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ok i have a boyfriend and my old best friend reallllly likes him and i haent talked to her in 3 yrs but still she realllly likes him and i do too but i dnno and heused to like her but now he says he doesnt and i dont hink he does help.......
Hmm...well, I wouldn't be too concerned. However, if you still consider this girl a friend, then you should talk to her. I mean, you'd want your friends to talk to you, right? If she isn't a friend, then she is really no different from any other girl who may like this guy...let the best one win, lol.
Hey Lauren,
Im 14 years old and I found out a lil' while ago that my girlfriend was grinding at a dance with another guy and huggin' and other stuff. I wasn't there cuz i had to go to a practice. What should I do?
Sincerely,
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Depending on who told you this information, I'd be questioning its validity. Either way, you have every right to be concerned, so I recommend confronting your girlfriend. If you let it go, it can lead to further trust issues, which can kill a relationship fast! Good luck =X
...by the way, do I know you?
Ok here is the thing.. this guy at my school likes me right.. but i dont like him. he kept askin me out and i kept sayin no so the other day he wrote me this note and it said i really like u so do u wanna go out with me if u say no i will leave u alone .. and i felt really bad for him cuz he sounded sooo sad so i said yes.. but he keeps callin me and i keep giving him excuses that i cant talk on th phone. . but yesterday he called me and his friend started talkin to me and sakin me questions about him like if i love him or not and i said i dont know then they both got mad at me.. i really want to break up with him but dont know how to put it.. can some one PLEASE help me!
Wow, awkward. Well, I say it's better to just break up with the guy than to lead him on and then send him all these negative signals. He'll be a lot better off in the long run.
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well im going out with a great guy i love him to death he is awesome and every thing well my ex-still likes me and he is always telling me how pretty i look or that he likes me and he will always call. i dont know wat to do bc i still kinda like my ex but i love my bf but every day i think i start to like my ex more wat do i do?
from confused
Based on the information, I'd say to stay with your boyfriend. If you "love" your boyfriend and just "like" your ex, then that seems to be the right choice to me. Plus, he's your ex for a reason, right? Remember why you broke up in the first place, and then make your decision. Good luck!
Has anyone tried the Curious perfume by Britney...if so, did you like it??
Lol, go to just about any department store and find out for yourself =) I thought it was "okay"...
ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.
I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx
That depends on your frame. Some people are just naturally skinny...but since you've stopped getting your period, you may want to get a professional's opinion. If you haven't had it for very long, then it may still be irregular, which is normal. 103 at 5'6 IS skinny, but that may be healthy for you. Those sites are more of a generalization, so seek a doctor's advice. =)
Well we wanna put songs in the playlists but i dont kno how. i also want a chat room. Do u kno how to put one in? This one girl put a playlist but she didnt teach me how to put songs in it.
When you say chatroom, I'm assuming you're talking about those boxes on the right side of the screen where people can post messages. In which case, go here to register:
http://www.flooble.com/
...click "chatter box"
..."get your free chatterbox"
...(I'll skip this next part because I'm assuming you don't need me to tell you your name and such, lol)
...after you register, it should give you instructions as to how to get a code and where to paste the code once you get it.
As for the playlist, okay, well I can't paste it on here because advicenators won't support the html...
But go to that site I gave you the first time and check out that code. Towards the top, you'll see "Song Title"...replace this with the song title. As you continue to scroll, you'll see "SONG URL HERE"...that's where the corresponding song URL goes. Copy and paste the code in its entirity onto your site, and it SHOULD work. If you're still confused, I'll answer more =)
How do u use WinMx to download music on a blank cd. Thankx
Transfer your files from WinMX to another program (such as Windows Media Player)...not that it's legal, but who said anything about that? lol.
(14/f) Okay, say I really want to see a rated R movie but my mom won't let me.. If I just go to like Walmart or Target to buy it, do they require you to be 17/have an I.D./have parental supervision? Thanks in advance.
That's a good question. They've never asked me before, but hard to say...Your decision to go against your parents, but you could always just try it. What's the worst the cashier can do? Tell you to put it back? lol...
Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?
