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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!!

first of all a girl should NEVER ask a guy out that just shows you are desperate but you need to talk to him about it and talk about all the flirty-ness and whether he likes you or not but dont ask him out let him come to you

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I'm about 5'10... 15 years old... pretty attractive... looking to be a model. Do any of you know any really great modeling agencies?(please don't say barbizon... anything but there) Thanks. I rate!!

John Robert Powers

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OkaY..i`m qOnna bE EmbaRrassed iF oNe of My frienDsz see this..okay im 15 ive had sex..uhh AbOuT 38 TiMesz..wiith 9 boysz..PlZ dOn`T call me a sLut..i knO iT`sz baD buT i wannA bE aBle tO teLL mY mOm..sHe kNowsz i did iT..oNce...iT`sz harD..i wanna starT over bUt i knO i can`t..=( whUt shOuld i say?

whoa first you need to stop having so much sex and if you dont want people to call you a slut then you need to stop seriously before you catch something and you should tell your mom!

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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.

no theres nothing wrong with you its perfectly normal but damn tone it down a notch ;]

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Hey, i am 15 and weigh 150 lbs. I'm not "fat" but i feel that way. I dont look it or anything, but i have no idea where the weight is going. I have been taking birth control for like 4 months, and that might be the reason for gaining all this weight, but i dont know how to get rid of some weight. I have tried the south beach diet, i dont eat that much.... never really have, i drink only diet drinks since forever, but i still dont know why i am gaining all this weight. It worries me a lot... Hopefully you can help.. thanks

i think its the pills my friend was on em and it made her gain weight like crazy so its definately the pills

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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

you cant ..

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

just think... r kelly

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

you needa tell that girl

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when should it be okay to have sex?

.. its always okay you just gotta decide when its going to happen and when you are ready for it

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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not.

fuck what other people say they seem to not have better things to do other than pick on yall .. you should have sex when you want to not when ppl tease you or whatnot

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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx

i dont think you should have an abortion if you do you are gonna regret it later in life you should just tell your parents about it and keep the baby its better that way...abortion should be illegal thats just wrong and nasty im sorry

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Hey guys,
The world has brought together by internet but there are some outstandingly obscene websites and titles which are mentally disturbing. I came across one of the site which shows porn photographs and movies on the sex relationship between Mom-Son, Dad-Daughter. Can it happen? I stronlgy believe that it is highly impossible. The relation between parents and their kids is such a holy and lovely relation, that they can't even imagine such thing about each other. I am really disturbed after accidentally watching that site. Please share your sincere ideas/thoughts/experiences whether this could happen? Thanks.

ugh incest i hope its not real bt the world is full of freaks so there could be some nasty ass people out there doing that mambo jambo - dont mind my vocabulary =]

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whenever i see a really hot guy i think about us making out or having sex. i know it sounds really weird but is there something wrong with me?

lol no theres nothing wrong with you and its not weird =]

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i have teh biggest boobs in my class people make fun of me some times cuz of them is there any way to get rid of them?

be proud of what you have and flaunt it! dont let these people bring you down and if its girls who are making fun of you then they are jealous and if its the guys then deep down they know they want some of those goodies lol just love yourself for what you are dont let anyone tell you different

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can u give me secks?

...excuse me

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theres this girl and shes my neighboor
we met like a year ago in the neighboorhood shes one year younger than me and i don't like her! she always whines and tells me what to do and i'm older than her!! i can't say i don't want to be friends with you anymore then she would cry and tell her mom i don't know what to do please help!

you need to talk to her about it and tell her what you think about the way she acts hopefully she will understand if she doesnt and acts like a bitch about it then she doesnt deserve to have someone for a friend like you

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-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him the other night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

q0sh qiirl ii have been thru s0o much crap similar t0 dat.. iit can b c0nfusziinq! ii have a feeliinq dat he liikesz y0o nd iisz tryna fiqure 0ut wut kiinda quy y0o r iint0 s0 dat he can kiinda b liike dat.. nd iim als0 thinkiinq dat hesz w0rriied y0u`r q0iinq t0 turn hiim d0wn.. quysz d0 dat kiinda stuff all tha tiime! ii h0pe thiisz helpsz! nd y0u`r welc0me - niina

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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early?

l0l dersz n0thiinq wr0nq wiid y0o.. any qiirl dat saysz s0methiin liike " 0mq eew ii d0nt d0 dat dassz qr0ssz " iisz eiither lyiinq 0r cant waiit t0 qet h0me t0 try iit.. bt iitsz a lil freaky dat y0ur m0mmii aszkd y0u iif iit felt q0od..=/

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I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help!

iitsz sumthiinq m0szt qiirlsz q0 thr0uqh! d0nt wurry iit w0nt liike qet stuck uhp der nd y0o will n0t l0sze y0ur virqiinity frm iit... bt d0nt wear em jussz cuhsz y0ur frendsz d0.. y0u sh0uld wear wuht makesz y0u c0mf0rtable! bt d0nt w0rri th0sze thiinqsz d0nt really happen! -niina

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should I be proud of what i am?

yesz y0o sh0uld b pr0ud uhv wh0 y0o are! d0nt let anywun tell y0o different! wuht makesz y0o differnt makesz y0o beautiiful! y0o keep tellinq yurself dat

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