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I am going to Alton Towers with my friends on the weekend but my parents wont let me go up in the car so i have said that i am going up on the train, but they want to see the train tickets and even take me to the train station but ive said that i am sleeping up my friends house and then we going to the train station together but really im going up in the car, what can i do to get around this i need help!!! (link)
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well if your parents beleive you than although its not right to lie to your parents what they dont know wont hurt them we all had to lie sometime but if the still dont beleive ask them why dont they trust you turn it around on them make them feel bad and if worse comes to worse have one of your friends pretend to be there aunt or mom what ever and lie lie lie until you know that your got through this lie with ease but rember since your lying make sure you dont trap ur self hope i helped
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Ok I wear pajamas to sleep but on tv and stuff I see girls wearing a tank top and some shorts.
Baby-ish? or am i old fashioned? (link)
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no i wear whatever im comfy in who cares what anybody else wheres fuck them do what you like i even where footy pjs and if thats not old fashion than i dont know what is i hoped i helped inbox is always open
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I'm in love with a grown man, sometimes it feels as though he may like me too, but I can't do much about it because he's one of my teachers and I just found out he was married while overhearing a conversation he was having with someone else... he's never mentioned it to me... but I love him, and this hurts and being around him hurts and i can't stop thinking about him and he's such a sweet guy and we get along great.. i've tried avoiding him, but that messes up my whole day and I feel like shit. What can I do?
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well your old enough to make your own decisions but honey i know you cant help who you fall in love with beleive me but since he's one of your teachers thats not only bad for you it could screw up your whole academic and personal life including yours and his reputation also he has a lot to lose his wife and his job so think if he doesnt like you or your not sure he doesnt like you than try to leave it be i know it hurts and its hard but honey try to switch teachers and aviod him at all cost i know its gonna hurt but if you keep on going the way your gonna your gonna hurt yourself even more i know eaiser said than done but it'll be better for you in the long run and if you both feel the same way about each other and your thinking of doing something or makeing a move remeber every action has a conquence and not all things are worth it i hope ihelped and sorry so long but my inbox is always open if you need any other advice i hope it works out for the best i know love hurts but sometimes we gotta deal
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I know this is a kind of personal question, but I've always kind of wondered what girls think when a guy gets a hard-on dancing with them. So basically, I only want girls to answer this question. Do you like it? Does it freak you out? Is it more of a compliment or is it offensive? Basically, just tell me what you think about when you feel a guy get hard when he's grinding with you, etc. thanks. (link)
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its a turn on for me i mean its a compliment it shows me that i turn you on and it shouldnt freak gurls out unless there immauture or pre madonna's you know but for me its a turn on and for those who get grossed out fuck them there are plenty of others who will be glad to dance with on aroused fello lol hope i helped my inbox is always open
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Lets say some astronaut dies on the moon? What would happen to his body?
I mean there are no bacteria, no warms and maggots...so... does that mean he could stay like this forever? (link)
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some plants do have bacteria but i think the body would disinergate anyway theres no oxygen so there would be nothing to stop the body from decompoing you know and it wouldnt just stay there forever because there are galaxys the sun and astroids and other things in our ever expanding universe actually i beleive 100% that we have life in other plants but hey good question it got me thinkin
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I HATE my parents and I want to move out SO badly like if I don't I swear to god I'm going to murder my mom thats how bad she is.I have no family in my area that I can stay with but my friend(boyfriend) said I can move in with him for a while to let things cool down...is it legal for me to do that ? (Kitchener Ontario Canada)
[Ps.I'm 13/female] (link)
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no unless your parents give there conset i beleive you have to be at least 18 in the usa and belevie i feel the way about my mom i know it sux but inless ur mom doesnt give you permission your screwed
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19/F
okay i know that if you have a cold sore and you suck a guy off you can give him herpes. but if you have a sore throut[sp] can you still give him that?? (link)
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if you have a sore thoat and you give a guy head no you cant give him a sore thoat through head but you can give him a sore thoat by kissin him i hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need help
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I have several best friends in my life, all of which are beautiful, caring, nice girls. But lately, they've been driving me INSANE. You see, they all have boyfriends, but their boyfriends are complete jerks to them! They convince them to lie to their parents, they take advantage of them when their drunk, they ditch them for their guy friends, they treat them like a piece of dirt, etc. And each one of my friends hates it when their boyfriends do those things, but they still think their boyfriend is the greatest thing in the world. I wish I could make them realize that they deserve sooo much better. I'm tired of them settling for an asshole of a boyfriend just because they NEED a guy to feel good about themselves. It's just not right and I just can't believe they would act so stupidly. How do I deal? (link)
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well people act stupid for guys for many reason one they beleive themselves in love and most dont want to be alone they cant go with out a guy so they put up with the assholes and the guys act like assholes because they know that they can they know that they can walk all over there gurlfriends because they know they can theres really nothing you can do expect all though it may hurt there feelings but be brutally honest tell them that there stupid and there boyfriend really dont love them and there playin them for a fool there using them tell them to get over it they dont need a guy to make them complete there fine by themselves and they always got a friend in you i know its hard to watch this happen to your friends but its a battle that they have to fight and hopefully win all you can do is give advice and be there to pick them up when they fall when they the harsh reality and you were right i hope your friends come around you cant make them change there minds and remeber honesty helps sometimes so be honest and tell them i hope i helped and sorry its so long and confusing my inbox is always open if you need any more help
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1'm 14/f and i was wonderin if you knew of any good ways to masterbate lol
my friend says she does it and it feels amazing but she is "too embaressed" to tell me what she does...
