I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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what is this gesture called when someone opens their mouth and flicks the tongue side to side and up and down. i know that it means they want to eat a girl out but what is the gesture itself called? (link)
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they want to "tongue fuck" you
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are vaginas supposed to look wrinkly ? (link)
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yes, it's quite normal
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Hi I'm 15 f a little bit above average in weight and never had a boyfriend. I've been crying like when something random happens I go into my room and cry but its completely off subject why I do cry. I use to like this guy Tom and we had a small thing going on in the summer(never had my first kiss yet) anyways I've liked him and allways thought about him until march my one friend that knows him well she showed me a text that really helped me get over him and thenext day I met a guy Dom and he's a yeAr younger and will be joining my school next year but we talked a little bit and I thought he was cute but I barely knew him anyways but since I have no like good friendship with guys I can't get Tom off my mind and I've tried talking to other guys and like I said I'm not the most attractive girl so it's hard and my friends I love them but don't spend like every night with them so I'm usually home alone with nothing to do but wait for texts and creep on fb haha and I never get texts from guys only like a couple of completely just friends that I could never like. But yeah Tom just pops into my mind every now and then and ive tried messaging him on fb he replies once but when I really start the convo going he never replies and after summer when school started( he's a yeAr older) he just didn't talk to me like we use to and that's what crushed me bc I get bored and I need attention but if I dint get it I cry and feel depressed:( (link)
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well I don't think that this Tom guy feels the same way about you so you need to try and forget about him and try not to cry because it's not going to solve anything it'll just make you feel worse you need to be strong and your time will come.
For now why don't you ask your guy friends to introduce you to one of their friends and put in a good word for you and you should start going out with your friends more often because if you want to meet a guy it wont help if you're secluded indoors so go out and have fun and you'll meet someone eventually. if you ever feel down put your head in a pillow and just scream or if you want to speak to someone feel free to inbox me
best of luck
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i have been liking this guy for 2 years and im just now starting to get over him because he got a girlfriend but they had been kind of off and on so i think they have been off for like 3 months now. and the friendship between me and the guy has pretty much be non existant since freshman year anyway this guy has been flirting with me a little bit a couple of times. he implied we should go to prom together and that i would look pretty in my prom dress. then one day he said he wanted my number. i asked him if he was serious and he said yeah. so i let him have my phone to plug his number in. so i thought this was gonna be the beginning of a friendship but now hes just kind of being rude to me by making rude remarks and i was confused. i thought that him giving me his number was a sign he wanted to be friends not be a douche bag. do you think he was trying to work on a friendship? what should i do from here? (link)
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maybe he saw something on your phone that he didn't like probably too many guys numbers or a picture or something like that, the only way you gonna get your answer is by asking him because i don't know him personally so i can't really be of help, ask him if you did or said something that's making him act so weird
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20 Female. Connor 19
Me and Connor used to "talk" for about 4 months. We actually got really close, like we could talk about everything. That's until he decided he didn't want to talk anymore and blew up on me. We didn't talk for about 2 months and then he eventually apologized twice for being such a jerk and asked if we could still be friends. Connor has a big house, and so they always have these huge parties. Well he said I could come with Joe (One of my good friends, who also knows Connor through hockey) one time and that he hopes to see me over the summer.
I haven't talked to Connor in about a month now since he asked if we could still be friends. Well just yesterday Joe texted me saying "Are we gonna go to Connor's this summer for a party sometime?" and I said "Haha yeah we can but I'm sure it will be kind of weird at first with everything that happened so you can't leave me right away!"
The thing is, I'd really like to see Connor again and be friends. It's just that I know it's gonna be awkward since it would be the first time I'd seen him since everything happened. I know he'd be nice to me but I also wouldn't know anyone except Connor and Joe at the party. I'd hate to be that awkward person. I'm not that good with meeting new people. Once I get to know someone, I'm outgoing but going into a party with a bunch of people I dont know, I will be intimidated.
Plus there is always a lot of girls that go too I guess, so I have a feeling they will be staring at me and being like "Whose that girl?" I know I'd get along good with the guys though.
