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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!
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No way - good thing you told him because hey!? waht have you got to loose right? RITE ok so wait untill he answers you dont nag on him and something should work out GOOD LUCK


Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl. (link)
ok i no this advice is totally wrong, but i would start worse rumors about her or get her back
OK heres some real advice -
just be nice to her, talk it out with her, and ignore the rumors they will stop eventually! i promise they wont stay with you forever! Good Luck


Hello my name is chelsey i am a 13/f i have this guy that i really really like and he really likes me and well honestly i have never really made out before and he has a lot of experiance and i don't know how to makeout!!! and he really wants to and i told him i wanted to too. And i mean i do but i'm scared because i don't know how to!!..Can someone please tell me the right way!! and not what to do and what to do!!!..PLEASE!! ~*I'LL RATE REALLY HIGH!!!*~

Thank you very much!!,

love you xox,
chel (link)
it comes naturally i swear to god. dont practice dont flinch dont back away last second dont be scared! he'll take care of you!!! think happy thoughts LOL good luck


hey, i need a costume for children in need, that me and a couple of friends can do together, like a themed thing. I don't mean actually wear the same costume (like a pantomime horse or anything), but i mean a theme to dress up as. it's on friday, so i need help quick! (link)
be the three little pigs or M and Ms LOL good luck


The guy I'm seeing now does not use his tongue when kissing or... anything else for that matter. Ever! He finds it disgusting! His mouth is always sealed. I on the other hand, love french kisses! I didn't even know there were people out there like him. Is this normal? It's sort of hard to get passionate with someone like this, lol. (link)
It probably is hard for you but you have to consider his part- maybe he hasnt kissed a girl before and doenst know what to do or is afraid and he could be using "its disgusting" as an excuse you never no. try not to let it bother you to much. if it does, (and you have to really like him) talk to him about it and tell him its not gross but passionate and its not a "dirty" thing. give him time to think and keep me posted GOOD LUCK
PeACe


is there a difference between going out end being gf/bf?
i have been going out with this guy for a while and people say oh you two are going out right? and i dont know if he considers us bf/gf? (link)
If people are saying he are you two going out and he says yes then he probably considers you his g/f if your really not sure just ask him


what is limewire? do you download songs for free on it? or what?

5's (link)
wow so many people are talking about limewire LOL ok so if you go to limewire.com then go to download now then click on basic (free version) and download it, you can then dowload any song that you want to but it might give you viruses or lots of popups if you have a good virus blocker you should be all set good luck ask again if you need to
PeAcE


O.K.
I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
I rate high! (link)
ok you can turn my life into a story but keep me posted on the final copy LOL ok so here goes i lived in the same house all my life then when i was 10 i moved to this small icky town of cows LOL j/k at first it was hard now i have lots of friends i horseback ride and i dance (tap and hiphop)so yeah im not popular, not a geek not wicked skinny not fat im nice to people im in love with all cute guys. i lead a pretty boring life so add a twist to it for me and then IM me Xxrider129 if you need any more good luck hehehe
PeAcE


im 13 and in the 8th grade. school is getting so hard for me! i have about 1 1/2 to 2 hours of hoework everynight. homework in every subject too. is there any way i can get it done faster or make more time for it? i recently switched to spanish becasue french was getting to hard too. (link)
hey im in the same stage as you with about a million other 13-15 year olds. this middle school stuff isnt even the hard part- wait till you get to high school! ok so my teachers tell us that 1-1 1/2 hours is normal for an 8th grade student every night! i no its unfair and all but we have to deal. i say if you have any time at school, on the bus, on the ride home, if you have a study or free period in school or something try to get done as much as you can. BUT! if things get really tough and tahts still not enough time i even do my homework sometimes while my teachers teaching the class and has already posted the homework. or sometimes i get the hw from my friend thats in the same class only at a dif. time. (now i no thats not the kind of advice i should be giving you but...LOL) try your best and good luck


Is limewire free? (link)
the basic one is free :)


