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hey guys!

my names alex, i'm 13, i know about anything from relationships to sports(x-specially soccer)...i love helping people out so leave some questions and ill do my best to answer them! if you dont like my advice- tell me and i have some other awesome ppl you can ask...muchh lovve...

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13/f
Well i met my boyfriend on AIM. My best friend goes to a diff. school than me and she knew him... so we were both single, she tried to hook us up, at first when we talked i wasnt shy. then he said he loved me after i showed him a picture of me...his mom said we couldnt go out until she meets me which could be awhile. But its really weird now becuase i feel shy talking to him through e-mail or AIM, is that normal?

your probably just nervous about meeting his mom- dont be tho! he ovbiously likes you enough to continue talking to you so you have nothing to be afraid of...when you meet his mom- dont be shy ((buy dont be obnoxious either)) just talk about how great your school is and you know- tipical mom stuff....

it is VERY normal to be shy after finding out you have to meet his mom...its okay...

if you need more advice comment back or IM me

muchh lovve

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i like this gurl for 3 years we almost went out a bunch of time but something always happened i really like this gurl we had a really good last couple of days but she said she doesnt want a boy friend for the summer i dont want her to go to a diff guy i really like her but her cuz and hes my best friend doesnt like us going out so he always tries to breack us up. we made out for the first time the other night . My question is wen do i ask her out and how do i ask her out???

when you ask her out make sure that she knows that you really care! if you wanna do the whole- big time thing- get roses and leave them at her door and ask her our or if you want the less formal approach just be like- do you wanna hang out on {whatever day you want}? and if she says yes then like rent a movie or go somewhere cool to eat...and if she says no beacuse shes not ready to date then just back off b/c she will eventually come around...


now about timing- its probably best to ask her somewhere around the begining of skl- like a week or so b4- because at skl she'll be going to dances and meeting guys and stuff so you dont want her to be on the market then- but you also dont want to go against her wishes((that she dosnt want a summer bf))- so id say that would be a good time...

if you need more advice comment back or IM me

muchh lovve

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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?

just let him know by always telling him how much you want to be with him- but not so much that you freak him out or scare him away..be like- i really care for you and ive never felt like this about anyone else...he'll get the point...

if you need more advice comment back or just IM me

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ok i have really cury hair and i straighten it everyday but im really getting sick of doing it b/c my hairs so thick and its so time consuming to get it pin straight,i use to love to swim and i never want to do it anymroe b/c i dont want to get my hair wet b/c it will curl and when ever it gets the least bit humid my hair goes nuts. i was thinking about getting it chemically relaxed but idk can anyone whos got it done tell me about it and if it works or doesn't or is bad for there hair ill rate a 5 to anyone who anwsers!!

try john freida Friz-ease....its not just for frizzy hiar it can also help straiten your hair and stop it from spazzing when its humid..haha...also there are other straitining shampoos and conditioners..but also comb your hair in the shower when you have the conditioner and comb it when get out of the shower...this helps...i have very think straight hair, and it helps to sleep with my hair either down or in a loose low ponytail..if you want it straight at the top- just pull it into a tight ponytail when its wet....

if you need more advice..comment me or IM me

muchh lovve

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ON the last day of school my best friend told me she would be going to private school next year. I really had a tough time making friends the whole year and she really was one of the only friends i had. She's away at sleepaway camp for 8 weeks and I can't see her!!! She didn't respond to any of my letters either. I'm scared to go through a year of school without her. I'll be so lonely!!! What can I do to make the best of the school year???

try to focus on making new friends...im not saying that you should forget your friend, but try to make new ones too. like i said in another comment...just randomly strike up a conversation- be like "ugh that science test was a tough one" or " are you going to the dance this weekend- im really excited..." ect...trust me- you will make friends- but dont try too hard. a lot of times other people are looking for friends too...and also its easier to make friends when its not a big group cuz the you can conncect with the perosn more...

if you need more advice..comment back or IM me- roxmyworld456

muchh lovve

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How do you get your skin to look really healthy? I want mine to look like it's glowing and no acne and stuff. Is there anything I can eat or do?

WATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


and try proactive..it works even if you dont have acne- it really makes skin softer and smoother...but reall about the water- it flushes all the toxins out of your body- it not only makes you skin amazing but it helps you keep and nice toned figure...my moms a model/ health nut- trust me, i kno!

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AHH i burned my head with my straightener and i need to get something that will make the scar go away or fade drasticly...its a white spot on the tip top of my forehead! quick! school starts in like 4 days!

try mederma..it works...until you can find something...put foundation on it..ask your mom or a docter if theres anything to do- it wont make the scar dissapear..but theres also things in like rite aid that you can get that are patches that you put on at night to help fade the scar...

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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hey my bro's are 12 years old, they are twins!!!,im looking for a modeling job 4 them!!,how do i start??

um go to the mall and get some pics done of them...try to find a talent agency or an agent in the phone book...or google it...send out pics of them to modeling agencys..sometimes if you look in the last 3 pages of like teen mags like J14 and stuff there ads for modeling...

my moms a model...comment back if you need more advice and i can ask her...


hope i helped

muchh lovve

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school's starting soon and i have no friends there. i usually follow this group around b/c i have nobody else to. they never talk to me ever. nobody does. i'm like an outcast with no friends. i try talking & they talk back, but then it just doesn't work out. i've tried everything, i can't make friends. i make friends real easily outside school b/c i'm outgoing, but in school, i try being outgoing and everyone blocks me out. i can't move to a new school. i don't know what to do. please help i need friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what i did when i changed skls was that i just kinda struck up random conversation with people...be like- " did you think that science test was hard?" or like " are you excited about the dance, what are you gonna wear..." this will lead to conversation...try to get people when they are alone- its harder to talk to a group cuz theres too many people...if you end up befriending one person- you will eventually end up befriending all of their friends- and BAM- youve got friends!!

hope i helped

muchh lovve

comment back if you still have questions

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Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!!

if you know he likes you back then just kinda flirt more with him and let him know SUBTLY that you wanna go farther in your relationship...you can touch him..or hang out just you and him...sit closer to him...put your arm around him((this is recomended only of you know him well))- or when your saying goodbye, hug him and kiss him on the cheek

when my crazy but awesome friends want to get me with a guy that i liked-at a dance she grabbed the 2 of us and made us slow dance together-we ended up laughing about it, but then afterwards i got his sn and we talked and later he said that he liked me and that we should hang out sometime...

try different things, but if he still dosnt get the message..just say to him- " i think that i want to take our relationship farther..." make sure that he can tlk to you about it- you both have to be totally comfortable...

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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Okay, this may turn out to be long, but here it goes. My family and I go to church every Sunday, and there's this guy who's like 14 and he's really cute. I really like him and we make eye contact and everything. So I want to go up to him and ask him to go (with my parents :-( } and I dom't know what to say. So my mom suggested maybe I should try writing him a little brief note and write my name and # down. I have no idea what to write on the note, let alone what to say to him while giving him the note. I really need help on this. And I need it soon. So please help, and guys would be good for answering this question. Thanks

XcheerbabeX ♥

if you dont like the note idea, try to catch up with him after church and just talk to him...or you can give him your sn or # or w/e

you can just slip him the note when your leaving- you dont have to say anything- or you could say something like call me...the note could be like

Name
Number

or if you want something more personal you could pass little notes back and fourth everytime you see him-

hey,
im {your name here}...my sn is {your sn here} or my # is {your number here} call me sometime...
or you could say write back....and put a little heart next to your name- its like note flirting..haha....


