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well i was talking to this guy i love and he loves me too but earlier he got mad bc i left the room to spend time with my friends and i didn't really see him today so he wanted to spend time with me but i left. and now he thinks i don't love him or care about him yet i keep saying i do. he doesn't believe me ): and he keeps acting dry and saying yep & mhm. i don't know what to do anymore. then i am like look it looks like you wanna be alone so i should leave you alone and he's like sure do what you want. i don't understand. just bc of that he is really sad and stuff. now he is ignoring me after i said i love u. (link)
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Hi! He needs to learn how to respect your time and space. Maybe you made a mistake, but it was one mistake, not your fault! Instead of telling him you love him constantly, tell him how he's making you feel right now. If he wants you to love him and respect him he should do the same to you. Tell him that if he wants your love he needs to show you his. I hope this helps.
-Swimmer133
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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Hi! It is really hard to lose someone you love a lot. I think the best thing to do right now is to take a break from each other until your bf is fully recovered because right now your relationship is not healthy at all! You can still be friends until he's ready to move on. Now don't take this the wrong way, but he could be using you to feel love and affection from someone, but that's probably not the real reason why. You also need to understand, and think about his loss too. Imagine losing someone you love dearly, and never getting to see them again, it's hard a difficult. So as of right now the best thing to do is to take a break from each other until he has fully recovered from his loss. I hope I helped you.
-Swimmer133
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Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills). (link)
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Hello!
Suicide is a VERY serious topic to talk or to even think about. In my opinion I think you should tell people you trust not just a psychiatrist, or go to a different psychiatrist. Committing suicide is NOT the answer to your problems. The only way to get out of it is to face your problems, now I'm not trying to say reenact what happened at the of five, but get your voice out there, tell someone. I guarantee this will make you feel a lot better. Now I'm not 100% sure if this is the kind of advice you're looking for, because I can't do much over a computer screen, but if you go out there and tell people you trust, they'll make a drastic change for you, because they care about you!
-Swimmer133
sorry if this advice is bad :/
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Every time I listen to a song, it's about sex. Boy celebrities only care about boobs, sex, vaginas, and big butts, and pretty women. For girl celebs...damn, ho it up. It seems that slutty girls are famous. Kesha can't sing without auto tune, but still gets fans by shaking her fake body. Miley Cirus is payed to put stuff in her mouth and twerk, while she constantly sticks her toungue out yet wrecking ball is played everywhere. And what happened to clothes???????? Middana was not very good, but became a big bag of money over pointy boobs. Brittney Spears, can't sing, can't dance, acts like a slut, rich as Fuck. Rihanna. She wears nothing but a bra and underwear and posts naked photos of herself. But everybody knows her. “hey, you know Rihanna mountain man?" “of course." Lady gaga… she used to be good but now her music videos scare me, I can't even watch them. It's like, one celeb acts slutty and gets rich and famous, then it starts of a chain reaction of sluts taking it to the next level. (link)
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Hello!
I defiantly agree with you about female artists these days! Some of my personal favorites are Colbie Calliet (I can never get her last niame right), Sara Barailles (I can't get her last name right either), Lenka. They do have songs about love, but they don't dress like sluts, and some of their songs are actually inspirational, and not about love. I don't know if you've ever heard the song Brave by Sarah Barailles before, but it has a really good message, and Colbie's song Try also has an inspirational message. Another artist that I completely forgot is Sabrina Carpenter, and Jason Mraz. I also like cover artists Alex G, Alex Goot, Max Schneider etc. Anyways I hope this helped you a little!
Best Wishes
-Swimmer133
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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Hello!
First off, You are nowhere near ugly! Second your hair is kind of long in the front. I think you should cut it down a little, (this is just my opinion) but overall I think everything else about your hair is great, it looks really healthy too!
Best Wishes
-Swimmer133
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Does anyone know how much to feed a puppy and how often you are supposed to do the feeding? (link)
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Hello!
On the back of the dog food bag, or can it shows you how much food to feed different dog sizes.
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I babysit until midnight for this woman, so she can't drive me home. Her kids are in bed and they have school the next morning, so shed have to wake them up. So, she has one of her coworkers drive me home. He's really nice.. But, he's gay. I feel really uncomfortable about it. I sensed it the first time he drove me home, he said a house was pretty. And then I told him I liked country music and he said, So reba? I think she's country i know she has a tv show... And well I haven't ever heard a straight guy say anything like that! So I decided to facebook him and well it turns out he is in fact gay and in a relationship for 20 years with a man.... What should I do? I just feel so weird about this! The bible says homosexuality is a sin and I'm associating with someone who is choosing to live in sin with a man! (link)
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Hello!
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable around a gay person. I have a few friends that are gay, and let me tell you this people who are gay (well at least the ones I know) are the sweetest people you'll ever meet. You shouldn't judge people by the way they're trying to express themselves. If they're gay than that's how they want to express themselves, that's their personality. We're all people. You don't know this man why don't you actually get to know him before you judge him. I really hate it when people say things like that, because it really pisses me off that people would even want to judge people that way. Why do you have to get into his business? You should at least be grateful that he's driving you home every night.
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He throws a fit if you tell him no ice cream any hints. The mom does nothing cause he does the same thing every time i go over and the only way to get him to stop throwing a fit is to tell him he can have some but it doesnt feel right . Help me!
Stressed out babysitter (link)
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Hello!