Do you think I should go? I really want to, I'd obviously be really nervous but I think it'd be good for me. How can I fit in with everyone and not be that "awkward person" Of course it's gonna be even more nerve-wrecking with all those girls there that I don't know (you know how girls can be) so how can I be someone that's approachable? ANY suggestions? Thanks! :) (link)
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well you should definately go and this will show connor that you're cool about it and you want to be friends so it wont be that awkward, the truth is when you're at a party people expect you to get up and mingle and girls will always have the mentality that if you're always just talking to the guys you're a "whore" for now practice relaxing if people see that you're outgoing and you're comfortable it will make it easier for them too and the conversation will go well, you could go up to people and tell them that you love their outfit, hair or shoes everybody loves compliments and that will get it started from there remember RELAX and enjoy yourself
best of luck
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I'm sixteen and female. Because I am the age I am and I'm not sexually active that often, I don't shave all the way. It's usually just a trim, and I'm fine with it, but now I am just so grossed out by it. I have shaved with a razor and soap, trimmed it with scissors, but I want to really get it all thin without it being annoying and such. Bikini Wax is out of the picture definitely because I'm kinda broke and I don't think I'm old enough. Is there anything I can do to shave without any pain or expensive procedures? (link)
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you could try hair removal creams that are specailly made to get rid of hair down their and they're not really that expensive
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so i liked this guy for a while. not a big crush, but he was freakin' amazing.. then my bestfriend started liking him, and eventually they went out. So they jut broke up.. and i'm over him now, and started liking someone else who i've had feelings for, but not exactly liked since i was in first grade. and guess what.. she likes him now! and asked him who he liked.. and he said her and not me. So what do i do? :( (link)
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she sounds like she's the jealous type and she probably thinks that she's better than you and i don't think you should have those kind of people around you so you can either speak to her about it or just don't tell her who you like anymore and find somebody else that you can trust and as for those guys they're just going out with her because she's telling them that she likes them first
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Hey do you think its odd to be 13 and still sleeps with your parents? it is really embarrasing and my grandparents make fun of me and even my own dad but my mom dont. I didnt have my own room until i was 4 and so I always slept eith my parents. Also my siblings and things would scre me about ghosts and stuff and a lot of times I see things like wierd stuff in the middle of the night and I think about ghosts. Also another thing i worry about is that someone will break in and I want to be with my mom. When I have friends spend the night with me I sleep in my own room with them and things (which most of the time we don't sleep) but anyway. Do you think it's wierd or abnormal please help!! Thanks! (link)
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it's normal to be stressing about ghosts and burglaries at that age but it's definately innapropiriate to be sleeping with your parents and i'm sure that they want their privacy so why don't you try sleeping with a night light for a while until you can sleep in the dark or keep a monitor or something so if their are burglaries(which i doubt) your parents will hear it
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What are the adverse/negative effects on your body from taking LSD. I already researched it and all I could find was that it can mess you up psychologically but couldn't find any physically damaging properties. I need to find this for health class. thank you (link)
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short term effects- dilated pupils, lowered body temperature, nausea vomiting, profuse sweating, rapid heart rate and convulsions
long term effects- a growing tolerance to the drug, disorientation, anxiety,distress and depression after you discontinue the use of the drug
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Okay so the skin between my ring and bellybutton is about to tear so i took out the bellybutton ring. my question is can i ever put it back in or do i have to wait for it to completely heal and get it repierced? I am very stubborn and i really don't want to keep it out but i don't want it to rip out either. what should i do? (link)
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let it heal first then pierce it again, and be sure to clean the area properly or it could lead to an infection
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Theres this one spoiled biznatch in my class who text all the time, and she looks lilke miss queen B when she is texting, and it bothers me.