I recently broke up with my long term boyfriend, that just recently moved back up here from Florida. He moved to Florida because he was having serious problems with his life, (getting into drugs and things) and I was happy he moved because he broke my heart several times while he was doing these things. while he was in Florida, i didn't feel like waiting around, which is a normal feeling of any girl. I hung out with other guys that he wasnt too thrilled about. But he always forgave me, even when I told him I was going to a prom with another guy, (that he hates)... and I even cheated on him.. twice. And he knows that. Now idk why I did those things because I am completely and totally in love with him. I think it was because to see if I wanted anything else out there. Well, anyways, we got over that part of our lives, and now hes back up here. About a month ago,we got into a very very serious car accident together. I was the driver, and it was very hard on me mentally because it wasnt a fender bender. (We are dealing with that in process.) I felt like he'd always be there, but like any guy, he moved on very quickly and started talking about things i couldnt believe he was talking about. We were good for about a week after that, and then I started getting really paranoid. I am very nervous when he is up here. About what hes doing, who hes hanging around with.. I never trusted him. Then, he started skipping school everyday, simply because "he didnt feel like coming". I started getting pissed because obviously that was the first sign of him changing back into his old ways. So, we broke up.. and then I hung out with another boy. He found out, now hes telling people we broke up because I hung out with the boy, not that hes an immature ass hole who wants to screw up his life. He calls me his mother for wanting for him to come to school, but I just think I'm one of the few who actually cares about him. But now, I don't know what to do... because now hes putting on that act like, ...'I'm never going to be with you again, but I still want you to want me'... Personally I think thats bullshit and no girl EVER deserves that. But, I cant not take bullshit from him because.. I've been with him for so long and I love him so much, even when hes the biggest ass hole. I feel like I need support from this accident and he's the only one I can share it with because he experienced it with me. None of my friends understand what its like to go through a huge tramatic thing in your life and not have many people to talk about it with. I know I should be giving up on my exboyfriend.. but I dont want to. I want to be with him more than anything in the world because when I am, I feel 10 times more happier about myself. I dont know if its a personality disorder or if I'm just pure crazy. I need advise, fast


.. I know its long but please I need help


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this is like another story i previously answered. Just support him. tell him its wrong to do drugs and skip school and that you want to be friends and talk to him. like i ALWAYS say LOL - things will improve over time and we just have to be patient good luck with everything and take BABY STEPS!!!
PeACe


i dont have my period yet and im 13years old. all of my friends have it too. is there like something wrong with me? (link)
i totally agree with karen on this one. Your perfectly normal and your times gonna come pretty soon. trust me, you wont want it then
PeAcE (for now ill see you tomorrow LOL)
Love YaS


I wnet out with this guy for a year and a day to be exact then i broke up with him because hes much older than i and i like this kid in my grade.. How long before i should date agian?
i was thinkin 4 months?

--13/f-- (link)
i say that you shouldnt go out RITE AWAY , you should leave some time for your previous relationship to queit, and then its your desicion from there, i say that you dont have to wait 4 months but run it by your friends and then go for it if you feel its right. i say nothing should have a time limit. Good Luck with that
PeAcE


ok i like my guy best friend. idk what to do. i want to ask him out but im not sure. i think he knows i like him. actually i really want HIM to ask me out. im so confused. what should i do?? (link)
Hey hon. I think taht you should go for it and ask him out. If your not brave enough to do that, then shot signals (even though thats not the right thing to do) Your best bet is just telling him how you feel and if he goes with it, great if he doenst his loss. good luck
Love ya (u no i do LOL)- ~CHRISTINA~


hey does anyone know how to burn cd's on windows media player?? and please give me VERY descriptive VERY step by step intructions!!thanx
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hey on click on windows media player, then on the left click on copy to CD or Device, then at the top where it says ITEMS TO COPY - yeah- in taht box click on where your getting ur music from and then after youve done that check off the songs' box taht u want to download. ok , now at the top right hand corner click copy. this might take about 10 -15 minutes depending on how many songs. make sure you have a blank CD in your CDROM drive and make sure your computer can burn CDS!! good luck ask for more help if ya need it


I'm a wreck. I'm not going to hide it. I try to act like I'm over my ex boyfriend but I'm not. We had a long distance relationship. he seemed so perfect, hes different. At least i thought he was. Until I found out he had just been temporarily using me until someone better came along. Well someone better did come along and he had to break up with by saying "I'm sorry but I need physical affection. And I can't get it from you." Is he sugguesting that he broke up with me because I'm not a slut?! It also doesnt help that his girlfriend thinks were best friends. I need help, people say I should block him but I can't because he needs to know how I feel and I'm not sure I'm getting the message to him but I'm afraid to talk to him.

