Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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My boyfriend has had really bad luck with girls. Hes had about 20 girlfriends and seventeen cheated and three died. I havent done anything to make him believe im cheating but he thinks I am. He wont believe me and he says if they did I am. I dont know what to do to get him to believe me. I love him so much but he cant see it. My question is how can I get through this rough patch? He basically just says yeah thats what they all say. :/ (link)
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Leave him.
Trust me on this one. He will always remain to accuse of you something you aren't doing. He shouldn't be making you pay the mistake of his ex's. You aren't them. You are a whole new person. You aren't them. This isn't fair to you.
I know you love him, but sweetie- he doesn't love you. If he loved you, he would give you the benefit of the doubt.
What you need to do, is let him go. Tell him
"Stop making me pay for the mistakes your ex's made. It isn't fair. How would you feel if I always accussed you of cheating, just because a guy from my past cheated on me? Would it be fair?
Let him know, that you deserve to be treated equally, not just half. When he decides that he can trust you, than you will be here. But until then, you aren't sticking around.
He should trust you until you give him a reason not too. A relationship is NOTHING without trust. You will always feel like you are walking on eggshells. Is that how you want to live? You will never be fully happy, because you will constantly be put down for something you never did!
You can't talk to him, because he doens't care to listen. So your screwed. You just need to show him what he has, because obviously he is blind.
He needs to focuse on himself, and not be with you. He needs to learn how to trust again, before jumping into another relationship.
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So I recently met this guy, thing is...I've known him sience we were little. we apparently stopped talking because he went to juvy wen he was 6 for grand theft auto. We started dating on christmas of 2011 (last year). My life has been amazing ever sience! I love being with him, around him, and anything that has to do with seeing him. Right now, he is 15 and I'm 13 (don't tell me I'm too young for anything I'm going to say). He is in a residential center right now until march. He has done stuff he isn't proud of, but he tells me that he loves me and is going to change once he gets out. I've also done things I'm not so proud of, so we can relate. I feel like i can trust him, but the thing is.....we usually see eachother on saturdays when he gets out on pass..but yesterday...he didn't show up. I have no idea what is going on and I'm kinda getting scared. I think something happened, but I don't know what. Time for the weird and personal stuff.....he had sex with one of my friends friend, but he only used her for sex....nothing else....he. never loved her, but he told her he did....my friend keeps telling me that he truly does love me, and that if he didn't...he wouldn't go through so much hassle just to be with me...we've been dating for almost 2 months, the girl he only used for sex dated him for 2 weeks, then he dumped her. He hasent tried to rush things with me at all! That is what im suprised about. I dont know what to do! I just think he would cheat on me once he gets out, because my mother keeps telling me that he is using me for a safe place to go when he gets out on his passes....soo... ..my questions are...
#1: Does he seem pretty honest?
#2: Do you think i should trust him?
#3: Do you think he would cheat on me when he gets out?
#4: Do you think he is just using me?
#5: What could I do to show him i truly love him?
#6: Is it weird to worry this much about him?
THANKIES!!!! XD (link)
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I was your age when I dated a bad boy.
I thought his past was his past, and he would change for me like he promised he would.
HE NEVER DID.
People like that never change. They may for a couple of weeks, but they always go back to their old ways.
From past experience, and heart ache. Please move on.
1. He isn't honest. If he was honest, he wouldn't have used that girl. If he uses her, than he's going to use you. You are no different than that other girl in his eyes. Your young, naive, and very gullable. Guys like him, take advantage of that. He will tell you what you want to hear, just because he knows he can.
2. I wouldn't trust him. Why should you?
3. YES! He is only talking and keeping you around because you are the ONLY girl who will stick around through his immature bullcrap. He doesn't like you, or love you. As soon as he is out, he will be on his way without you.
4. YES!
5. Nothing. He doesn't deserve your time and effort.
6. Eh, its half and half. It's normal because you think that he cares about you; but he doesn't. He's selfish and will only continue to care about himself.
The thing that happened where he didn't show up, is because he doesn't care.
