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Compliments?
i have had 1.5 boyfriends so far (im 13/F) and both have treated me like a princess. they have both been so nice to me and told me i was nice and everything. with the first boy, i dont think i liked him, i liked the attention. at the time i thought i really liked him though. but it didnt work out. now, im talking with this other boy and hes being so nice to me. we hung out so much on sunday and i really started to like him, and that was when we were hanging out just as friends. now, i really really like him, and we cant stop texting eachother. but now im wondering if i like him or just the compliments or the idea of having a boyfriend. whenever he says anything im a little unsure if he really means it because of my last boyfriend who was all talk and didnt mean a thing he said to me. my mom wont let me go out with this boy because our parents are friends and she dosent wan t it to be awkward when we brake up, and ive told him this. he still tells me he loves me. i love him back. i know its like puppy love not real love. how do i getover this feeling that he is just talking? how do i act around him because i like him so much but i cant go out with him? how can i show him that i like him? what can i say to him? and do you think hes just saying this stuff or that he realy means it? dont be afraid to be harsh i know i deserve a slap in the face right now but thanx!
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ask if he really means it. be like do you really mean that or you just being nice.
i think he does mean it. why wud he make stuff up he has no reason to.
tell your mom you should be allowed to go out with him and she shouldn't interfere. who cares that your parents are friends. tell her you really really like him. she should understand.
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I wouldn't say you need a slap on the face, but I would say that you need to realize that it is most likely infatuation you are feeling rather than love.
I think he already knows that you like him, with the constant texting and all. Don't fret there.
How do you act around him? Act how you normally act around him. He likes you for who you are already. The same goes for what you say to him.
Do I think he's just talking? I don't know the guy, so I can't give you a certain answer on this. I would say that he cares about you, for certain.
I do agree with your mom on the awkwardness that would be there if you were to break up. I don't know how old you are, but the best advice I can give you on this is to have patience. Wait until you are older before you decide to go out with each other. That way you know your feelings for each other are more than just infatuation, giving your relationship a better chance to grow rather than die out.
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