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So, I gave my boyfriend a handjob and after I did it he had to "adjust himself." He didn't cum, but I am worried about precum. He fingered me after that and ahh I am all paranoid that I could be pregnant. What are the chances that I am?
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a very small chance. wait for your period to come or just take a pregnancy test.

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i recently went on a school trip and we stayed in a hotel. the last day we were there, the left side of my bottom started hurting really bad. it was really sore, but there wasnt a rash or bruise or anything. When i got home i noticed some small bumps on my bottom that are really sore to touch and hurt really bad. I sat on the edge of the bathtub in the hotel when i shaved my legs and i was thinking that could be where i picked up these bumps. there is no chance they are an std unless i might have picked up herpes or something on the bathtub because i've never had sex. can you catch herpes off a bathtub? what else could it be? (link)
it might just be a rash, but go to the doctors to make sure.

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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him! (link)
it's totally and completely up to you who you like or don't like. if you like him, don't worry about what your friends think. if he's a nice guy then don't try to stop liking him!


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whats emo? liek i know there are preppy people, gothic people, what are emo people? thnx (link)
emo is short for emotional. there really is no such thing as an 'emo' person. but now there is such a thing. it pretty much means that a person is very emo[tional]. if they are sad, the don't want to talk to anyone. some of them cut their wrists because they don't know what to do. some wear black and a lot of make-up. any more questions about emo?


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ok. i'm 15 years old, 5'4" and 97 pounds. i know this probably sounds like a lot but i really feel unconfortable and i would like to get my weight down to about 89 pounds (thats what i was last summer).. however if my mom notices me not eating then she'll flip so i have to be kind of discreet about it. i also don't want to have to starve myself or anything... i run about 25 miles per week and i don't think i can do much more exrecise though i`ll try if that will make a difference. i'd like to reach my goal my mid-july. thanks :) (link)
try doing like 50 crunches a day. also, EAT;; just eat healthy! you're not going to get anywhere by not eating! PLEASE EAT! try 100 calorie packs and low cal. foods like that. it will help. = ]


is 'popping your cheery' actually popping something? like inside your vagina or is it just stretching out the skin? because i thought there was something inside your vagina and when you have sex it will pop?? i dont know so please clue me in!! (link)
'popping your cherry' is just another way of breaking the hymen in your vagina. you can do this from a tampon, sex, masturbating, etc..

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so last night i tried to put my first tampon in. i got it to go in alright but once it was in i started to get dizzy and stuff so i took it out then like 2 minutes later i puked..is that normal? thanksss! (link)
no, that isn't normal. tell youre doctor. something in the tampon might have bothered you. don't use one again until you see your doctor about that.


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okay so I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 months. We love each other alot, and we do everything together. When were alone we get along great but when we are at school we argue alot because he gets jealous alittle to easy. What should I do to fix our problems at school so we don't argue anymore? (link)
talk to him! say something like 'i'm in love with you, you don't have to be jealous.'


ok so im with my friend *Laura like atleast 6 days outta the week sometimes 7, and we're mostly at her house..and im always sleeping over at her house. cuz we always go to late movies then i just sleep at her house. do you think im over at her house way too much or im with her wayy to much? thanks

*name has been changed

thanks again (link)
if she's a good friend, it's fine. but i wouldn't just be good friends with one person, it's good to get to know people!

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okay so i started taking antibiotics last saturday and finished taking them yesterday. i know that you're not supposed to drink alcohol when taking antibiotics but do you think it's safe to drink tonight? remember: i finished taking them yesterday.

and i'm of legal drinking age so don't lecture me about that. (link)
i would think it would be okay, but i would call your doctor just to make sure!

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My abs are looking pretty flabby lately. I really want to tone them up. What is the best way to do so? Any tips and tricks are appreciated =) (link)
try about 50 crunches a day. also, when you lift your shoulders off of the ground, lift your legs also. that is what i do, and im pretty in tone.