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i do it several different ways first i do it with my finger i dont finger myself(cause im still a virgin and i dont want anything up there yet but i heard it feels good virgin or not) i play with my clitours do any way that feels good to you or i have a messagor that vibrates its suppossed to be for your back,neck and legs but no no no its for my own personal use just put it right on the edge of your clirours and move around you know your'll find your own motion and the best is the water ok when im in the bath i run the water and crawl over put my feet on the wall and let the water run down on my clitours if feels fantasic remember you may not come right away so keep it there untill you shake and curl your toes lol i hope i helped you can also use a removeably shower head please feel free to ask any other questions i hope it workes out thanx peace
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Like if sperm is like dryed out can it still make you pregnent? If like someone -eats you out with sperm on their lips can u pregnent if there tongue wasnt inside you and what time of the month do you get preganent? (link)
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i truly dout that you can get pregnet for that theres not enough sperm to enter your virgina for you to get pregent so i wouldnt worry about that i hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need anymore advice
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i've had a crush on this one guy for pretty much 6 years. it's so weird, we BOTH liked each other, and we both knew it, but neither of us ever said anything. we dated other people. it sounds so stupid, but i'm infatuated with this kid. we've only spoken twice. anyway, i haven't seen him in like a year. i'm going to a party tomorrow night and he's going to be there. he's single. what am i supposed to do? this is badly worded but i am stressed and sleepy :( (link)
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ok well if you like him and you know he liked you go for it just go up to him and start talking dont be shy again like you said nothing happened before because nobody said anythin this is your chance you may not get another one do you want it to just pass by and thats it be the leader its ok to be forward sometimes you never know you could come out the winner theres no use in playing it safe all the time try to stay calm and show him what hes been missing lol i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open and besides whats the worse that could happen he could say no oh well at least you tried and went after what you wanted go for it
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Is it wrong to want a lot of affection from my boyfriend? He was never really into being all touchy and stuff but he's changed a lot since he fell in love for the first time- me being the one.
I get cuddles and kisses, but I feel like i'm constantly giving him every possible moment I can to make him feel good. Head jobs are ALWAYS on my mind coz I like that he blows. (sorry to be gross.)
I just want anything sexual from him all the time. I cant get enough of my own boyfriend who's 19 and im 20. He' so good looking. I always touch myself over him. Is that bad? (link)
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no why would it be bad if he doesnt mind your both in love theres nothing wrong with showing it and i bet if you told him you masterbated to him itll be an compliment i know if somebody said they masterbated to me i would give them something real to masterbate too lol but no i dont think its bad i think its sweet
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ok, i put my bra in the wash and it got out into the dryer and when it came out part of the bra is like caving in a little. i tried putting it back in the wash w/out putting it in the dryer but it really didn't help, is my bra ruined? or is there something i can do to fix it? (link)
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it happens all the time to my bra's uasually when i wear it again it'll take its original shape sometimes the two front ends stick out but sometimes i try cover that by wearing an extra shirt like an under shirt u know tank top i hope i helped
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16/f the problem is everytime i look at my boyfriend i smile. there is no whipping the smile off my face. i went to talk to him abuot something important today that has been bothering me.. that things weren't the way it used to be.. every since the third time we had sex.. he just doesn't call me as much and we don't talk as much... i said to him 'sometimes i just wish you would call me just to say hi' and i smiled. i told him i was trying to be serious.. but i couldn't help but smile. i asked him if he still wanted to be together and he said 'i guess' wtf? i think he was just nervious because he thought i was going to dump him or somethingg
so i guess my question is.. i am in love with him no doubt about it.. i want everything to work out but he never thinks i'm serious (he did realize i was serious today though when i looked at him) but whenever we talk i always forget what i really wanted to say and what was bothering me. so how can i better my relationship? (i never told him i loved him because i kno it will push him away)
alsooo. he has a lifetime grudge against the female race. we never faught but he doens't treat me like his girlfriend unless it's just us. =/ (link)
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well it seems to me that you do love him and about him saying i guess nervous or not thats not the right thing to say some how you need to find a way to talk to him and tell he what your writing to us if you cant do it to his face than write it a letter if saying i love you pushes him away than eventally hes going to push you away anyway so be completly honest and tell him that you understand where hes coming from but now he has to understand where your coming from you know you should tell him to start treating you like a gurlfriend and to take you seriously you know the relationship is never going to work if your afriad of him pushing you away you know what i mean i hope ihelped good luck and sorry if i confused you my inbox is always open if you need help
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does liking a girl when u're a girl too instantly means that ur gay or bisexual?
