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i dont understand why guys dont like me
So its been almost 2 years since I've dated I've had a total of two boyfriends. And two more almost. The first lasting 5 months the last I don't know it felt like forever but it was less then 5 months. Both fell in love with me they say and the 2 nd one is still to this day in love with me also they were both ended by me.
People tell me all the time I'm gorgeous. People I know and random people like the other day a teacher I don't know looked at me and was like "wow your pretty have you ever thought about modeling I don't know your hair your eyes... you just have it."
I'm not tiny but I'm not big either just average.
When it comes to my personality absolutely everyone says that I'm a very sweet girl and that I'm extremely mature for my age. Often adult find themselves catching theirselves for talking to me like an adult. I honestly don't think I'm unapproachable. I smile all the time. I try to put out the vibe that anyone can talk to me though I am sometimes on the quiter side. More like Id rather keep to myself. But don't get me wrong I'm not shy. I speak my mind whether the person like it or not.
Also I don't need a boyfriend and I understand that I still have a lot of life ahead of me but it is nice to have someone like that sometimes.
Why would guys not be into me? I just don't understand. Please any advice on this would be helpful.
Thank you.
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Well if they were both ended by you then you probably aren't easily satisfied or you are looking for the wrong guy. If after time & time again go straight to 'Lesbian Road!'
Even if you're straight as hell, it don't take much for women to start to turn you on if you really think about it.
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I dont mean for this answer to sound cocky, but ive been through the same thing. I know Im pretty, I know Im nice & outgoing, & I know Im mature, so what the hell is wrong with me? You know what I discovered? No matter how approachable you are, guys will be intimidated ( besides the self righteous jerks, but who wants to date them?) Men are a lot less confident then we think. A lot of guys may think theyre not good enough & dont want to face rejection. So my advice is to become FRIENDS with the guys youre interested in so that they are comfortable with you, that way if they want more itd be easier for them to approach the situation. Looks & personality can be a blessing or a curse, use them well ;)
x sweeethoney
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