Trust me when I say this; MOTHERS ARE ALWAYS RIGHT. They don't just feed you all this nonsense just becaus they think they can. THey see what you don't. THey want what is best for their little girl. Your her babygirl, and she loves you. She wants to protect you, so please take her advice, and move on.
You do know that if you are hanging around someone with a bad reputatin, it makes others look down upon you too right? Other guys won't want you, and parents will not want their kids around you. Is he really worth all of that? Is this guy, who isn't giving you the proper love and attention worth ruining future relationships??
No. He isn't.
Move. On. NOW.
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ok, im like 14 years old and im super short. i hate it soo much. i see all my friends happy with their boyfriends and i REALLY want that. but i feel like all ill ever be to a guy is just a buddy, that short kid who is always just friends. pleaseee tell me IS ALL HOPE LOST? cuz im so cunfuzed and at this point i dont know what to do??? (link)
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All hope isn't lost! I'd rather be short than tall!
I've always been the shortest of all my friends; I'm barely 5 foot and I'm 19!
My boyfriend is 6'1 and we are just fine!
Your 14, you have plenty of time to grow, and right now boys your age aren't really into relationships. Sure your friends have boyfriends, but I promise you; wait and see a few months and I guarentee they will break up; and you'll realize from seeing them in pain, that you don't wnt to rush anything.
Just because your single, doesn't mean no one wants you, it means that you aren't in a rush to find someone. A great man comes when you least expect it! I promise you that!
When I was your age, I was friends with only guys. I was such a tomboy. My friends were so jealous because I'd be hanging with guys, while she had her 'boyfriend'. Sure being friends with guys is grat, but i understand that having someone to call your own sounds better.
Just give it time. Your height has NOTHING to do with it, girl!
Trust me, guys prefer short girls. Would you rather be tall, and almost be taller than half the guys you find attractive, or would you rather be short and not have to worry about dating a guy shorter than you??
:)
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okay its valintines again!!! ugh!! this is the first time i have had a boyfriend on this coming day and weve been going out for a month and i think he is the one !!! but idk what to get him
!!! my bestii said i should get him a bear and ice crem and candy!!! she knows what he is getting me but wont tell me!!! i dont want to get something to much but i dont wanna be cheap ethier and i asked him and he dosnt want anything !! what should i get ??
thxx annette (link)
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Wait...
"We've been going out for a month, and I think he's the one"
hahahahahaha. Sorry but thats hilarious. You probably don't even know his favorite color, what he enjoys to do, or even anything about him.
Slow it down, before you rush it and it ends.
But for Valentines Day, you could get him a gift card to his favorite place to eat; a new hat; a watch; a card; candy; a picture of you and him in a frame; a new game so he can play;
it just really depends on what he likes;
i'm sure he'll like anything coming from his girlfriend!
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18/f
I have naturally dirty blonde hair which I've dyed lighter blonde many times. I've been really wanting to go dark but I am a little nervous. Any tips? Also, I was wondering if darker hair wold bring out my hazel eyes more? Thanks! (link)
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It depends on what color your eyebrows are. I know it sounds silly, but you can't have dark hair and have blonde/light eyebrows. Just like, if someone had black eyebrows and had blonde hair, they would look funny, right?
I think dark hair brings out ANY eye color; so I definately think it would enhance your eyes.
If your going from a dirty blonde, I think you should try a light brown first. Than go from there.
I wouldn't go any darker than a medium brown.
Anything darker than that will show up almost black and might freak you out.
So take it slow. Make sure dark hair color is what you want, because its harder to go light than it is to go dark!
:)
Good Luck!
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Can you get pregnant 3 days after oval action day (link)
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Yes you can. You can get pregnant at ANYTIME if the penis comes into contact with the vagina.
It doesn't matter if your ovulating or not. It's a known fact that women who have sex while they are ovulating, tend to get pregnant a lot easier than women who aren't.
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My friend said whitney houston died! is that another rumor (she is bad for rumors) or is she really dead? if she is, then how did she die and when? (link)
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Yes she really is dead.
http://xfinity.comcast.net/articles/music/20120212/US.Obit.Whitney.Houston/?cid=hero_media
this link will answer all of your questions!
