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15.female.Texas.

I'm 15, freshman, still havent gotten my frist kiss! Ugh so frusterating! But in this area like 50% of people havent gone out wit someone yet or kisses someone. Is this weird? and makes me frusterated! Wat can I do?

its not weird at all
whatever you do, dont feel rushed
wait until you feel comfortable
when the time is right, you'll know it
just relax, and you'll be fine

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he wants to please me.. but he doesnt want to recieve from me. he is waaayyy to nice (opens MY car door when I drive)... we try to do stuff physically and he always is giving to me (without me even asking). but when i try to give to him, he will stop me and say that he doesnt need that from me... just being with him makes him happy. i feel like he's not attracted to me or something (im pretty good looking as he says), but he swears he is & emotionally i know he's attracted to me. even with intercourse he will get soft & have to stop. is he gay because he doesnt want anything from me?! (i know that NO guy would pass up an offer by a girl). am i not pleasing him? i dont know what to think or do!!

dont fret
he just wants to treat you like a queen
next time you want to do something for him
be like, i insist because you deserve to be treated well also
also, try talking to him about the situation
tell him that you feel as though he never lets you do anything for him
hope i helped =]

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Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks.

try talking to one another
get to know each other more
also, take a romantic walk
it will be pleasurable yet fun
hope i helped

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what is a halloween costume that involves two girls? (something me and my freind can be together)

go to
www.buycostumes.com
then go to couple/group costumes
they have the best costumes

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i'm going to homecoming in about a week and a half. but i have a bunch of zits on my chin and cheek and a few on my forehead that just all of a sudden popped up. how can i get rid of them before homecoming (in a week and a half)? please help!! thanks.

pro-activ i have it and you seriously see results within a couple days

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hi, well all the files, on my computer have gone. all the music, my work , everything! ive tried everything to get them back, including searching for them throughout my computer. can anyone help me? thanks in advance

try the recycling bin
if a file is there you can restore it
other than that just do what the person underneath me said

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okay my mom wont let me get my lip waxed,
and i feel like a have a mushcahe (sp?)


what should i do get rid of it?

DONT pluck it
if you do, 3 hairs grow in that spot
just die it or trim it with scissors

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How do you do the hairstyle in the pictures below( only the part that is pressed up)? i`ve tried but its just not working!



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grab the middle hair and pull back
then put clips but make it loose for the poofy effect
hope i helped =]

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Is there any way to whiten your teeth while you have braces? Is there a certain kind of whitener that I should use?

theres a toothbrush called clean between
its about 20 dollars but it totally helps because it has special ad-ons
that are just for your braces
hope i helped =]

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all my mates have kissed some1 , i havnt, what is the first kiss like and "how do you"kiss lol!
13/f
sadie x

dont rush
whenever you feel confortable
is when you should do it
also, its just like kissing your hand
dont worry
when the time comes
everything will just flow
=] hope i helped

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Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.

this might be because its easier to express yourself when your not talking right to the person. he also might be shy. try talking to him in class and making conversation. he'll start to feel more confortable around you

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im 13 and im scared. i dont kno if i should shave mi pubs or not. i know it's gross but help!

yea alot of girls are questionable about this. if you feel like you WANT to do it, go ahead. but if your scared, you dont have to. you shouldnt really even worry about this until your a little older, but just go with your instinct.

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my school has a secondary dance coming up on friday, and i don't know what to wear! i want to wear a skirt (not pants) if i can help it, but i don't know what i could wear for the top? maybe a dress??
also, i'm new to the school and i know there are guys that like me in my year. i'm scared that they are going to ask me to dance, and i have never EVER danced with a guy before, so how can i not panic about it?
:S
please someone help me!
thanks :D

wear a cute cami with a cover up which you would find at abercrombie

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=12249&productId=1&langId=-1

^^something like that

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im 14 and me and my friends are going out this year for halloween. i dont know what to be!! nothing like a witch or crap like that because thats little kid stuff.. i dressed up as a gothic person last year.. so i need cool ideas. im female so you know and im a prep if that helps and i like the color pink but and i might be a devil not sure so tell me your opinion for a devils costume am i too old? and give me new sugestions of costumes of your own. thank youuu.

well if you go on this site

www.buycostumes.com


they have adult costumes and stuff
and it has really good costumes
hope i helped =]

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This isn't exactly a "help me" kind of question, but, it is a valed question. I was just wondering, if anyone decides to answer me..."What is happening here?" I have been going through the questions and I am lucky if I see every 4th question have one answer! It used to be every question had at least 5 or 6 answers. Anything happening I should know about? Isn't anyone here anymore? Well, thank you for those of you who do answer.

it has been kinda quiet lately
but you can ask me stuff
i'm on here almost every day =]

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13/f
what are some fun hairstyles for school football games.
our school gets really into the whole school spirit thing, people paint they're whole bodies.

if you have any ideas of like ribbons or glittery things or easy to do styles. my hair is like shoulder length and my school colors are blue and gold.

thanks sooo much.
i need an answer REALLY soon.

try some wash out highlights
blue and gold
dont spray your whole head
but like strips of hair
btw you can get them at like party outlet and stuff

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all my friends are ragging me that i don't wear any thongs i was wondering why people wear them anyways since they so uncomfortable and what should i do about my friends

people wear them so you dont see their underwear under through their pants
you get used to them
and just tell your friends that you just dont want to and that they hafta deal with it
hope i helpedd =]

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help im only 14/m and like wen im like writing on white paper i see like strands of my hair on the paper and like if i shake my hair loads more hair will come out plz i think i mite go bald if it helps i use gel and fibre putty (together) my hairs not that long its like 7cm please tell me wat the problem is and how to make it go away :(

if your really nervous
try cutting your hair every month
(it can be a trim)
to thicken your hair
this might not completely solve the hair loss
but it will strengthen your hair
and produce more

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i asked for advice before. but i only got one response... please some more?

okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great one. but this year i had the feeling that he still liked me because he would flirt with me all the time. but then he is now dating another girl who i really do not believe things will work out with. but my question is that do you think i should tell him my feelings toward him? im not sure because he is dating a girl who he seems to like but i really want to let him know how i feel. and the girl he is dating is one of my semi-good friends too so i wouldnt want to hurt her either. but i dont know. i just want to know if there is a chance of us ever being together. but i dont know how i would talk to him about this. i need advice on what i would say. or the fact that i should even say anything at all. im just so confused.

+ today he was flirting majorly with me.

it would be greatly apprciated if someone would give me some advice on this. it means alot to me.

thanks,
juliaaaa

i would tell him your feelings like the girl below me said
but dont say that you dont think his gf isnt good for him
that will make him feel like your trying to push her away from him
just tell him and be like
i just wanted you to hear it from me
and i dont wnt to mess up your love life at the moment
but i thought you had the right to no
hope i helped =]

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We have to do a project about three of our friends. At first I was thinking "Oh I know who to put", but then my teacher said one needs to be a boy. (im a girl FYI lol) So I have no friends that are guys. There is this one guy I talk to online but he lives in New Hamshire so I don't consider that a friend, plus people wouldn't know who he was. So this project is due in about a month. What do you think I should do for this situation? Any answers are good for me. THANK YOU :D

if you have a month to do this project
start talking to some guys !
meet new people
and see if you become close
or ask some of your friends to hang out with their guys friends
i'm sure they'll help you

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