okay well i am 14 years old and i think im in love with my best friend the only problem he found out from someone else and said he knew me too long and too well to date me i believe that good relationships start from friendship so i dont really understand where hes coming from does anyone understand him or has been put in that situation? should i continue to try to get him to like me? i really like him and im scared its time to move on???? please help me?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? triizao9 answered Monday April 25 2011, 5:57 am: Iam with you on what u believe in because its true but im afraid to say that on some friendships, it doesnt really work. I have had many friends that told me theyre inlove with me and it just gets really awkward for me and i stop talking to them for awhile and get over it. On your case, he's a guy, theres alot to say to that. Some men likes denying things and say they dont care but they do and i think thats whats going on here. But hey, show the guy you just care and love him and love is unconditional dear, so if he doesnt return anything to you, continue on loving him but only as a friend because you'll get hurt if you love him and pour your heart out for the guy. If you see signals that he doesnt love u like that at all, move on. If he sees you as that happy girl, maybe he'll realize what he'd lost and maybe ask you out or somthing.
nikz answered Sunday April 24 2011, 2:49 pm: well this happens most of the time when a guy and a girl are friends, well if he told this person that he knew you too long and too well to date you that probably means that he knows you well enough and you're not his type so i think that it's probably best that you just stay his friend, you could try asking him if he likes you but thats a two way street and you would be taking a risk because maybe he does like you and if he doesn't that question would ruin your friendship [ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question ]
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