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I really liked this 17 year old.. and he swore he liked me too... he would tell me he loved me and call me baby and baby and sweetie and hun.. but he txted me this morning and told me he had to work.. i was thrown off because he's never had to work in tha morning.. but i let him go.. i was chillen at home and my best friend called me and told me he was at tha mall with this other girl... they were all over each other and holding hands...
I don't understand... He told me he loved me today b4 he went to "work"! He promised me he would never make me cry and he wouldn't ever use me... I don't understand at all.. was i wring for believing him!? Am i too naive?? Why is this happening to me!? (link)
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If you and a guy aren't together and he's telling you he loves you; HE DOESN'T. If he loved you, he would be with you.
Personally, I wouldn't jump to conclusions until you know for a fact its true. I'd ask him about it, but chances are; he will deny it.
You could use a little something I like to call 'reverse psychology'. Text/call him and be like "So yesterday I was at the mall, and I saw you there with another girl. You were literally, ALL over her"
and see what he says. He could admit it, or he could deny it again.
Your best bet, is to move on. Don't ever believe a guy that says he loves you, if he isn't with you. Any guy who really loves you- will be committed to you. This guy seems like a player, and not worth your precious time. It's nothing wrong with you girl. You were giving him the benefit of the doubt and trusted him. What's wrong with that? Next time, you'll know not to trust that easily; and you'll know better next time.
Stay strong. He isn't worth it.
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hi i am 18 years old and so is my boyfriend, we have been going out for almost 3 months now and i wanna know more about him. we plan to be engaged and living together before the summer is over. what are some good questions we can ask eachother to get to know one another better. (link)
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months, so here are some questions that I remember asking him
"What are your future goals?"
"How old do you wanna be when you want to get engaged?"
"Kids? Yes or No?"
"Why did his last relationship end?"
"What is something about you that no one else knows?"
what do you NOT like about yourself, and why?
Three months isn't long enough to know someone, and being with him for 8-9 months still isn't long enough either. YOu truly do NOT know someone, until you live with them. You may think living with him is going to be easy, because of how much you guys love each other; WRONG. That is how you really see his true colors, along with him seeing yours.
For example. My boyfriend moved in with me in August. We were so excited! I wish he NEVER moved in! He's a slob. I'm always cleaning up after him. Everything he does, irriates me. I thought I really loved him, (and I do) but it hasn't been a walk in the park either.
You notice everything that you didn't think you would.
If you really wanna know these things before hand, ask his mother! and his father!
I did that, but I didn't believe her. I wish I would have!
Moms and Dads are the best at finding out information. Becasue they have been living with him, for 18 years!
Good Luck though!
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Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'( (link)
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So you are threating to kill yourself if no one helps you out? Thats pathetic. Grow up.
You don't deserve either guy, honestly. If you are falling under temptations, than do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him. He deserves better. The other guy doesn't deserve you either.
If you are tempted while you have a boyfriend; than when you get with this dude, you'll get temptations as well. You need to just stay single, until you can figure out how to carry a decent, committed relationship, otherwise your just wasting these boys' time, and your own.
BE SINGLE! I don't know why girls feel like they need a guy to be happy. If you don't think its fair to your boyfriend, than break up with him, and do not get with the other guy. How would it make you feel if you knew your boyfriend wanted to kiss another girl? If he was talking to her the way your talking to this dude?? How would you feel if he left you and got with that girl?
You'd feel like shit, right? RIGHT.
So until your a little more mature, don't get into a relationship.
I mean I would say that you need to be honest with your boyfriend, but chances are, you'll just do it again. But if you really care about this guy hunnie, than you need to be honest. If he breaks up with you, than you will know better next time. Ya know? It's your first relationship, so your learning as you go. You aren't perfect. I do give you props for not cheating on him, but what you are allowing this other guy to think can end up with you cheating while being caught off guard.
Just relax. Be honest. If all else fails, just leave them both alone.
Good Luck!