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no but theres nothing wrong with beging by or gay if your thinking about the same sex in a sexual way it could mean that your bi/curious most people are even if they dont admitt it its completly natural and normal and if you are gay or bi do what you need to do theres no reason why you shouldnt explore your sexual boundries im bi and i love it who cares what anybody else thinks im me not who others want me to be i hope i helped my inbox is always open
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I had sex with someone I liked a long time ago
and we both lost our virginity to eachother.
I havent done anything sexual with anyone since then, and I know for a fact he hasnt either.
I still think about it all the time, literally all the time and I want to do it again.
It drives me crazy because I think about it so much.
Do you think he thinks about it too?
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he will always remeber you because you were his first you were something special to him weather he wants to admitt it or not and it sounds to me like you guys still talk and if thats the case than im sure he thinks about it and since you said that he knows he hasnt done anything sexual with anybody else so likley that hes thinking about you also just a word of intrest if you still talk to him and him you and you feel you guys are still into eachother maybe you could take it slow and try to rekindle the fire that once burned i hope ihelped goodluck my inbox is always open if you have anyother questions
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Would shaving my pubes make me look bigger and better? (link)
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im assuming your a guy shaving your pubes will make you look bigger because you dont have as much hair coving you and about making it look better i guess it would look neater my freinds shaves there pubes and there they said that there gurlfreind likes it better because its easier to give head and ect and they said it has a better feeling i hope i helped my inbox is alway open if you need any more help
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what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good (link)
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well it all depends if its sexual try to be more open if your already not but dont do so if your not ready or w/e you know make it fun and unforgettable and we all know that you have the power lol you know role play and you know since relationships are not always bout the physical try doing what he enjoys doing be involeved in what he involed in show him that you care and just to be on the sure side you really shouldnt have to do anything that amanazing because if he loves you than you should make him feel good no matter what you do you know just basically show that you care that your willing to sacrifice and that hes not in the relationship by himself you know try to play games wrestle cards can be fun just use your imangation movie you know i hope i helped thanx for your question my inbox is always open if you have more i hope i helped goodluck
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Well...I shave my legs and arm pits...I have shaved " down there " Twice but its really weird cuz you can see the hair under the skin and it pokes and pinches and gets itchy what am I doing wrong ? Oh ya I have a lot of dark hair down there...but I'm blonde ?? WHAT THE HELL ? lol (link)
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sometimes that happens to me i guess you have to shave regularly you know like every 3 days or something me personally i really dont shave that much so you know less is more but try putting lotion down there and just keep it well maintance it might be annoying but hey what can you do and about your hair being blonde and your pubs not matching its normal i know a few people who have the same problem i mean it shouldnt be a big deal right your uniqe but if it bothers you you could always die your hair brown lol goodluck hope i helped
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f/13 ok. two of my close friends(both female) despise each other and fight sometimes. i don't know what to do. i dont pick sides. but the thing is, i have a crush on one of them. and well, my main problem here is: how could i get them to get along? or at least tell them what they should do?
help me.. (link)
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i have the same problem im actually dating one of my friends and well she hates my other friend and she hates her as well i never choose sides and i try to equal my amount of time spent with each and i try to explain to them that they should get a long but of course they dont they might get mad at me but they respect me i dont choose one over the other and i tell you eigther deal with it or not your not my only friend so i dont want to hear it you know i guess theres nothing you really can do you cant force them to like eachother but just be careful what you say about the other to the other you know your aloud to have more than one friend hope i helped my inbox is always open
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