Sorry it was so long. :-(

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hes just looking to have sex, i think. basically, yeah if he wants to do it within like 1 week of knowing a girl and the girl goes for it, hes looking for a slut.get a guy that likes you for hew you are and not how fast you do it good luck with that
PeAcE


I will rate 5's to any good answers, I need help really bad...please!

I have a boyfriend, Justin. We have been dating for three months today (on and off for about a year, with no communication for 4 months over the summer) and this is the longest we've ever gone out for. He's getting homeschooled until January (long story) and I can only see him during the weekends for the whole day on Saturdays. We both love each other very much. He was my first (I lost my virginity to him.)

Anyways, that's just a little background info. What's been bugging me lately, or rather, scaring me to death, is his attitude towards life. He wants to give up on everything and just end it all. THAT SCARES ME! He thinks he has mouth cancer (he chews and smokes) and his mom is a nurse so she said that yeah, it's probably cancer. He told me last night that he told himself if he ever got cancer he was going to put a bullet in his head. I remember him telling me this before. I made him swear not to do anything and he said okay but if it got any worse he was going to do it. And now when we get off the phone and he's depressed he will be like "baby, I love you so much, don't ever forget that" like that's the last time I will ever talk to him.

The other thing is, he has trust issues. He's admitted to me numerous times it's so hard for him not to get to see me and he doesn't want to end up cheating on me with someone else and hurt be because it's bound to happen because we don't see each other alot and he loooves physical interaction. That hurts me. He also said last night maybe we should break up because I was getting too scared about him commiting suicide and he didn't want me to worry about him. (But we didn't break up after all.) Anyways, since he is being home schooled till January, he claims he has been having people call him and tell him I am cheating on him. Which is not true. At all. He says he can't trust anyone after in 6th grade he got locked up and his girlfriend then did him wrong. I was wondering if you guys could think of any way I can get him to trust me more and be happier. It kills me to see him like this and to have him not trust me. I know he wants to, but he says there's something inside of him that tells him that I am. I can't break up with him, or take a break. I love him too much to do that. Oh, and the guy that someone said I was supposedly all over is calling him tonight to talk to him about it. Um...can anyone offer ANY help? I will rate high! Sorry this is so long!

-Christeena (link)
Hey hon, im sorry your in this situation, its really tough i no. the thing you have to do is support him support him support him allll the way. tell him that you don't think suicide is the answer, but make sure that your always there to comfort him and that you want him in your life forever. jsut be a positive thinker and everything in time will start getting better but tell him not to give up and you dont give up either please keep me posted and the best of luck to you
Christina


so my parents are driving me crazy. i know what your thinking. this is normal... right? well, this time it is really eating at me. they took all of my friends away except for three of them that are unrelated to any of the other ones. i really cant take it. theyve took away my best friend, and alot of others. i just hate it. i need someone to go to for help on this... and there just isnt anyone who would be able to sit and listen to me. i cant go to my parents, obviously. they wont cave in and say its ok for me to be with any of my friends, since they think theyre all a bad influence on me. please help. (link)
I no its feels like you just want to really give it to your parents, run away, make them a worried and then they say ok NOW you can have w/e you want just dont leave us! RITE? WRONG! ive been in your situation sooo many times its unbeliveable but the only thing you can do is grin and bare it, and then get back at them when you have a car LOL j/k j/k no really for now there is nothing you can do unless you sit down, and have a long talk about what you think your punishments should be etc etc keep me posted and sooo much luck to you
CHRISTINA


I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc." (link)
Hey. well i say that you tell her straight out that she sometimes does hurt your feelings and that youd like her to be a little more sensetive towards you tahts all because how else is she going to know and you want to be as close to your friends as you can get good luck hope everything works out


hey i have a question for all guys: are guys turned off by big feet? i wear a size 8 1/2, and so i was just wondering. thx for all answers, i'll give all NICE answers 5s! ♥ (link)
size 8-8 1/2 is a good size! your fine and i dobut guys are turned off because they probably hardly ever look, down...well, at least at your feet LOL :)




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