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Awhile ago my guy friend was offering to buy me a coffee the next day, because i was staying up late and would be tired, i refused his offer and he kept saying he was going to get it and id have to take it and insisted on him buying me something, so i told him you can buy me a reeses for valentines day. Well now he told me yesterday since he forgot my birthday, that he'd make it up to me in 7 days and that he already got "all the stuff" I don't know if he's getting me more than i expected him to or if hes just kidding, but should i get him something since he got me something? And if so what? We're both seniors, and hes 18. (link)
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Well since he isn't your boyfriend, that eliminates a bunch of choices.
How about a gift card to his favorite place to eat?
something for his car/truck?
a gas card, since gas is ridiculous.
a box of chocolates.
if he likes sports, how about a t-shirt, or a hoodie? Maybe even a hat?
a gift certificate to his favorite clothing store?
if you guys have any inside jokes, than go with that?
Like for example; this may sound weird to you; but its an insided joke between me and my guy friend; isn't that what inside jokes are all about? lol
anyways, he was texting me one night, and he said something about penguins. And he said 'Man I wished I owned a purple penguin" and he had auto correct, and it said ' I wish I had a purple penis" so for last valentines day, I got him a purple dildo.
He laughed so so hard, and he still has it. lol
so something like that, any inside joke.
you know your friend better than I do, so remember what he likes, and go with it!
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Ok, so say your boyfriend wants you to suck his dick, and you kinda want to. but your only 12. what should you do? is it bad if a 12 year old does that or a handjob? (link)
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If you didn't have doubts that it was bad, than you wouldn't be asking.
YES IT'S BAD! I don't know what the hell has went wrong with girls your age. Always thinking they are ready to do sexual stuff?
Whyy!?!?!?!
You are way to young sweetie. Your boyfriend is way to young to even be thinking of having blowjobs. He doesn't love you. He doesn't know what love is. Boys at that age get 'love' and 'lust' confused because of puberity.
Sweetheart, please save that for a real man that deserves you. Wait ti'll you are older.
This is how I see it,
would you feel comfortable telling your mother and father that you gave a blow job to your boyfriend? Are you comfortable asking them to put you on birth control?
Sucking dick, leads to sex. Are you ready for a child? Do you have a job? A place of your own? Can you support a child by yourself without help from your parents? NO. NO. NO. NO.
How would you feel if you had a daughter, and she was 12 and was sucking a boys penis?
How would it make you feel that after you sucked his penis, he left you like he will do, and went back and told everyone and they started calling you names??
exactly.
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22/F
Okay let me start out by saying we have ALOT of history! we first met back in the summer of 2007 before he left for college..we ended up being hooked to the hip together day/night everything he left for school came back and always saw me i ended up getting pregnant by him but due to being so young and both of us not ready we did not have the baby. we stayed connected as friends nothing more i ended up in a relationship in 2009 we still talked and saw each other when we could i eneded up in 2010 getting pregnant and like always he was there for me saying how much he cared and loved me..2011 i had my baby and was now a single mom due to my xboyfriend not wanting to be in the picture anymore..not even a month after having my baby he came in town to see us it felt like old time all over again but that was in august now i wouldnt see him til one night in October he asked me out on a date.. my heart was running circles.we went out for drinks and out to the movies..the night was perfect we acted like a couple again kissing hugging then after we eneded up having sex, after that night we talked daily nightly everything.. in november he came back in town and we did the same thing drinks and movie..but this time was different he was weird.. after we sat and talked for a very long time he ened up saying he was still in love with his ex and cant get over her..he looked at me and i had tears in my eyes he asked what was wrong but i couldnt get it out until i left and sent him a text with how i felt but i told him not to say a word back. i saw him the next day before he left things felt weird..he came back in December for break and we didnt really see each other but for like 5 times..he came to say bye like always said it was his fault we were growing apart i text him and said its better we just didnt talk because i was only hurting.. then he came in town Febrary (this past weekend)and i didnt think anything was gonna happen but for us to talk and hang out as friends but he came on to me very strong and kissed me then of course we ended up having sex.. but after it got very weird because he didnt want to have sex til marriage (new thing he was on) but he ened up cuming inside me and i wasnt on any birth control so we talked about getting the plan b i told myself i wasnt going to text him at all so i woke up and did my own thing that whole next day he text me asking what i was doing i told him out shopping but told him i would go get the pill because i knew thats what he wanted to know..he said it wasnt..whatever.i blew him off and handled it myself. then sunday he left and didnt even try to come see me before he hit the road. i told him how alone i felt in the situation he told me that wasnt the case and when i asked him what was the case i got no answer....so now im lost as ever i sat up crying all night because i promised myself not to let him in again..what do you do in a situation like this?! i need help!! i feel empty inside. (link)
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I'm going to try my hardest to answer this for you. Your situation is hard because of the boy. He is confusing and giving you mixed signals, which isn't right.
