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Gender: Female Member Since: June 17, 2012 Answers: 186 Last Update: September 30, 2014 Visitors: 8360
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I dyed my hair with red splat 2 or 3 days ago trying to get my hair red like ariana grande. Well it came out way too bright. Since it's a direct dye I'm not worried about damaging my hair, so if dyed a dark brown over it would it fix it? What should I do? Please help. I need it fixed NOW. I can't go to a professional so please don't say that. They cost wayyy too much and I don't have the time. (link)
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Splat is made for bright hair I use it for that shade of red.try covering it with a dark auburn
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Where can I hide condoms in my room? (link)
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pull back dresser drawer-put in space beetween back behind drawer and close.------between matress and boxspring-----1.cut open pillow.2.place condoms inside3.sew up ppillow4.PUT PILLOW CASE ON THE PILLOW.veery important.hide pillow :3
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I an 13 and I want a baby but, I don't know what to do what should I do (link)
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how would you pay for it?it would not be your baby,your parents would pay for it and raisse it themselves.this is a human liffe you are talking about.the easiest way is to wait untill you are older
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How did you know when you were gay? I think i am. But i dont know. I have talked t my friend about it too.
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This is a difficult question.I always just knew but did not accept it untill recently.I constantly pushed down my feelings for others and felt like an outsider.No, not all people who feel different are gay.I never crushed on boys mostly.There were a few, but only the most feminine of men.It all comes down to who you are attracted to.Nothings set yet, we all grow and change.I know I am really, but stillbsometimes feel like a freak.Do not rush into things whatsoever.Recently I attended my first prom.A gay prom.I wentvwith a straight girl whose still figuring things out for herself.The community LGBTis very welcoming to all people gay, bi, straight, tranny.You are loved!and not alone? Bicurius means your well,.curius about your sexuality. dont rush and be open minded.keep talking with your frirnd, think it through.theres not a THING wrong with you:)
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I need help because i don't have a boyfriend, Everyone in my grade does... I am always bullied by all of the boys in my grade. I really want a boyfriend and fit in. I am A female and 11. (link)
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Why is it so important for you to fit in? When I was 11 I started to really want a boyfriend, but I realized I was gay.You dont need a man to feel loved.when im sad about being single I remember this poem___
Life does not have an instruction manual
I dont know who you are and im not very clever
But believe me, it gets better.
About the bullies kill em with kindness.it works everytime.when they call you names, ignore it, smile even if you want to cry, and say something nice to their cruel faces.they will shit! Bullies dont expect to be liked.pretend like it doesnt bug you, KILL EM WITH KINDNESS.remember , if you want to be loved accept all faults and love you first but not too much.keep friends close.keep busy.
Be friendly, try a new hairstyle get noticed! Dont let them hurt you honey, its hard.stsrt journaling anything so you dont fall into deppression like I did.inbox me anytime im always here
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Okay! Let me explain this . . . I am a bisexual girl, and I am about to go to high school. The problem is, I have a crush on my teacher. She is female like I am, and I think she is the most amazing, talented, inspirational, and beautiful lady in the whole world.
Here is the worse problem: everyone at my school can tell that I have a crush on her! They can see it in the way I look at that teacher and blush whenever I'm around her. I am often teased about my feelings for her, and people hate me because I am bisexual.
I am worried that someone is going to tell her that I have a crush on her, because then she would never see me in the same way. Any advice? I'd appreciate any. Thanks! (link)
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im bi too,and it will most likly not work oout.everyone has qa little smolder sometimes, and thats fine.i advise keepping it hush hush
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I'm 13 and I wanna cut. I'm gonna do it anyway so чou might as well let ме do it properly. So please don't tell ме not to. I wanna cut with a razor or with a knife or a scissors please help ме with one of those and tell ме how to take the blade out of a razor? Like a disposable one though if that's the one чou help with* thanks. And I want it to bleed a lot and not to much. And it can be on му stomach or му wrists (link)
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Im 13 years old and the first cut was the biggest mistake of my life.Ive cut for two years now, and its not worth the scars.Scissors make a weird cut and scars super noticable.Razor cuts give you a numb feeling and to be honest grt ya a bit flighty but stings terribly.Razors are like extreme paper cuts and turn purple and white later and make some of the worst scars I have all over my body.Knifes....dont mess with those its either too shallow to hurt or you pass out in pain.Dont do it love.I can honestly remember my first razor cut on pourpose when I was 11 because the pain was a shock.Its addictive.I told my self never again after those first few razor cuts...but its super addictive.I cannot convince you to stop once youv cut too deep.I have almost bled to death on accident and was forced to stitch it up myself.dont start up with this shit.and really......your asking this! Who on here wantd you to hurt yourself on here and no one will tell you how to didassemble a blade.I understand these urges.im here....email me at letmebe44@gmail.com anytime.what would make you eant to do this? Im always here to talk
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I have a character in a book I'm writing, her name is Taylor. It's a girl and she needs a last name. I was thinking about Taylor Hart or Taylor Lane. What do you think? Any other good last names for Taylor? (link)
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Cray.its got a ring, anf so does lane.luck to u :)
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I have a band but we don't have a name at the moment, our sound is pop-rock or alternative rock some acoustic sounds too. I've been thinking abou "The Underscene" but I'm unsure and I also for some reason like the phrase "Red Cloud" Anyways what do you think? Any suggestions? (link)
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No I like red cloud a lot.very unique. LUCK!
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So I have an Instagram fanpage for a YouTube star. On that fanpage, I had a fake name (The fake name was Genesis), and I put a different age on my Instagram.
