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crush of six years
i've had a crush on this one guy for pretty much 6 years. it's so weird, we BOTH liked each other, and we both knew it, but neither of us ever said anything. we dated other people. it sounds so stupid, but i'm infatuated with this kid. we've only spoken twice. anyway, i haven't seen him in like a year. i'm going to a party tomorrow night and he's going to be there. he's single. what am i supposed to do? this is badly worded but i am stressed and sleepy :(
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Truth be told, that is kinda ridiculous. Well, ask him out. first, complement (sp?) him and then ask him out but after you've spiked a conversation, like this (mid-conversation): "Hey, (insert name here) I love your (insert something to compliment here. Guys need them too!). Oh, yeah,(act like you just remembered) I was wondering if you'd wanna go see (insert name of movie here) with me." then he'll say yes, and then you make plans with him after the movie too. Yay!
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ok well if you like him and you know he liked you go for it just go up to him and start talking dont be shy again like you said nothing happened before because nobody said anythin this is your chance you may not get another one do you want it to just pass by and thats it be the leader its ok to be forward sometimes you never know you could come out the winner theres no use in playing it safe all the time try to stay calm and show him what hes been missing lol i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open and besides whats the worse that could happen he could say no oh well at least you tried and went after what you wanted go for it
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If you both like each other and you are both single, then there would be absolutely no problem with you asking the guy out. This is a crush that has gone on for 6 years?
About time to act on it, if I do say so myself.
P.S. Don't drink, as advised before me. You don't need alcohol to express your feelings. In fact, saying how you feel while drinking only tends to make people take you less seriously. You don't want that.
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Dominate him, and I literally mean dominate. Sounds like he's a pretty sad, shy, sad fuck to me, and he just needs to be shoved. I aint a problem for a woman to be forward at all. Guys are the ones who have to watch out. Just make sure you guys had a few beers, and then it'll be easy.
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