can people see who asks the question on advicenators? i mean like i'm asking this question, can anyone find out that it's me?
thanks
nope all its says is Just wondering. Unless you give you name it dont say. Unless you give the advice. See you can see my name
Bianca
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my dad is a phsyco, and i've lived with it all my life, but now my mom is talking about getting a divorce, at first, i was devistated, but now i want them to divorce b/c i'ld most definatly be happier. AnYwAy, my mom wont talk to me about it anymore and i want to tell her i would support it, how can i do that without sounding lik im a total physco lik my dad???
Its not physco! tell her that no matter what desc. she makes you trust her authrity. bc if you dont want him your mommight think you do and your both stuck. Just sit and talk like adults. No yelling or walking off. Like adults, comprimise
Bianca
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Ok so one of my close guy friends, we'll call him "Sam." "Sam" had been best friends w/ one of my girl friends ever since they were little. She loves a guy that Sam hates. And every time they get into a fight over this guy, Sam always talks to me about it, and asks me for advice. Sam always says he will never forgive her, but they always make up. I want to be there for Sam, but i feel like he just runs to me whenever he needs help. I cant talk to Sam about it, he's sensitve and would get mad. I dont wanna lose him as a friend. HELP ME I RATE HIGH
All you can do is think positive about this situation. You may be the only one he feels he can talk to. Thats good. It means he trusts you. All you can do is keep with the advice and be a friend. I hope I helped
Bianca
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okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.
i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.
another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?
thanks alot.
I know divorces are hard. But you have to tell your mom. It can get out of control and he could hurt someone. Would you rateher a divorce or a fam mem get hurt or killed? Not telling is putting your family in danger! If you must contact the police! I hope I helped
Bianca
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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right
I think its your choice. But if I were you I would talk to all your friends to see why he picks them up and see what they do. He could be hurting them. And her mom dont know?!!! yeah tell her bc she can get in serious trouble for that!
Bianca
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What does it mean to say, for example, someone in you family has been twice removed?
Ok say I am married to your dad. We divorce. So I was once remover. Then I marry your uncle, we divorce. Tat is twice removed. I hope I helped
Bianca
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ok i babysit almost 24/7. my sister has cancer and she just found out sh eis pregnant, she has to give the baby up.well she's going home to her family in texas and she's leaving her kids that i watch all the time anyways with me. my frinds tell em i should tell her to watch her own kids because i never have time to be a kid, wat do ya'll think?
I wouldnt exactly tell her that. I mean put yourself in her shoes. Tell her you need a break to be you but you will still babysit but not a s much IhIh
~*bIANCA*~
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hi people
i want to get nair this four minute lotion thingy. its when you rub it on you and wash it off four minutes and your hair comes off? does this work
Hi yeah it does work. I used it for my legs and mustache. Make shure you dont use it more that 3 times in the same spot in a row bc it leaves the biggest rash. Make shure you get the kind w/ the after lotion if ur using it foryour face
~Bianca~
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i wanna dye my hair but my parents wont let me do anything. i heard about dying your hair with kool-aid and i thought it would be cool to just do my hair tips red, so i could easily get my hair cut and it would come out. i have long hair so i could get it cut and it wouldnt be a problem. i have bown hair, and its like a tinybit lighter than normal brown. would it work for my hair? how do you do it? do you just soak it for a while? if so how long? i ave the kool-aid and everything, so i would apreciate it if some one could help out. thanks xoxox
- Ruby
Yeah my friend did that with her hair. NOTGOOD!! i MEAN IT It dont even really work. She dipped it in coolain for like an hour and it made her hair even darker because brown doesnt work with cool-aid. Because its liquid it sinks in. If yuou had blonde hair then its diffrent. Sorry. But at wal-mart go to the hair isles. The have a really bright red and its a thick jel so it looks and stays red. But dont put too much on. its a pain to get off.!! I.H.I.H.
*~Bianca~*
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ok, so i like this guy a lot, but he liked this girl who is really nice, fun, and outgoing. but she has a boyfriend, and when i say boy friend i mean head over heels in love and would never cheet on him boyfriend. So, i know he has no chance with her, and he knows it too. and he said he needs to lie someone to get over this girl, so now he is saying to some people he likes me a bit. i really lie him, but i dont want o get hurt, what should i do?
It sounds to me that you will end up getting hurt. If they ever happen to break up and yall date then what would he do? Basically you will become a doormat and dont you think you deserve better? I.H.I.H
*~Bianca~*
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This is gonna be long but I need help..
So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !!