Anyways, me and my cousin were hanging out and she suddenly asked "Hey, who's [YouTube star here]?" And then I told her I didn't know. But after that, she said "Are you sure, Genesis?" And then I just went on my phone and I told her I had to go.
Anyways, I just wanted to know how she found my Instagram and what do I do?! I was stupid and I followed her sister on Instagram and I told her sister how many followers I had.. Then I guess she looked through her followers and found me.
What I'm afraid of is that they told their whole family and stuff because I put all of this stuff like "Ugh.. I feel like killing myself" and "My mom is annoying me right now" and stuff like that. I don't know what to do... Should I just ignore my cousins for a few months until I think they forget about it? (link)
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Dont do anything thatll scars or youll regret
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I just got an iPod, and I'm realizing how much it costs to buy songs. It's so expensive, so I'm wondering, does everyone buy there songs like this and pay full price for each song? Everyone has so many songs but I don't see how because they're so expensive. I'm not looking for a way around this, I just want to know if the majority of people actually do it this way. (link)
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illegally
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Okay so I'm 13 and I cut му stomach last night(pls don't lecture ме about it I am seeing someone) I've cut му arms and му stomach before but now its really sore like more sore than normal and its really red and itchy and just feels worse please tell ме how to know if its infected like how I will know? No need to tell ме how to treat it just tell ме if it sounds infected and symptoms of infection or whatever* thanks!! (link)
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I cant stop you from cutting I know, I have for years.google infection signs.buy sum hydrogen peroxide and pour it onnthe cut, itll sting.if not avalable use first aid spray and neosporin w pain releif.keep it clean but avoid grtting shower water on it, it can wash the scab off.do not pick at it.dont wear tight pantd on it.im julia im 13 im a cutter for years i understand am here to talk whenever you need email me at letmebe44@gmail.com im here
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Hi,i am extremly depressed,sad.Its been like that for about 3years and im going to be 15 this year(im a girl),but i dont know if i can take it anymore,i really want to find a reason to live,believe me i am trying,but there's nothing,i decided to kill myself this summer,maybe even earlier,i dont like this world,i dont like the people,the only ones that matter are my parents,they were the only reason i didnt kill myself earlier,but i cant take it anymore,it hurts so much,i dont think that i can be fixed,its too late,i am broken. I dont really know why i wrote this,i guess i have a need to tell it. (link)
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Why would you ask if you're so very sure of yourself? No one here wants you to kill yourself. Listen to the voice of reason.I didnt think I eould survive to my age with all of my self harm, but here I am.im here if you need to talk.it would ruin everyone's summer.if you love and your parents matter yo you, DON'T KILL THEIR BABY GIRL THEY LOVE YOU
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Okay so I'm 13 and a girl and a model. I've been sexually abused by my brother in law(its been reported) my family always calls me a bitch,slut whore,ugly,fat ect.. I've took a OD a few times it never worked obviously since I'm alive. I cut myself. So lately I've been hearing voices in my head telling me I'm a bitch,no one loves me,I must starve to be thin,I'm a whore, everythings my fault,I must kill myself,the only way to end the pain is through cutting and suicide. The voices are killing me!! My bestFriend knows about them and says I might be depressed. I can't tell my parents or any relitive or anyone at school pls keep that in mind. Pls just help me I really need help. My family can't find out though. (link)
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Im also a 13 yr old girl and a cutter, anf have been for years.Beleive me its not worth the scars.Call a suicide hotline or call 911 imediatly.If your a model, I assume you are beautiful so get a counsler.Please dont beleive the voices and get a coundler.Inbox me if u need to talk im always here
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I am i 14 year old female and for the past few years my friends who i have known since i was 3 have been constantly been making fun of me and especially now that we are in high school its worse. They do it as a joke and it really hurts my feelings and i tell them most of the time that they're hurting my feelings and they say they'll try and stop but they never do. I can't deal with it anymore please help (link)
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They only can hurt you if you allow it.
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Or is there anything else that I can do to help my hair to grow more quickly? (link)
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If you go to cvs you can find hair growth syrum and that helps.also cut allbsplit ends
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My mom is finally letting me highlight my hair.I have black hair,with natural dark brown highlights.I can't have any bright colors yet.What would be a good color? (link)
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Not blonde, ever.I suggest a very dark auburn red or a red velvet cake color ive known people whov had this and its stunning
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I'm writing a story and I am looking for a girl's name that starts with an S and means "beautiful," or "dancer," or "beautiful dancer" can anybody please give me some options or website links? thanks for your help :) (link)
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Sabryn.she was my first love.
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I am 14 and I have an appointment with my doctor next week about gallstones.The date of my period is 28th of every month and they are quite regular.They lasts for one week.Please give me some quick home advice to make my periods come early because the doctor told my parents that he will take urine and some other tests.Please I will really thankful to you. (link)
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Wear white pants all the time....
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Mormons believe there are 3 levels of Heaven, but the Bible only mentions Heaven and Hell?
The Bible doesn't say anything about the Celestial Kingdom, Terrestrial Kingdom, and Telestial Kingdom. It just says Heaven & Hell.
Are there 3 degrees of heaven? (link)
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The morman bible says do, but you arent rewuired to beleive it, I'm an atheist but know a lot about religion for some reason.I dont beleivevin that, and its up to you to decide what you beleive.no one obviously had come back from the dead and proved heaven.but there is still a chance.we csn never truly knoe but beleivevin is as closevas you're hona get
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