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ive been going out with this boy for about 3 years now..im kinda getting bored and annoyed with him and i think i like someone else...im not sure how to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to be together without hurting him to much. i still care about him its just i just want to be friends and im not sure how to put it..could you tell me what to say without hurting him too badly??thanks
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if i were you and i was in taht situation, i would say something like

"can we talk please" ..... "well i think i would like it better if we were friends, so we could date other people. i just think it would be better for the both of us"

and you could say that in person or online!

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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him (link)
you should hang out with him more, talk to him more, call him more;; that kind of stuff!
if you arent stable right now, you shouldnt be in a relationship

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i had my 13 birthday 1 and a half months ago and my mom threw me a big party where me and my boyfriend slept together for the first time after being together nearly 2 years. after that we agreed not to do it again for a while 'cos i didnt felt ready, i missed my period so i took a pregnancy test and it was posative! i have told him (he is almost 15) and he says he will stand by me what ever i choose but i am so affraid. i feel helpless, please help me :( (link)
first thing, tell a family member/guardian that is closest to you. have him/her tell your mother/father/guardian. just tell them the honest truth and they will understand... well they should. if you have any more questions, send me a message!


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My friends are fighting a lot.Any suggestion?I'm 14,a girl,and I'm from Singapore. (link)
at the age of 14 its normal for friends to get in fights. everything will turn out fine if these girls are really friends.

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Ok this is serious and I'm really scared. Please answer this truthfully. So today I was with my boyfriend of over a year at his house. He was fingering me and then he stuck his penis inside of me...without a condom. = ( I didn't realize that it was his penis. I quickly got it out, less than a minute. Then he went and got a condom and he put it in there for about five minutes tops. He wasn't being the rough but what are the chances of me getting pregnate? oh and by the way i'm only thirteen, but i've had my period. what do i do if i am pregnant and what is the earlyest i would be able to tell? i rate really high (link)
first of all, calm down, sweetie. go to a drug store with one of your friends and buy a pregnancy test. if it comes out positive, tell a family member, or guardian. if not, your fine. if you dont feel like going to get a pregnancy test, you can wait until next month when you are suppose to get your period, if it is more than about 5 days late, then tell someone

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What does it mean when you scrunch your hair? And could anyone send me a picture of it? (link)
Wash and condition your hair. Make sure you squeeze the excess water out of your hair. To scrunch it, you want it damp, not soaking.
Wrap your hair in a towel to dry it a bit. Do not brush your hair. Not only can brushing wet hair cause split ends, but it also prevents you from getting the scrunched effect.
Comb your fingers through your hair and make a part as best as you can. Don't worry if it's not perfect.
Spray hairspray all over your hair.
Put gel in your hands and rub them together to spread the gel.
Grab a small handful of hair by the ends and push it up toward the head. Hold it in place for a few seconds.
Repeat this all over your head, keeping in mind that the small handfuls yield tighter waves and large handfuls create full, loose waves.

[[[http://www.wikihow.com/Scrunch-Hair]]]


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My bedroom is white and boring. I've been thinking about redecorating it. mostly painting the walls. I just have no idea what color to paint it. My favorite colors are pink and black. I'd be scared to paint it black and plus, im not allowed. but im not sure if i wanna paint it pink. Please help.

What colors would you suggest to paint a bedroom.

I'll rate 5's for anyone that tries. (link)
to make it fun and if you dont/cant have all black, make it plad. like have pink and turqoise and black! it would look really cute.

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my boyfriend has fingered me a few times. the first time he did it, nothing happened. the second time he did it, nothing. and the third time, i was bleeding and not just for like an hour but for about 2 days. i didn't get my period i was just bleeding after he did that. so what's going on with that? is that normal? (link)
you probably just "popped your cherry"... that is when your hymen breaks. its normal... your fine, dont worry about it.

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hey.. i was wondering, what are some cheats for the sims 2 ... i already know the motherlode one.. but are there any others?.. thanks (link)
try these sites:

http://www.gamespot.com/pc/strategy/thesims2/hints.html

http://www.cheatgenius.co.uk/cheats/12043/PC-cheats/The-Sims-2-Cheats.html

http://www.supercheats.com/pc/thesims2.htm

http://cheats.gamespy.com/pc-cheats/the-sims-2/

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