1) you need to see what it is he wants. Does he want you? Does he want a relationship with you? Does he have feelings for you in that way still? Is he over his ex?
Figure out those questions first.
2)Think back on what he says (if it helps write it down, word for word what he said, so later on you aren't questioning the things that he said) and try to focuse on if his answers were what you were hoping for.
3) If they aren't what you were wanting to hear, like "I'm still in love with my ex; I don't want a relationship right now; ect - than you have everything you need to move on.
If he is only contacting you when its convient for him, than that isn't fair to you, is it? No, it sure isn't.
You have a child. You are a mother. You and your child deserve a stable man, because from my understanding, the baby's father isn't stable either.
You need a man who will be a good example for your child. Someone who can be the man YOU have dreamed of helping you raise a child.
Once you figure out that you want/need to move on, you need to get your number changed so he doesn't have it. That is the only way that you can avoid him with a cell phone. Being a female, when a guy texts me that I am crazy about but I need him out of my life; I'll read the text, and try to ignore it; but than my mind is like "text him back and ask this, and this and this and see what his excuse is, or blah blah blah"
This will help prevent the urges to text him, or even text him back when he texts you out of the blue.
When he comes to visit, avoid him. If you see him, look the other way. You even need to let him know while your ending things, tht if he's coming back to town, to not contact you or even see you because you are tired of being a door mat and you need a real man, not someone who is playing with your emotions like its a game.
Those are really the only tips I can give you. If you really want it to be over, and not let him back in; you will find ways to make sure that happens.
Good Luck to you; and if you want to talk more, you can inbox me!
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Hey. 13/F. Just the other day my grandma came in the room with out knocking. And I was busy putting on a pad coz I was on my period. And I don't know wat to do ? My door was close. And I don't know how to tell my mom plz help (link)
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Why are you puttin on a pad in your room? That is what a bathroom is for?
The only thing you can do is ask them for privacy. Let them know that when your door is closed that you would really appreciate it if they knocked first because you wanna feel more like an adult.
Thats all you really can do is talk to them. Figure out why you want privacy, and if you have a lock on your door, than lock it. If not, ask if you can get one.
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So I am going on vacation this year to San Fran or San Diego... havent decided yet. Either way... there will be 4 of us but we cant afford a hotel for 4 of us. So I wanna know how easy or complicated it is to get a 2 person room and sneak 2 more people in. We were thinking we could get a blow up mattress and sneak it out every day... no big deal if we have to do that... but the maid might notice extra luggage... idk. Have any of you done this? Is it pretty easy to get away with?
NO negative comments... (link)
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I've done this before plenty of times. It's crazy how much more expensive it is just for two extra poeple!
I even asked a woman at the desk how much it was for an extra two people and she even told me not to tell them that. To come in and pay for two and sneak the other two in.
It depends on who all is going as well.
Like if its a double date thing, than a two bed would be fine. But if its like two boys and two girls than it could be a little weird sleeping in the same bed with another guy who isn't your boyfriend.
But if they are completely comfortable than I wouldn't worry about an air mattress.
But you wouldn't even have to sneak the air mattress in and out, I'd just leave it there, and when you guys aren't going to be there, throw it on top of another bed. They shouldn't suspect the 'extra' luggage either.
If they do than explain that females always pack way too much! hahah.
and if you are worried about the extra luggage than just hide it in the room; combine them together and put the extra bag in the trunk.
I don't see it being a problem. Just make sure when you pay for the room, the other two people are in the car, and have them stay there until its clear.
Good luck!