hope i helped

muchh lovve

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i'm a 15 year old girl who is friends w/ this guy whose turning 16 in a week. i dont know him that well, but he invited me 2 his party. what should i get him? (i can spend like $30)

some cool ideas

- CDs
- hats (u kno like sports teams or trucker hats)
- tee shirts (but take note that most guys like worn out or baggy shirts...)
- you can make a mix of his fave songs
- jerseys from his fave sports team


if you need more ideas i can ask my bro(hes also turning 16)

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when ever i download the sims2, and i put the thrid disc in, it freezes there, my freind kammi (hi kamz!) said she doesnt know, i have the sims2 doewnloaded on a diff computer, but im not allowed on it, because i got my own, and its my sisters and she doesnt want me to delete the families and stuff like that! can you tell me why its freezing? (it freezes at exactally 49%)

i have the sims2- you might want to go do something else when its loading b/c it does take a while...if it continues to freeze(like after a very long time...) i would either go to sims2.com or even go back to the place you got the game from beacuse most of the time they know whats going on...


oh and if that dosnt work try installing it on the D or E drive b/c sometimes the C is all full...E works the best...and the fastest...


hope i helped

muchh lovve

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I know i already talked about this but i dont care. its REALLY BUGGiNG ME. my bestfriend krystal got a new bestfriend heather. and everything about her just kills me. the simplist things. i dont care if im accting immature. i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me. all krystal talks about is heather this and heather that and how GOOD she is. it gets to me, so much. i cry myself to sleep so much. what do i do? i have already told krystal multiple times that i feel left out and ignored.

maybe krystal thinks that you dont wanna hang out with her...dont worry about it- thing will go back to normal...if you really want some alone time with her to hang and tlk..be like- "hey we havnt hung out in a while- why dont we got to the mall this weekend?"

or sometimes if theres like a dance you can get ready together..be like

" hey wanna come over to my house b4 the dance so we can get ready....and maybe we can have a s/o after..like the old dayys..."

if you need more advice- im here 4 ya...dont ever hesitate to ask..

muchh lovve

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I'm a 3rd year high school student and I stay at the dormitory. The freshies in the dormitory wanna make friends with me. I'm just wondering if how could I make friends with them. I know I should make the first move because I'm older than them and the're new at our school.

they most likely look up to you b/c your older and are looking for advice from anyone...

start with something like- hey, do you guys have [ put a teachers name in here ]? he/shes an awesome teacher....

or

hey do you need any help finding your classes, if you do just ask me anytime...

most likley if you strike up a convo- they will tlk to you after that....

muchh lovve

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

if its something important to you, i deffinantly think you should tell her...you should tlk to her, she wont freak if you explain it to her...and plus- you dont want the topic to come up- causing you to have to explian why you kept it a secret....and if she dumps you- shes MO. DEF. not the right girl 4 u, you want someone who accepts you n.m.w!!!

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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i think im bi polar does anyone kno the symptoms of that and liek on min im happi then out of no where im crying! is something wrong with me pleaseee helpp!!1 ill rate 5's for any advice

a lot of people have moodswings...but if you want to stop getting them, ask your parents to contact your doctor...its not a rare condition, but i'm pretty sure its treatable...but just so you know- theres nothing rong with you....haha

mucch lovve

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Im looking for a really good straightener i can buy online, i have a credit card except my mom says i cant only spend up to like..70 bucks, my hair is wavy and im not sure what to get. so does anyone know of any straighteners that i could get online, that deliver withhin like 7-10 days, and that would be within 70 bucks (including shipping and handling)?? Thanks so much for neones help!

my friend got an AMAZING straightner at target...try target.com and search keyword hair straightners

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i have a crush on my BFFs bf...help

hey there

what you really need to decide is if your friendship with your BFF is worth risking over a boy....in past expierience, friendship always comes first...but if you simply cannot shake this feeling off, you should either talk to your friend about how you feel, or try to not hang out with the guy, hang with your other friends and try to get your mind on other things.

hope i helped

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