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Have I been USED!?
I really liked this 17 year old.. and he swore he liked me too... he would tell me he loved me and call me baby and baby and sweetie and hun.. but he txted me this morning and told me he had to work.. i was thrown off because he's never had to work in tha morning.. but i let him go.. i was chillen at home and my best friend called me and told me he was at tha mall with this other girl... they were all over each other and holding hands...
I don't understand... He told me he loved me today b4 he went to "work"! He promised me he would never make me cry and he wouldn't ever use me... I don't understand at all.. was i wring for believing him!? Am i too naive?? Why is this happening to me!?
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Calm down; your young and you already proved that what you have isn't true love. When you really love someone you trust them with everything so something a friend told you about them shouldn't make you feel so much as to doubt everything you've ever had with the person (not saying that he wasn't with a girl at them mall).
So instead you COMMUNICATE with the person you "love" by Asking him if what you heard was true or not, if he denys it then that's it you let it go, if he is lying it will catch up with him.
I can't answer whether you are naive or not because you didnt tell me enough about you or how your relationship with this guy started and how it is.
If you think your naive for following your heart even though it got you hurt then your wrong. Its hard to explain but if you don't put yourself out there like that when it feels right (act on your feelings) then you'll never find that someone special.
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If you and a guy aren't together and he's telling you he loves you; HE DOESN'T. If he loved you, he would be with you.
Personally, I wouldn't jump to conclusions until you know for a fact its true. I'd ask him about it, but chances are; he will deny it.
You could use a little something I like to call 'reverse psychology'. Text/call him and be like "So yesterday I was at the mall, and I saw you there with another girl. You were literally, ALL over her"
and see what he says. He could admit it, or he could deny it again.
Your best bet, is to move on. Don't ever believe a guy that says he loves you, if he isn't with you. Any guy who really loves you- will be committed to you. This guy seems like a player, and not worth your precious time. It's nothing wrong with you girl. You were giving him the benefit of the doubt and trusted him. What's wrong with that? Next time, you'll know not to trust that easily; and you'll know better next time.
Stay strong. He isn't worth it.
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