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Well me and my boyfriend just recently had sex around january and we had protected sex with a condom and everything, it didn't break or it didn't have a rip, we only lasted about 10 seconds because i felt risky so we just stop but i was supposed to get my period February 1st and i am now 6 days late and really stressing whether i'm pregnant or not, i really hope i'm not though. (link)
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Well if you guys used a condom, and it didn't bust or tear than I think your okay.
It would be helpful if I know how old you are.
You need to relax though. The more you stress about it, the longer your period will be late.
I use to be in your position. I'm 19 years old and I usually started my period on the 14th of every month; but in November after I turned 19, my period never came. I was freaking out. I took home pregnancy test and everything.
Than finally in December, my period came on the 2nd, and than again on the 14th; ever since than my periods have been right on schedule.
So its normal for periods to come and go. Especially if they are regular from the start, your period will not be regular forever. You could be at an age where your body is changing, and that is normal.
But once you start thinking that your pregnant, your mind begins to trick you. It'll make you feel sick to your stomach because your nerves are so messed up, and it'll make you think the worse which will cause your period to be late.
Take a home pregnancy test. First response is the best one I have done. If it says negative than you are in the clear. Give yourself a couple of days, and if no period than let me know.
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okay a few months ago i wrote on here cuz the love of my life left and i was devasted.okay i moved on(i just think nout hom 24/7) and i had a two month realtionship with a guy who payed no attiotion to me but the other females i dumped him he came running back i take him and he does the same thing.so i broke up with him again okay 2 days later i get together with the love of my lifes(roger) old bestfriend(till he moved)okay the day we get together he tells my that roger is comin back tommrow so i called roger and its true the next day at school i see him and i get real weak and my legs are shaking and my heart is racing and he comes and gives me a hug.the next day i tell him im going out with(alex)he is ok with it but i realy love roger but he just doesnt treat me right and alex does!! and tonight there hanging out roger trying to make alex be bad cause he isnt and idk what to do i LOVE roger soo much but i dont want to end things with alex.and i already told roger i dont want to become to close to him cause of alex but i have 4 classes with him and he is just sooo cute!!! rember he is the love of my life and i love him so muchh!!! thxx (link)
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you seem a little confused.
You shouldn't be with Alex since you love Roger; it isn't fair to him.
I think you need to be single and stop jumping from relationship to relationship. That isn't right. You aren't giving yourself enough time to breathe. You don't need a guy to be happy, and thats what it sounds like your doing.
Be single. You seem to young to even want a boyfriend.
If Roger treats you bad, than get over him. Plain and Simple. You don't know what love is. The reaosn why your "knees were weak" is because you were nervous. It has nothing to do with love.
Be single and do yourself a favor.
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18, Female.
I'm into the nice 'kids in high school fall in love' kind of stories but lately they just haven't been cutting it haha. Does anybody know any good books like that but with sex (Most important), drugs, drinking? Just more mature stuff than something like a thirteen year old would read. The only type of book I can actually sit down and read have a lot of romance in it. So please don't suggest to me any pure mystery/fantasy/etc stores.
I'm running low on books on my Kindle I haven't read yet, haha. Thanks! (link)
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I'm not really sure about romance books, but I'm just like you when it comes to what I'm interested in with books.
I like something that makes me dream of having that boy who will run after you after a fight, instead of letting you walk off. Lol.
But what I wanted to add is that I read a book called,
"A Child Called It" by Dave Peltzer, and I fell in love. I didn't think I'd like a book like that, but I loved it so so much that I read the whole series.
It's based on a true story, and after reading it has made me a better person. I know that it isn't the catogory you wanted, but trust me, it's worth the time. You'll be so hooked that you are going to want to finish it in one day. Trust me.
If you go to google and type in
"Good teenage romance books with drugs and drinking and sex" you will be surprised of how much comes up!
If you do decide to read a child called it, please let me know how you liked it!
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I like this 17 year old, but my parent's won't allow me to date him. My heart is set on him and i can't just let him go.. I really like him and he really likes me... What should i do? (link)
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The user below me is completely wrong. You do not want to go behind your parents back!
