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me or her? or am i her??
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him the other night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
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ok..i see that you're trying to be a true friend and help him out while hes in this situation by telling him the truth and to be himself i would have done the same thing..he should just suck it up and ask the girl and not involve you in it. You should try to talk to him one more time about this and if it doesnt work then you'll just have to say you can't help him out if he doesnt listen to you.Also tell him that you don't like to have him put you into her position because he only wants you to do this because your his good friend and he probably knows what you'll say so he can feel betta about himself..well it dont work that way!lol..bcuz you and this girl he's trying to get think totally different and if she's the girl for him then excellent but if not then don't feel guilty at all because you tried your best on helping him..hope this helps!
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I'm not sure if I totally understood this the way you meant it to be understood - but I'm going to TRY.
It seems like he might like you, but its entirely possible that he doesn't, because at your age guys are idiots and change their minds constantly and like everyone. Maybe if he asks you about how you know if a girl would turn you down, you should say (that is, if you like him) "I wouldn't turn you down if someone like you asked me, it all depends on the situation."
That way, if he doesn't like you it seems like you are helping him and if he does like you then he might realize that you would say yes if he were to ask you.
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Hi there. Thanks for asking me, it's my first question I get to answer from a letter =)
I think since he keeps asking YOU on how to ask a girl out, he might be hinting to you that he'd like to go out with you. That would be my guess.
I would talk to him and tell him that you like him (I'm assuming that you do) and see what happens from there. If he is one of your best friends, I don't think anything would be a problem.
On a side note, I think it's both equally hard being a girl or a guy, if that helps any.
Good luck & let me know how it goes.
<3 Em
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im soo sorry to ask u dis but what ws ur question? i mean, if the quest. was hot to tell him how to ask out a grl, then tell him to describe her. personality, dislikes/likes, etc. and if he doesnt know those things about her, then he needs to get to know her a little more. just tell him to go up to her and talk about n e thing, and then say, what do u think of guyz like me? if that wsnbt da quest. then send me an email at crazyflirty@yahoo.com and ill answer u sap. thanx for askin...
flirty:)
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