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16/f.
Okay, straight to the point.. So, I had sex when I was like 14.. and well, the guy and I broke up and like 10 months. That's another story but anyways, he never popped me. Well, this guy that I've known since I was 10, well we've been friends with benefits for soo long, and just recently we started having sex. Well, we've done it twice now, and well, the first time I didn't bleed, and I didn't bleed with my ex either. Well, this time I did, so did I just get popped tonight?
thanks :) (link)
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yes, it's likely you just have a thicker or stronger hymen than most, or whoever you've been having sex with isn't very big...
whether you just stretched it before and just now got it popped, it doesn't matter. either way it's definitely popped now.
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hey.
well i would always use wikipedia for general information,
but then all my teachers said it's an unreliable source
cause anyone can edit it.
so it's not allowed.
is there another site that's really similar to wikipedia?
please don't say google.
just a general information site?
xo (link)
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you could use encyclopedia.com or reference.com
those are also encyclopedias like wiki, but they aren't edited by anyone
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okay well i have just been diagnosed with depression and i have anxiety, before i was diagnosed with the depression i would sit and think about suicide, i got to scared and eventually told my mom and i got help, but every so often something with sneek into my head and try to make me believe it just like the suicide had,like if i had an std or something stupid that could be true and then i find reasons why it could be true and i get really upset cause i cant control this! but the pain thing here is i havent had a bf yet and im 14 and i dont know why and i keep thinking im bi or lez but i dont know if its one of thoes thoughts sneeking into my head, i have nothing against any of this but my family and friends i dont think will take it to well so i dont know what i should do. (link)
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ok kid, do not think that you are gay because you don't have a bf. I'm gay, and honestly, you would know if you were too. If you have feelings toward girls, that is an entirely different thing. keep getting help for your depression and anxiety, don't worry about boys or girls right now, eventually you will get a boyfriend, and if you have feelings toward him, stay with him. If you don't and you feel yourself being attracted to girls, go for it!
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next year i have a school dress code, this is it: collared shirts, turtlenecks, blazers, and khakis, corduroys, or skirts the at least reach my knee. casual wear is pretty much everything else on fridays. does anyone know where i can find preppy, trendy looks that will work with this dress code? and what are some "key looks" that i should watch out for? what designers, such as true religion jeans, j.crew, lacoste, should i look at? thanks (link)
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GAP, ralph lauren, even polos at american eagle and abercrombie. most places have the stuff you describe, but i suggest going to a big outlet area because usually they have all those places like jcrew, ralph lauren, for cheaper, so you can get a lot of good stuff.
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how do i delete pics? its so confusing with the neww albumm stuff. (link)
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on the edit photos pic just click on your album and it will all look like it used to, there will be a button under each pic to delete it
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How to do you delete songs off your ipod?
Not just from itunes, but from the actual ipod?
Thanks. (link)
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delete them from itunes, plug your ipod into your computer and update it.
or you can switch the ipod settings to manual and then drag all songs except for the ones you want to delete onto your ipod
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im really worried because i have mixed feelings 4 my teacher shes lovely and a young woman i am a 13 year old girl
i dont think i fancy her but i always want to talk to her and we=hen she complimants me i blush!
i have a boyfriend and am attracted to him help me.i have lots of girl friends at school , i am always looking for an excuse to talk to my teacher
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ok...guess what. i have a little itty bitty crush on my teacher too, and i'm a girl as well. In some cases, this could be the beginning of a realization that you're bi or gay, but most likely it's just a stage. no one can tell what you are feeling. focus on your boyfriend, and just let your feelings for your teacher pass....because they definitely will quite soon. obviously nothing can happen....but when you are out and about, try to look at girls and analyze how you feel, because most likely you feel nothing. FOr now, just let it pass....and focus on doing well in the class. that's all you can do, everyone goes through strange stages like this...you are perfectly normal.
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I've heard that the Perks of Being a Wallflower was a really good book, and I have yet to read it. Are there any other extremely good books that you recommend? (link)
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some wonderful books are:
girl, interrupted
truth & beauty by Anne Patchett
My sister's keeper-jodi picoult
vanishing acts- jodi picoult
night- elie wiezel
yeah those are all good
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what does it mean when a girl gets "wet" ? (link)
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when a girl gets sexually aroused, or horny, a discharge is created that makes her vagina wet, as if there was saliva or something in it. the purpose is just to make sex easier, it's like a lubricant, but that doesn't mean that a girl should have sex when she's wet, it's just something that happens. she could get wet when being fingered or just making out, or doing anything really
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ok i got my period but i never get cramps or anything so i have no idea when its coming, and it lasts forever!!! like two weeks, is there anything i can do? or am i going to be stuck like this forever, which would really suck, 14yr old f. thnx (link)
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if you just started getting them recently, it could take awhile to get regular. but, a lot of people had problems like this and they go to their doctor or gynocologist because you can get put on specific hormones and birth control pills that regular your period to make it regular.
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Okay so my best friend's gonna have sweet 16 soon, its going to be on the 25th this month and I am in charge of the songs...
