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i was going out with this guy for like a month and a half, one day he breaks up with me before school starts. second block my best freind/his best freind tells me she likes him and ask me if it would be ok if they went out. i sad yes and she said she wouldn't ask him out, an hour later i find out they are going out. I'm trying to be friends with them but it's difficult because he like wont really talk to me unless i talk to him (he is really outgoing and it's not like him) and now megan is getting mad at me cause people are aparently being mean to her. i sad i was sorry for that to both of them but neither of them are really talk to me anymore, i just don't know how to handle cause i havn't been handling it very well.

I kno that this is a typical saying but....i think that you should sit them both down and talk to them about it. Honestly, you need some answers and they might need some too. When you talk to them about what's going on then you will feel like the pressure is all gone and you wont have to worry about it anymore. take a deep breath before talking to them if it helps.

talk things out, it helps. :)
~Sammie~

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23/f my holidays were ruined.... when my chritmas tree fell................on me. i was rushed to the hospital but they were unable to get out all of the pine needles. i do smell like a car freshener, but the pain where the trunk hit me wont go away. i have been recomended for a therapudic setion to get over the terror but i couldn't pay for it becuase of the hospital bill, so i decided to use my computer to ask before i had to sell it..... how should i get the pine needles out? and, while im at it, how do i stop smelling like a car freshener...... and which pain reliever should i use?

i dont kno how to take out pine tree needles but i do kno what you can take for pain...take tylenol.

~sammie~

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Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice?

i really want you tell him how you feel..
it can be that simple if you want it that way.
if he still has feelings for you then i think that you wouldnt have to worry about telling him about that girl not liking him. he'll find out on his own.

~Sammie~

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what's the best shaving razor to use for legs?

venus...it makes your legs silky smooth. :)
~Sammie~

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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.

well, if you want an opinion...then i think that you should give it another try, even if he has a history of being bad, its not supposed to matter if you really think that fate is what brought you two together. i think you should definately go for it. take it from me...i had the chance once..but i was dumb enough not to take it, and trust me, you should. :/
go with what your heart tells you.

~sammie~

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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him?

well....the thing that you should do is get a "restraining order" LOL!! j/k
ok....whatever messages she sends you from now on delete them before reading them....otay...to put it simply....IGONORE HER becuz she did have her chance with him and i think that she should get over it.

Hes after you...and dont forget that.ummtay ^_^

sammie

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How does a person get rid of stubborn black heads...especially on the nose...My nose looks like a strawberry(except skin colored)
Please Help! I RATE!

OH MY GOSH DUDE!!!
you can use biore nose strips.
they're kind of expensive tho....but if you think its worth....THE DO IT!

from nina and sam (this time) ^_^

p.s. whenever you pull the strip off you can see how dirty your nose was.....ITS SO COOL!

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ok sammie i like this guy and he is soooo sexy and really nice but damn he likes sex alot... but he dont make you do anything you dont want to do, anyways he is my brothers friend and i see him around sometimes and he always smiles at me and we talk alot on the computer but at school we just kinda smile and say hi but thats it... and he is also 17 and im 14. im not really shy around him but i just dont know what to talk about when i do talk to him, and i dont want it to be weird so what do u think?

ummm...im not saying this to be mean but i think that you shouldnt go out with your brother's friends, cuz i will end up to where your brother wont want to be friends with the guy anymore. See what im saying. I have a brother and i've been throuh stuff like that, and trust me..its not worth messing up a friendship. Besides, he has EXPERIENCE and well, you dont. So you kno what that means, even tho he may seem like he wont make you do anything like that....you've got another thing coming...trust me you never kno. There's only one thing on a guy's mind when they've already had sex and THATS JUST IT they want sex all of the time. If you really like the guy i think that you should let him go and find someone your age, dont go for older guys yet, especially when they are your brother's friends.

there are plenty of fishes in the sea.
~Sammie~ ^_^

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ok my parents are divorced and its really hard to deal with cause my dad is hiding all these things and school is just even harder. I have these really mean friends, gab and alyssa,and these other friends one i knew since first grade,caroline, and the other tried to kill herself,kelly, but those days are over so i have been feeling like they are getting annoyed with me. so the other day i reapeated something gab said o kelly and she told gab that i told her and now gab is mad at me. i feel like doing things and its just so stressful and everyone is ganging up on me. we made up but that won't stop us from fighting again and i feel like shes still mad. what do i do?
age:11
gender: female

ok first lets talk about your dad. I know that its hard to go through a divorce but dont let that stress you out too much. anywho, if you want to know why your dad is lying then i think that you should sit down and talk to him about it. That's the only way yall are gonna communicate.

anywho..lets get to the friends part...
if your friends are gonna be mean to you then i think that you should take a break from them for a while...you know, only until things cool down. When they are ready to talk about the issue calmly then listen to what they have to say and then tell them how you feel about the situation. you kno what im saying..
just try to stay cool
hope i helped~
~sammie~

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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him

your 16 he's 14, you dont care about age (very good!), you like him but your unsure if he likes you back. hmmmmm....well he hung out with you the whole time at that one party thingy...so..ya kno. its pretty obvious that he does. lordy..if you like him just ask him out, screw the other girs, i think he likes you.:)
~Sammie~

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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me!

be patient....maybe. that's all it takes.

