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Heartbroken </3
I'm a wreck. I'm not going to hide it. I try to act like I'm over my ex boyfriend but I'm not. We had a long distance relationship. he seemed so perfect, hes different. At least i thought he was. Until I found out he had just been temporarily using me until someone better came along. Well someone better did come along and he had to break up with by saying "I'm sorry but I need physical affection. And I can't get it from you." Is he sugguesting that he broke up with me because I'm not a slut?! It also doesnt help that his girlfriend thinks were best friends. I need help, people say I should block him but I can't because he needs to know how I feel and I'm not sure I'm getting the message to him but I'm afraid to talk to him.
Sorry it was so long. :-(
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Your ex isn't a bad person and doesn't just want sex from a relationship. If that were the case he wouldn't have entered into a long distance relationship with you at all. Long distance relationships are very hard and some people just can't do it. Your ex was upset because there was no way to make your relationship closer. He didn't see your relationship going anywhere because he couldn't be with you. He couldn't hold your hand or hang out with you. Sure he couldn't kiss you either, but that's not all of it You can only get so close to someone emotionally without being physical in some way with them. Being with the other person is an important part of a relationship. Your ex couldn't handle waiting around for you two to get together anymore. He couldn't see the relationship going anywhere. I've been in a long distance relationship before and I've experienced this first hand. It's an awful feeling. You just feel like you're drifting apart from the other person because you can't get any closer. However, it was pretty nasty of him to lie to his current girlfriend about you. Relationships should be based on complete honesty. He may have felt he had to lie because he's uncomfortable talking about you with his new girlfriend because he still has feelings for you. Don't be mad at him or think he's a bad person. Maybe if you two can get together or meet later in life that spark will still be there. I"m sorry that this happened to you. You should keep in touch with your ex though. You two can still be really great friends. Don't get your hopes up too much, but sometimes things just fix themselves. I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope that I was able to help you.
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Dear Heartbroken,
I was in the same situation. This is what I did,
1.) You need to tell your EX boyfriend how you fill. It may take some time to get over your scaredness to talk to him but he told you off so tell him off and say something like:
" Hey I think it was REALLY BAD the way you did me." Then you want fell as bad BELIVE ME!!!!
2.)Just try to ignore him as best you can
HEY i am going though a tough situation with my Best Friend but yeah ( long Story) Just try the best you can to ignore the hec out of him. I bet you anything he WILL want you back. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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Wow, I totally know how you feel. The same happened to me with a guy I was going out with long distance. It was all great for a while and then as soon as some girl came along he left me. I tried to justify his actions by saying "he's a guy.. obviously he'd rather someone he can have in the flesh rather than someone he can only see via text" But then I came to realize there was no justification for it. Anyway, sorry to turn this around to myself. Basically, he broke up with you because he wasn't willing to put any effort into the relationship and try and withstand the distance. Long distance relationships are hard, especially since there is no physical affection. But if you truly love a person, this wouldn't matter to you. I'm sorry to break this to you, but obviously the relationship didn't mean anything to him. He's a jerk and you shouldn't bother with him at all. It may seem difficult to block him, but why should you chase after him? Pretend you don't care. He WANTS to see a reaction from you. He wants to think you're after him. Don't grant him that. Be strong and show that you are better than him. You can do better than him.
All the best. ^_~
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hes just looking to have sex, i think. basically, yeah if he wants to do it within like 1 week of knowing a girl and the girl goes for it, hes looking for a slut.get a guy that likes you for hew you are and not how fast you do it good luck with that
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