hang out with you that always makes me feel better with my friends.
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are carrots good 4 u (link)
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they're supposedly good for your eyes.. however if you eat them comstantly like every single day and you eat a lot your skin takes on an orangy pigment
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ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!! (link)
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well usually people with dark hair look better with black eyeliner, apposed to people with blonde hair [me] hah who look weird. I use brown eye liner. but dont use a lot because you might look no offense to anyone here but gothic. but usually eyeliner and maybe a pink lipgloss would look cute
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Hey! I am a sophmore who recently moved from Arkansas to Texas and I have no idea if the styles are diffrent or not!!! I would really like to know what to wear on the first day since I don't know anybody. Oh and could u maybe tell me what your wearing! *I RATE HIGH!* (link)
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if i were you, i wouldnt care what people in texas were wearing. i would wear what i liked. What i bought for school.. i cough a lot of jeans and pants, cute shoes and sneakers and idk i just bought stuff that appealed to me.
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