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Question Posted Monday April 15 2013, 9:15 am

I'm 13 and I wanna cut. I'm gonna do it anyway so чou might as well let ме do it properly. So please don't tell ме not to. I wanna cut with a razor or with a knife or a scissors please help ме with one of those and tell ме how to take the blade out of a razor? Like a disposable one though if that's the one чou help with* thanks. And I want it to bleed a lot and not to much. And it can be on му stomach or му wrists

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AdreyannaHefflin answered Thursday April 25 2013, 12:57 am:
I used to cut for a long time, and when my mom found out she put me in the hospital. Believe me and everyone else who's been there, it's not fun. I believe you have your reasons, we all did/do, but it's really not worth the pain and bull that it puts you through. If you need somebody to talk to you can talk to a friend or family member or counselor or someone on here. I know it's not the answer you wanted, but it's the answer you needed. Hope this helps.

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lightoftruth answered Wednesday April 17 2013, 1:01 am:
No one here is even allowed to tell you how to do anything of that and what to use.

I did it for 6 years, it ruined me.

There are plenty of other girls (and boys) who have done this. It's so common because people think this will help them, and it won't. That's why people try to get help to stop.

Firstly, it will give you scars and you'll have them for a very long time.
How would your family and friends feel when they find out?

Cutting might communicate to yourself on how you feel about yourself but it doesn't exactly address the feelings.
Your feelings are valid, but how you are handling them isn't.

It's not ok to abuse other people or animals, what makes it ok to abuse yourself?

My advice to you is to find other ways to deal with your feelings. Don't take it out on yourself. You can talk to a counselor, go see a doctor.
At least try to find other ways to relax yourself.

I just don't want you to do something that you will regret.

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Ersted answered Monday April 15 2013, 8:50 pm:
I used to cut. The relief it brings is too short lived, and I wish now that I had never done it. My arm is covered in ugly scars I can never get rid of.

The relief you seek is from 'feel-good' chemicals your brain releases to comfort you when you feel physical pain. You can get these chemicals to release from ANY pain, not just pain that will leave scars.
If you MUST cause pain to yourself for relief, try something non-permanent. I whipping myself over the back once (literally only once, lol) with the plug end of a power cord. It hurt like hell, but didn't cause any scar or bruising and still provided the relief via pain that I was seeking.

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whythehellnot answered Monday April 15 2013, 6:06 pm:
Im 13 years old and the first cut was the biggest mistake of my life.Ive cut for two years now, and its not worth the scars.Scissors make a weird cut and scars super noticable.Razor cuts give you a numb feeling and to be honest grt ya a bit flighty but stings terribly.Razors are like extreme paper cuts and turn purple and white later and make some of the worst scars I have all over my body.Knifes....dont mess with those its either too shallow to hurt or you pass out in pain.Dont do it love.I can honestly remember my first razor cut on pourpose when I was 11 because the pain was a shock.Its addictive.I told my self never again after those first few razor cuts...but its super addictive.I cannot convince you to stop once youv cut too deep.I have almost bled to death on accident and was forced to stitch it up myself.dont start up with this shit.and really......your asking this! Who on here wantd you to hurt yourself on here and no one will tell you how to didassemble a blade.I understand these urges.im here....email me at letmebe44@gmail.com anytime.what would make you eant to do this? Im always here to talk

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kittenlover2000 answered Monday April 15 2013, 4:02 pm:
Please don't tell people who want to help you what advice to give and not to give. That's like you're not prepared to listen.

I'm just telling you that no one on here will tell you this, as you probably already know.

So whilst I wont tell you to not do it, as you don't want us to, I will advise you to see a doctor.

I just think if you were prepared to listen to people on this site tell you WHY you shouldn't cut yourself, then it'd be better. It's like you don't want to be talked out of it.

Please see a doctor.

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