My current boyfriend asked me out about 2 months ago, but the furthest we went was a hug. I know it would probably be more than that if we didn't see each other only once a month. But we always see movies together and hug before we leavem and we always stare into each others eyes but it never went to the point where we almost kiss. Except the last time we were at the movies he asked me a question and I leaned in to hear what he said and i replyed ofcourse but our faces were so close together, and we almost did it we almost kissed untill i kind of leaned back. I don't know if he does want to kiss me or not because we're very close and everything but i don't think he kissed a girl before. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I want to know if i should make a move next time.
To get over it, simply text him; 'would you mind if I kissed you'. face it-its a yes or a no.
Start simple. Kiss his hand or something first. Then he'll probably kiss yours.
Then at the end of a date as you come out from a hug, lightly kiss him on the cheek. don't be nervous. he's with you because he loves you by the sounds of things, not for sex.
Put him at ease. if you make the first move, he'll know it's ok for him to do the same.
as for kissing on the lips, make sure it's in a quiet place. and don't do what i did and say 'I'm going to kiss you now' (because i was shy) as that kills the romance. Again, come out from a cuddle, smile and look at his lips, and he shuld get the message. hope this helps :) [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
Director answered Friday April 29 2011, 8:49 pm: Hey,
He could either be (a) nervous or (b) unsure. When it happens again, don't lean back, but encourage his moves. Take the chance to get close-ER to him - whisper something in his ear, playful nosey-nose rub, stare into his eyes after a hug. It will happen very soon. Best of luck!
nikz answered Tuesday April 26 2011, 2:11 pm: yip he definately wants to kiss you he probably just thinks that you don't want to and is afraid of being shot down so the next time he stares into your eyes and the mood is perfect GO FOR IT! [ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question ]
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