i LOVE roger soo much but i dont want to end things with alex!
Question Posted Tuesday February 7 2012, 4:36 am
okay a few months ago i wrote on here cuz the love of my life left and i was devasted.okay i moved on(i just think nout hom 24/7) and i had a two month realtionship with a guy who payed no attiotion to me but the other females i dumped him he came running back i take him and he does the same thing.so i broke up with him again okay 2 days later i get together with the love of my lifes(roger) old bestfriend(till he moved)okay the day we get together he tells my that roger is comin back tommrow so i called roger and its true the next day at school i see him and i get real weak and my legs are shaking and my heart is racing and he comes and gives me a hug.the next day i tell him im going out with(alex)he is ok with it but i realy love roger but he just doesnt treat me right and alex does!! and tonight there hanging out roger trying to make alex be bad cause he isnt and idk what to do i LOVE roger soo much but i dont want to end things with alex.and i already told roger i dont want to become to close to him cause of alex but i have 4 classes with him and he is just sooo cute!!! rember he is the love of my life and i love him so muchh!!! thxx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? masterclinic answered Tuesday February 7 2012, 5:36 pm: Roger isn't the love of your life and you don't even know what love is, sorry. I don't have to know how old u are to tell you that your in junior high or in your first years of high school. The feelings that you have around roger the heart beating fast and getting nervous is because you think he's cute, that's it.
So my advice is to dump Alex and tell him that your way too immature and naive to be in a relationship and all your going to do is end up hurting him or... Grow up and see that you have a nice guy that treats you right and cares about you and not fuck things up.
You don't have to believe me but I do know what I'm talking about if you think other wise talk to someone older then you who is in a loving relationship and ask them what u should do [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
nascarfan1987 answered Tuesday February 7 2012, 4:06 pm: you seem a little confused.
You shouldn't be with Alex since you love Roger; it isn't fair to him.
I think you need to be single and stop jumping from relationship to relationship. That isn't right. You aren't giving yourself enough time to breathe. You don't need a guy to be happy, and thats what it sounds like your doing.
Be single. You seem to young to even want a boyfriend.
If Roger treats you bad, than get over him. Plain and Simple. You don't know what love is. The reaosn why your "knees were weak" is because you were nervous. It has nothing to do with love.
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