I think you need to be asking the guy this question... but sounds to me that the guy respects your feelings, but is STILL just a typical guy, lol! It's fine that you aren't comfortable with the idea just yet, though. Let him know how you feel. If he thinks any less of you for it, then forget him!
me and my bf got in a big fight on wednesday....and i hung up on him and everything he hasnt called me or got online since then and im not gonna call him bc it was his fault that we had the fight...how long should i give him to call me? i dont wanna wait to long and lose him...but i wanna work it out but let him no im mad....when do u think i should call him n b lyke ok we really need to talk...and blah blah...he usually ALWAYS calls me...but idk he hasnt yet....so how long do i give him?
Call HIM. It's the mature thing to do. It's fine to be angry, but if you care about the relationship, then stop worrying about winning this fight. You can just as easily let him know you're mad once you call him. Good luck!
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last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ
SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY
Wow, okay. I would suggest talking to more guys. They obviously don't know you or they wouldn't be afraid of you (unless of course they're really shy, lol). Once they get to know you, they may become more comfortable with the idea of asking you out. Try not to be jealous of your friend. I know it's hard, but jealously can screw a relationship over like nothing else...believe me. Good luck!
i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!!
*reads "additional info"* Wait, so your mom says you can't go with him? Hmm...well, in that case, I would just focus on trying to strengthen your relationship as friends. Your parents will probably come around sooner or later!
hey someone put it in for me but me and my friend wanna learn how to put songs in cause we cant rely on her fro everytime we want a song in? can u explain. Thanx for the help again.
I don't fully understand your question. Sorry, can you try rephrasing?
...if you're asking how to insert the songs in the playlist, it's pretty simple. Just right click the title of the song (found on sites where you can get the songs, obviously lol)>>properties>>copy the "address"/url>>and paste into the spots in the code (they should be marked).
Again, sorry if that isn't what you were asking..feel free to ask any further questions, and I have several sites where you can get music! Post again, or IM me..xxlauren923xx
I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!
I'm not really an expert on memorizing lines, but I when I'm memorizing music, I go line by line (or in your case, sentence by sentence). Repeat the first sentence over and over until you think you've got it down, then move on to the next one. After you think you have that one, try saying the first and second together...and so on. Good luck =)
I like this guy from a different church.. i see him once a month and i really like him. what should i do?
please help me
That depends...if you're okay seeing him so little, or if you think it'd be possible to see him more, then go for it! Just tell him how you feel. If not, then...well, it's all about you and how often you feel you need to see him.
I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha
What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?
Swaeeeeeeeeeet. Man, I wish I could rule the universe!! Can I be your Co ruler?!
14/f sorry this is long, but i rate high :)
I have liked this one guy for a very long time. I have told him a few times i liked him but he never responded to it. Well i havent told him for awhile and i have been getting the vibes that he does a little bit now. Im really confused on what to do. I dont want to say it straight out again and get rejected, but i dont want to be left wondering. What are some ways i would DEFINETLY be able to find out besides asking his friends :P
Thanks a million!
The only way to DEFINITELY get the truth is by going to him. If you think he likes you, but aren't sure, try waiting awhile. Maybe he'll approach you, and if not, at least you'll get a better feeling for what he's thinking!! Sorry I couldn't be of more help. Good luck!
i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef.
Yeah, this is a tough one. BUT, what you need to realize (and focus your attention on) are your qualities OTHER than your looks. Once you become comfortable with yourself as a person, the physical things start to become less important. The people who will like you only for your looks aren't the kind of people you want in your life, anyway!
Ok there are these boys in the back of the bus SO anoying!They always make fun of the girls in cluding me, Its is so anoying so pam always says WHY THE HECK SHOULD I LISTEN TO YOU? and they always say WHY THE HELL SHOULD WE LISTEN TO YOU! really pisses me off!They always get on my case!
PLease help!
~*~BratTina~*~
Yeah, guys can be immature...especially young guys. Just ignore them. Ignoring people tends to piss them off and kill all motivation to further pick on you--it's no fun without a response. They'll outgrow it...maybe. ;)Until then, good luck!