What do i do (link)
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i don't think you hate the texting i think you hate her, theres nothing you can do just deal with it it's her life anyways
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My cat never touches me anymore.. what's wrong with me? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with you most cats are usually like that they like to keep to themselves,not very friendly which is why most people get cats and not dogs because you don't have to keep them occupied, but you should play with your cat using things that they like such as, string, a ball of yarn a ribbon or a feather and try hold one end and make your cat try and grab the other end
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What does it mean when girls "pop their cherry" ??? (link)
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when a girls virginity is broken, she is no longer a virgin
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Theres this girl in my class... who has... the most... perfect ass. Like it is literally a work of art. And to all of you guys, im telling you, ITS A M A Z I N G. Like no joke. I wanna go up to this girl and ask if i can grab it, or if she can sit on my face. Should i ask her or no? (link)
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unless you wanna get a really hard slap across the face then yeah go ahead and ask her, thats the worse thing you could ever do especially if shes a really decent girl why don't you date her and then as it goes you can grab her ass or do it by "accident"
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My current boyfriend asked me out about 2 months ago, but the furthest we went was a hug. I know it would probably be more than that if we didn't see each other only once a month. But we always see movies together and hug before we leavem and we always stare into each others eyes but it never went to the point where we almost kiss. Except the last time we were at the movies he asked me a question and I leaned in to hear what he said and i replyed ofcourse but our faces were so close together, and we almost did it we almost kissed untill i kind of leaned back. I don't know if he does want to kiss me or not because we're very close and everything but i don't think he kissed a girl before. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I want to know if i should make a move next time. (link)
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yip he definately wants to kiss you he probably just thinks that you don't want to and is afraid of being shot down so the next time he stares into your eyes and the mood is perfect GO FOR IT!
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IM 13 and my boyyfriends 13 aswel. He wants to show me how much he loves me and he said he would never presurre me.
He has had sex before.
Im sure im ready. im just scared that its going to hurt. (link)
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well if your boyfriend loves you like he says he does he will be willing to wait, 13 is still a really young age to be thinking about sex yes it will hurt but don't you think you should save your virginity for someone you know that you will have a future with? if guys find out that you lost your virginity at 13 years old they will never ever respect you and it would be hard to find someone thats going to love you for you and if your parents find out that would really tear them apart so think carefully we are just here to advise you, the decision lies in your hands and i personally don't think you are ready i think that you want to give in because you're scared if you don't give your boyfriend what he wants he will leave you so if you choose to be smart and wait then you will see who your boyfriend truly is
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Im frm india,male 16..I gotta keep my love for a longer period of time..I never wish to break up our relationship.What all things i gotta keep in mind? And also how can i make her to love me realy seriously like she would never leave me.... (link)
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girls love being loved so let her know how much you love her tell her that she means the world to you, small gestures help a lot too like buy her gifts once in a while and flowers just because you want to ask her about her day and her feelings and show her that you will always be there for her and understand her but be sure that you also give her abit of space from time to time don't smother her as this tends to drive people away
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okay so i like this guy and were really not that close but we do talk some. but when we talk its get alittle akward like its always the same thing hey, whats up,...etc. like theres nothing to talk about. any advice on how to make it less akward? (link)
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lol well it probably means that he likes you too so try talking about stuff that guys like and show him you can relate to him ask him:
what his hobbies are
what does he like in a girl
how was his weekend
what music does he like
whats his favourite movie
maybe this guy is just shy so you gotta kinda bring him outta his shell joke around with him introduce him to your friends and make him feel comfortable in your presence
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What do you do when the child you're babysitting makes threats such as "I'm going to tell my mom what you're doing!" when what you're benefits the kid and their health?
For example, the child would not wipe himself properly after pooping in his pants, so I made him take a bath and wash himself, so that he would not get an infection.
Although, I don't care if he tells his parents how I handled the situation, I feel completely disrespected when I'm treated like the enemy. What would you do? (link)
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well it sounds like one of those kids that feel like they don't need anyone else to take care of them and that makes him not like you, you should tell his parents exactly what you posted here and i'm sure if you explain it to them properly they will understand
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okay well i am 14 years old and i think im in love with my best friend the only problem he found out from someone else and said he knew me too long and too well to date me i believe that good relationships start from friendship so i dont really understand where hes coming from does anyone understand him or has been put in that situation? should i continue to try to get him to like me? i really like him and im scared its time to move on???? please help me?! (link)
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well this happens most of the time when a guy and a girl are friends, well if he told this person that he knew you too long and too well to date you that probably means that he knows you well enough and you're not his type so i think that it's probably best that you just stay his friend, you could try asking him if he likes you but thats a two way street and you would be taking a risk because maybe he does like you and if he doesn't that question would ruin your friendship
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