When I was 14, I really liked a guy that was 17 as well. Of course, my parents were against it.
I didn't blame them. The age difference is a lot. It may not seem like a lot, but truely, it is.
I did what the chick below me said to do, and I went behind my parents back. It wasn't a secret for long, and than I got busted. My parents found out. I lost their trust, and I wasn't allowed to do anything for a while.
You don't want to lose your parents trust. Trust isn't something that can be gained over night. Once you lose it, it's hard to gain it back. Trust me.
I know you really like this guy, but I am probably 98.9% right when I say that he is only interested in you for sex. Thats what the guy that I liked wanted from me. I was young and naive, and when he said he loved me, I beleved it. Than he began to say "If you love me, you will do this." and I left him.
No boy is worth ruining the relationship you have with your parents, sweetie.
Your parents don't tell you "No" or "You aren't allowed to do that" just because they can;
they do it because your their babygirl; and they love you; they've been in your shoes before and they know what its like to be in your position. THey are doing it to benefit you, and to help you.
When I was growing up, my parents would tell me something, and I ALWAYS thought they were wrong.Than when something would happen and it was exactly like they said it would be, I felt stupid. If I would have listened and realized they were doing it for the right reasons and not to be jerks, I could have saved myself a lot of heartbreak, regret, and embarassment.
Just be wise about your decision. Boys come and go, but your parents will always be there for you. Don't let a silly boy ruin the relationship between your parents and you.
Good Luck!
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It's my mums birthday coming up but I don't know what to get her. So, as a little gesture I thought I'd get some ingredients and cook a three course meal for her, my step-dad, myself, and my sister. One problem. I have no idea what to cook! Something with not too much prep and I kinda want the three courses to go together... meat for main maybe? lemony thing for pudding? I don't know. :D Any suggestions welcome... :D (link)
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it depends on what type of food she likes.
For the appetizer, you could do a salad.
Those are always simple, and jsut figure out what type of thigns she likes in her salad.
For dinner, you could do chicken, pork chops, steak, or whatever is easiest for you.
There are many different recipes for those types of meats to make it something differet.
Now for dessert, one of my favorites is a cake.
It's called Better Than Sex Cake. Or Heath Cake.
It's delicious, especially if you like chocolate, caramel, and whip cream! And its so simple to make.
Those are the three things I would do.
If you want more ideas, than I can give you a couple..
For the first part you could do chips and salsa
cheese dip
spinach dip
bean dip
It's hard to do because I'm not too sure what types of food your mother likes, or even the rest of your family.
Pasta is always an easy one. You could do spagetti and meatballs, with some garlic bread
you could do chicken alfredo
chicken fried rice with brocolii
chicken all la king- which is shredded white chicken in chicken broth, with peas, over corn bread.
beef tips and noddles
fried chicken with potatoes, carrots, greenbeans, ect.
make sure you include some type of bread.
those are always a plus.
but if you want more ideas.
go to google, and type in "quick and easy three course meals"
and see what you get. You may find better ideas dealing with what your mother truely likes.
I know she will love whatever you have planned for her. A day from not cooking will be something she will appreciate. You could always make her breakfast in bed, my mom loved that when I did that for her.
I saw that you said that you don't know what to get her, so if you don't mind, I can give you some ideas in that category...
Every year, I write my mom a note, telling her how much I appreciate her, and how much she has impacted my life for the better. Sometimes moms can feel unappreciated, so having a letter that she can reread whenever she is feeling that way, always makes them feel good. Than I'll put the letter in a nice, sweet card for her.
One year, I took her out to eat to her favorite place; and than I got her a cupcake by GiGi's- if you aren't familiar with that, they are delicious!
One year I got her some potpurie stuff to make the house smell good. I even got her a mother daughter ring and neclace with our names engraved on it.
If you interested in that, theres a place called Limoges Jewelry online, and they have cheap, engraved mother daughter/son jewelry that she will cherish forever.
If you are interested in that than you can go to Facebook.com and type in Limoges Jewelry in the search bar of facebook and you will get an access code for free shipping and handling and sometimes a $10 off coupon.
If you need anything else, just inbox me!
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