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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.

Im not trying to be rude..but if he loved you then he would have stopped a long time ago. I know that you said the you didnt want us to tell you to dump him, but honestly i think you should. If he's been lying to you for so long and wont stop something that is very addictive and dangerous than i think that's screwy..i bet you think the same thing too..dont lie. I mean, your worried about him and that shows how much you care. I just think that you can really do BETTER than that crap.

hope i helped
~Sammie~
P.S. he's an idiot he doesnt deserve you

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Ok there's thie guy i like in school. But the problem is... i'm homeschooled and now i don't see him as often. Also, when there's a guy i like i get all shy and well... i start to ignore them becuase i get embaressed.
If i see him how could i talk to him without ignoring him and getting shy? Plz help! i could use it...

If you like the guy then i think that you should put some effort instead of being so shy all of the time. If you keep being shy then he wont really recognize you like you want him to; just walk up to him and try to atleast have a casual conversation. Before you do that, you should take a deep breath and then talk to him, you kno since your shy..trust me once you get into a conversation you would feel WAY more comfortable.
Also, if you really like him....you'll kno what to do to make things work out between you guys.

~sammie~ ^_^

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So, my best friend is just going out with this friend of hers, and he's not the bestest guy out there. She knows she won't do what a girlfriend is supposed to do like kissing... But he hasn't really said to her, oh, now we're b/f and g/f. But he's going around telling everyone else. She said when that problem arises she'll tell him, but the thing is I told her how I felt, but she won't listen. This guy was like forcing my other best friend into going out with them and she wasn't aware that they actually were. And now he's going out with my friend now. I feel like he's going from girl to girl. I've already told her how I felt, but she still won't listen. I just get this bad vibe from this guy. What should I do?

whoop his bum bum!!! ^_^

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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...

Christine

You need to talk to him and tell him to STOP being so controlling over you. You guys aren't going out and even if yall were then i would dump his ass. LOL!!! I mean seriously, he needs to calm down with that stuff... Talk to him about that..I mean talk to him about it FAST before this gets WAY out of control.
good luck
~Sammie~

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i have this guy i like(x bf)i only dumped him because my friends hated him but i rather lose him then my friends what should i do



thanks
your friend eileen

Just becuz your friends dont like your boyfriend doesnt exactly mean that you have to break up with him...Im not trying to be rude about your friends or anything, but i think that they're just jealous becuz of what you and him had. Here's a little tip: if you ever wanted to go back out with your ex and if you want your friends to like him, then i think that you should show your friends how great he is. Trust me...if you really want to have both of them then i think that you should give it a try.

Hope i helped
~Sammie~ ^_^

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sammie.....
i like my best guy friend but i dont know what to do cause a while back not to long ago he guessed that i liked him and i said yes but he really didnt say anything and over the weekend we went to the movies and he put his arm on my lap and the next day he came over my ffiends house and watched a movie with me and now he acks different now... he has not called me in 2 days and thats not like him.. he never just dont call me but my friend said that he prob. feels weird cause he is my best friend, what do u think.. please help asap

this sounds like the one that i answered a second ago....lol...well if it isnt the same person then look at the answer before this one.

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hey sammie i have a question. ok i like this guy, he is like my guy best friend and i really dont know what to do cause i dont know if he likes me back. not to long ago but a while back (maybe 4 weeks ago) he wanted to know who i like but i would not tell him and then he guessed it was him and i said yes but he really didnt say anything. And now the other day we went to the movies and he put his arm on my legs. my friend says he likes me but im confused.
please help!!!!!!!

Otay gurlie...if you really like him that much then i think that you should tell him how you feel. dont let this one go too easily, cuz if you do then that would kind of suck. Follow your heart and from there you'll know what to do..
I think that he like you too. I mean, come on, he put his arm on your legs..

~sammie~

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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice.

okay i dont know exactly what to tell you but you just told him that you liked him. Now you dont know what to do about the situation because of the fact that you told him. Well...honestly i think that you should wait a little while longer because you never kno if those feelings will come back..see what im saying. :)

hope that i helped
~Sammie~

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ok i have a friend and shes supposed to be my best friend but i keep on hearing that shes talkig behind my back. One time i heard her say " why do you go out with him hes not worth it and hes so dumb". Everyone keeps saying that shes talking about me. How can i find out if shes talking about me or not? I know shes going to denie every i say. What should i do

Wait just a minute...How are u going to make assumptions when you haven't even talked to her yet:). It sounds to me like you've already made up your friend's mind about what "she's" gonna say to you...Just be straight up with her and ask her about it. OH yeah, don't EVER send your friends to do your dirty work,it will only make matters worse. Ask Her About It On Your Own.
If the guy that your going out with IS worth it then i dont think that you should worry about what people have to say about him.

hope i helped
Sammie^_^

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