The first thing you have to keep in mind is you have to be patient with him. Something that I learned in a class that I took was the time out step, or stool, chair whatever you want to use. Whenever he gets into a tantrum you carry him right to the timeout step, every time he tries to run away just keep carrying him to the timeout step until he understands that you want him to sit there (In the process of carrying him back and forth make sure you don't say ANYTHING to him, and avoid eye contact. This will tell him that you're not going to give in). The timeout should only be five minutes, after five minutes don't let him go until he says sorry to you, while looking at you in the eye, afterwards give him an award. One thing that I forgot to mention while you're in the process of carrying him back and forth, if he starts kicking, or trying to pull away resist, ignore it. Anyways I hope this technique will help you.
Best wishes
-Swimmer133
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My sister is having twin girls next month, but she can't decide what to name them. She asked me for suggestions, but I couldn't think of anything either... Anyway, we need name suggestions. Both of them should start with the same letter and/or sound good together. Thanks! (link)
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Megan and Madison
Leila and Leah
Sara and Samantha
Rebekah and Riley
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I am 12 yr old girl and want to no wen I should be allowed to do things. First I'm responsible , get good grades, and reasonable. I
Makeup: I have acne so I want to conceal and start putting some on in a yr or two. My mom thinks 15/16
Babysitting / tutu ring: I wanna do it now to prove I'm responsible but my mom thinks 13
Dating: I think dances should be ok in high school and to start real dates jr yr with approval of the boy . Mom thinks 17.
Alone: I want to go shopping and movies with a friend or by myself. With friends I think now and I'll call my mom every hour. Alone I think high school. Mom thinks 15
Shaving legs : I think now . Don't wanna ask mim.
Am I being unreasonable? Is she? What is a good middle ground for a good girl like me? Can u help me convince to that middle ground? Thx (link)
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Hello!
Makeup: I think you should use makeup at around 14/15. You don't even need to use makeup to cover up your acne you can always moisturize, and wash your face with a face scrub.
Babysitting: I think you should start babysitting at the age of 15/16, because babysitting at age 12 is way too young in my opinion.
Dating: I think you should start dating in your sophomore or junior year of high school, because dating at this age again is way too young (in my opinion), because there's too much drama, and I'm in middle school all my friends are dating, and there's always some kind of drama, and they only date for around a week. The longest was around 3 months. I believe that at this age dances are fine.
Alone: At the age of 12 is when your mom should consider you to be a little independent. In my opinion I think you should be able to go out with friends alone, go shopping alone, but you also have to gain your mom's trust, so when you're going out call her every hour or so, don't have her call you.
Shaving legs: In my opinion I think you can shave at any age just because it's your own body, it's a temporary thing, and it's not something you should really freak out about.
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How should I decorate my daughters room for Christmas? She is 13 years old. I have a budget of $5-$20 dollars. I want it to fit a teenager's style? What should I do and how should I decorate? (link)
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Hi! You can make cute little DIYs using simple things around the house. Something that I like doing is putting Christmas lights on by bed stand. I also like putting thumbtacks, and nails into my wall and then hanging Christmas ornaments on them. These are just a few ideas. You also have to remember to ask for your daughter's opinion.
Best Wishes
-Swimmer133
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should u wear jeans when working out? (link)
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Hi! I don't think jeans is a good thing to wear when you're working out, and there's a few reasons why. The first reason is, if you're working out in a gym it's not polite to wear jeans to the gym and work out, second of all jeans aren't designed for working out, if you look at work out clothes they have mesh on it so that when you're sweating or it's getting hot the mesh will air you out, it's also designed so that the material is thin and comfortable making it easier for you to move around in, and third of all it's not comfortable to move/stretch around in.
Best Wishes
-Swimmer133
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I need to lose weight as I am overweight, I am 200 pounds. The main problem is I cannot exercise. If I go on a treadmill or other gym equipment I get bored after five minutes and get off. What are some other tips to maybe lose weight (link)
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Hi! You don't have to go to the gym to lose weight. You can start by eating healthy, giving yourself a limit when you're eating. You don't even need to use gym equipment to lose weight. I go to the gym during the weekends and I don't lift weights, or that kind of crazy stuff (I sometimes use a medicine ball so my hands have something to do, but it's not really necessary). I usually have a workout written out so that I'm prepared when I go to the gym. Some stuff you can do at the gym without having to use equipment are wall squats, push-ups, planking, sit-ups, crunches, v-ups, leg lifts. That's all I can think of right now. I hope this helped!
Best Wishes
-swimmer133
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What is a good activity for a female who wants to increase body awareness and have better fluidity, particularly in the hips and buttocks? Maybe a form of movement like, tai chi or some kind of dance? Yoga seems to work, but is there a specific type that facilitates having more rounded, feminine movement? (link)
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Hi! So this isn't really an activity, but I find squats really helpful with buttocks, and wall squats.
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I am an extremely petite woman. I'm about 5"1, Asian and with tiny bone structure. Ballet dancer's build, basically. I wear 00 pants, size 2 dress and 32A bra and though not completely shapeless (I have long legs and a defined waistline), I am extremely skinny and fragile-looking.
There are literally no men I have ever met that are attracted to chicks who look anything close to me. Every single guy I know is obsessed with the blonde hair extensions, blue eyes and big boobs, and it feels like I'll never be able to compare. I suppose if I was persistent I could get someone to date me, but during the date I know they wouldn't be able to stop themselves from constantly stealing looks at the voluptuous all-American woman at the next table.
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Hi!
I know it can be hard to find the right guy. Don't date a guy who's going to look and flirt with other girls, he's not worth your time, and he's a jerk for doing that. In my opinion those girls that the guys look at might be pretty, but is she pretty in the inside? You don't have to have big boobs, blonde hair, or curves to be able to date. I don't know if my advice will help you in any way, and sorry if it doesn't.
best wishes
-swimmer133
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