Well I know you dont want to do this but its better if your apart. If he loved youso much why did he cheat? love isnt a triangle! and and hour kiss doesnt mean anything to him because he doesnt love her but he wanted something! So Ithink its best your apart.Once a cheater always a cheater.I.H.I.H
~*Bianca*~
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(13/f)Well I really like my friend Jesse....Were like really good friends though, but we go to different schools but I see him a lot. I don't want to tell him I like him but I want him to kind of try to figure it out, like I don't want it to be so obvious. He has a girlfriend but I think shes gonna dump him soon....Well what are some good ways for him to realize that I like him a little.
Well its all about the flirting. But if your shure his gf isgoing to dump him soon then wait till she does. Bc if she starts to notice you then she wont give him up. I also think you shouldnt interfear with them at all until there over. you ill end up getting hurt. when the time comes flirt. Go out more talk more and when you feel ready tel him how you feel. Wish the best of luck for you.! I.H.I.H.
*~Bianca~*
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my boyfriends has been hurt by his ex girlfriend he really loved her and she told him that she loved him too but she went out and had sex with another guy and that tore him up how do i get him to see or convince him that i won't hurt him? i do know what its like 4 your ex to cheat or something so how do i get him to understand that i won't do what she did?
(please help me)
Honeestly I dont think you need to convince him you wont hurt him. I think you need to get his mind off of her. It sounds to me he is still hurting. Ive seen these kid of relationships. He will end up wanting her back But Ireally hope you staytogether. To get his mind off of her and to show yourtrust, all I can say is to keep ashuring him. Treat him with all the love you have for him. Dont let him talk about her because it will bring him farther down. Show him you are better and you can have a better time. i.h.i.h.
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My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me.
Wow it sounds like your in a great position already. I am hopingthe best for you. But remeber if you guys dated think of how diffrent it would be. It could be a good diff. Well its always hard to tel him. Well I think since he is so great to talk to I think you need to tell him. Tell him everything. Who knows he might feel the same. I really hope it goes good for you because he sounds really great. I.H.I.H.
(I HOPE I HELPED)
B.B.
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Ok, my whole life, I've always been convinced of the "impossible"... Things like the paranormal, or prehistoric creatures still living today. But right now, my issue is with the paranormal, more specifically "ghosts". I am almost.... Obsessed, you could say. I visit ghost web pages, read "true" ghost stories, my favourite section of this magazine I read is the sorta, "ghost stories section", and I absolutely love Horror movies. I believe its all possible. And lately I've been freaking out, and "seeing things". Am I paranoid about these things? And does anybody know a way for me to become less jumpy, without having to give up all these things??
Well I think you are being right now. I mean its ok to belive in them but now you tell yourself that you are seeing them. I think you should slow down on the web because that isnt helping. I also belive there real but I dont think they will come to haunt you. So try to slow down. I hope I helped you.
Bianca
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my friend just gave me some condoms... like 8 f them i think.. me and this guy are gettin pretty close, but i have to hold the condoms... wheres a good spot to hide em so my parents wont look? my parents look through everything... so i need a good one! thanks!!
If I was you put it in a jar that they have. Or put itunder matress. If anything put it in a school binder. Ort put them in your purce. I hope I helped
BiAnCA
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ok i really like this guy and we talk online and stuff and we used 2 talk all the time in school and stuff but since schools over i never see him! my friend told him that i like him and he started flirting more and stuff but i dont know if he thought my friend was joking or something. i know i should tell him myself, but whats a good way of telling him without him like freaking out haha. please help cause i need to tell him soon cause i really want him to hear it from me! thanx!
Thats tough. Well since you flirt, put it in a conversation. Like be so in school we should of hooked up and see what he says. Or be like theres something about you I rwally like. Or just straight tell him you like him. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Ok well my period is really uneven so I don't know when to expect it...well this month, it skipped and now there's like little spots of dark blood or w/e in my panties...it's been happening for three days now. It's not like heavy or anything..jus like a big spot of watery blood..??! idk it's not my period bc it's usually wayy heavier..anyone know what it is? thanks
Its probably just discharge. Your period is probably coming soon its just not ready yet. I hope I helped
Bianca
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okay whenever i give my bf oral i can taste the cum but its not like alot to swallow or anything .. is this because im not doing it long enough for him to cum? please help
No. Its like the beginning. If its clear its cum but thats not supposed to come out mch. But if there is the white looking cum and its in short amounts it could be backing up if you dont finish. Or he might not cum much. Ask him when you finished is he really cuming? I hope I helped
BIANCA
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ok this is a really werid question but i need to know i am alomst 14 and my period is REALLLY late i am really scared cause this has never happend befor i have never had sex so i have nothing to worrry about right??? is this normal is it going to be ok???
Its normal. How much do you weigh? My period was a week & a1/2 late I got it yesterday. It was beacuse I weigh very little and It will go away until you weigh enough that your bodycan losethe blood. I hoep I helped
Bianca
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