I usually listen to rock( although i do prefer rap and hip hop songs at the parties...)
but she loves rap and hip hop..
so anybody have a good list going on for me?? like a good dance musics that's hiphop and rap
this is what i have so far
-Rock yo hips
-Go Getta
-This is why im hott
-We fly high
-Money Maker
-What you know
-King Kong
-Shorty like mine
-Chain Hang Low
-Leather So Soft
-Ice Box
-walk it out
-2 step
-pop lock & drop it
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i don't listen to this kind of music so i can't suggest anything, but if i were you i would go to itunes music store, go to hip hop/rap section in the music page, and go to "top songs". you will find a whole list that includes some of the ones you have that everybody will love listening to!
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is giving a guy head the same as giving him a blowjob? (link)
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yep. different slang for exactly the same thing
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how can you really hear the ocean through a shell? is that even possible? (link)
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haha no not at all. when you put your ear next to a sea shell, it's the same as putting it next to the opening of a water bottle or cup or anything like that. The pressure is different inside and it just makes a strange nooise. people just say it sounds like the sea because that used to be a very old myth, since waves crashing and the water sounds kind of like the sound of listening to anything hollow
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okay well im comftorable with my stomach and stuff but recently ive become uncomftorable with my thighs and of course its fat which i really wanna lose fast! i don;t know what workouts or what pleaseee help! (link)
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RUN RUN RUN, i swear, you will see such an improvement in your legs if you run. Also, biking helps thighs, and so does wall sits, lunges, squats, skipping, sprints, running up stairs, running hills.
good luck
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k so i'm 5'5" 110 lbs (16 yrs, female). i'm pretty skinny like the top half of me but my legs are kinda fat. i've cut back on food and i'm doing 700cal workouts everyday (on the elliptical) but my legs aren't getting any thinner.. how many cals should i restrict myself to everyday and is there anything else i can do to sget my legs skinnier.. i don't really want muscle mass just for them to be thin. (link)
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technically you are underweight, if you really weigh 110 and are 5 5. if I were you i would stop obsessing. i don't mean to be mean, but you seem borderline anorexic. i honestly doubt ANYone thinks your legs are a single bit fat. if I were you i would slow down with the workouts, you don't need to spend quite so much time on the eliptical, maybe 500 cals, and incorporate weights. do things such as wall sits and lunges/squats, that will make you legs more toned, skinny, and strong, plus you won't have to worry about being so skinny that you aren't healthy. be careful, and try not to pay attention so much, just be happy with yourself
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OK so I'm hoping to become a teacher and I was wondering what colleges gave good degrees in education. My 2 main picks are Mighigan State Universty or University of Michigan. But Western sounds good too. Does anyone know which one has the better education program? Thanks! (link)
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well i don't know anything about either college, but i can tell you that my english teacher went to university of michigan and she is an absolutely fabulous, amazing teacher!! however, in the fiske guide to colleges, michigan state university is said to have a strong education program.
i know that wasn't very helpful, very sorry i couldn't help more. you could look on their websites too.
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ok so i have this step dad who has a son who's my age (15). He walked in on my boyfriend and me making out in my room and he screamed at me and grounded me for a month. Then two weeks later he caught my step brother getting a blowjob from his girlfriend and my step dad just laughed and said, "boys will be boys" and walked away. Then my boyfriend gave me a hug after school and my step dad was picking me up and he yelled at me and grounded me for another month! I spotted my step bro kissing some girl i had never met and my step dad just gave him a high five! I tried talking to my mom, but she has been really sick lately and doesnt talk much. Is this fair??? what should i do??? (link)
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that is absolutely ridiculous. for now i would say to be extra careful with your boyfriend when your dad is ANYWHERE nearby. sure, I agree with the other people that you should talk to your step dad, but in all honesty he seems like a pretty irrational guy, so that might not help. once you are able to talk to your mom, definitely do that.
he seems like a horrible man so i would just try as hard as you can to steer clear, like go to friends houses more often. confront in your friends and your boyfriend.
also, if you are on good terms with your step brother, mention it to him because he might be realizing what is going on, so next time your step dad supports his behavior he could be like, "hey dad, why don't you ground me if you always ground _____" i dunno, just an idea, until you can talk to your mom there isn't really anything you can do
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http://www.kickinitmovie.com/
the song playing like on the main page after its done loading.
the freak show one? (link)
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freak show- the barkays
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What's the difference between sleeping with someone, and having sex with someone?
Because i was watching The Holiday last night with Cameron Diaz and Jude Law, and they said something like, "We've already had sex once, and slept together twice ..."
I always thought they were the same thing, but i guess not? Help? (link)
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hmm, i haven't seen the movie, but maybe they mean literally slept together? like shared a bed...did other notty things other than intercourse, lol. it's hard to say, because i agree that i always think that slept together means had sex, so i think that's kind of weird that they would say that.
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i have an iPod Nano. on one account on my computer all my music is there. on the other account on my computer theres 10 or so songs i need but when i plug my iPod in it says i can only be linked to one iTunes Library ;how can i fix this? and re-downloading them on the other account is not an option. (link)
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when you connect your ipod to one of the accounts, go to preferences or infor under file and say manual, instead of automatic, that way you can pluf it in to different computers
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