i have a problem with my ex boyfriend.... when i was going out with him he hit me a few times.... twisted my arm and hurt my side and i have bruses from him.... but lately i have been with him more and more and then last nite he kissed me and he told me that he loved me still... i don't know what to do?
TO: my problem
if your ex boyfrend had been doing those things to you...then he reallie needs help!! i mean its not normal and you guys broke up over it im gessing and then he wants you back? that shouldnt be... its like what happens in this book by Sarah Dessen...i forgot the title just now buh uhhhh... the same thing happens basically and in the end he dragged her down along with him into like mental therapy and sessions and stuff like that... wat i think is that you should still be frends buh dont go out with him because yo dont noe where it will all lead you..ya noe?
(if that dint make any sense im sorry and just forget about it...hehe )
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okay sorry this is so long. Well this boy in my homeroom sits at my lunch table and he said i know 2 people who like you, i was like who? he was like well you know brent still likes you ( brents my ex ) and i was like yeah whos the other one? he was like i cant tell! i was like well tell me and ill tell you who likes you! he was like ok well brb! i was like okay. well he went in the lunch line and was talking to this boy Jose who is in my family and consumer sciences class and i knew he liked me. and shane came back and was like ok i cant tell. i was like i seen u talking to Jose and i know its him! he was like no! i was talking to the boy infront of him! i was like there wasnt a boy infront of Jose ! ( i dont knowif there was or not lol ) and he was like FINE! it is Jose! well that nite Shane and Jose ( shane is the one who told me Jose liked me) called me and Jose asked me to the dance coming up and i said yes, well then he was like will u go out w/ me? i was like yeah! (hehe) and then the next day in fam con sciences every1 was asking Jose " you like kasey? ( my names kasey) " and he was like NO SHES UGLY! well they were like but arent yall goin out? he was like NO! i like this girl Samantha in my music class. well he kept talking about he wanted to hook up with this girl samantha! so this boy brian asked me out during lunch and i had to say no bc i thought i was going out w/ Jose. well so i was like hey Ali! ( one of brians bestfriends ) whats brians #? bc ima call em and ask em out! and so i kept talking about brian while jose kept talking about this Samantha girl. well we were watien for the bell to ring and Jose was sitten down in his seat w/ his arms crossed and a mad/sad look on his face. well then that nite Shane called me and told me Jose was upset after school bc he wanted me back. then i had to go to the store and later that nite i was looking on my caller ID and seen that Jose called so i called him back and we really didnt say that much. then he was like hey i g2g call me tomorrow. i was like ill try. bye. - so if Jose askes me out *again* should i say no?
thnx! kLg*
ps. i rate 5s to ne one who answers!
TO: (anonymous)
well its Jose's own fault for not going out with you and talking about liking someone else insted of being proud of going out with you.... he doesn't deserve you expecially since he was likin someone else wen you two were supposedly "going out"...theres also the fact that Brian likes you and that he mite be a lot better for you than Jose..if Jose does re-"ask you out" then totallie say no and insted gib Brian the chance he deserves....ya noe?
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Ok, this weekend was the homecoming game & dance. A good guy friend of mine, let’s call him “Bob”, ok, now me and “Bob” have a history together, and recently, things have happened (mostly he stood me up for a dance) and I know that he is not that great of a person (he’s a stoner) and yet I still love him, but, he has messed up so many times in the past, but I know things will turn out ok, because we both really care about one another. And I know this for a fact, but his mom died about 3 yrs ago, and eh was really close to his mom, and her death made him hate relationships, and hate love. Is there anyway that I can convince him the\at not all relationships are bad and that love can be a great thing? And to let him know htat I am here for him always. I tell him that I am always here, and I tell him a lot, but I think he is afraid to lose me like he did his mom…what can I do to help him?
TO: (anonymous)
just let time heal his wounds... ya cant rush him into things and if his bond with his mom is as strong as you say then mehbe he just needs more time... he'll open his eyes soon enuff wen hes redy... just be there for him for now and make soore he's okie... support is the best medicine you can gib to another person especially wen they are in serious need for it...ya noe?
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is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?
TO: (anonymous)
you cant reallie stop yourself from fallin with older guys..it just...HAPPENS...unless that is you stay AWAY from them which is like... practically impossible since your in high school now rite? just dont do anything stoopid like some young teens do...besides that you should be good...ya noe?
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okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??
TO: love
you can nebe be tooo soore about love at like... especially two days in the game...insted wait it out and see how you two reallie are...if its like a set match..then say what you need to and see if he feels the same...buh seriously wait it out first...ya nebe noe wat surprises will come at you in the game of love..ya noe?
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I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?
TO: a crush
seriously go up to him and like...just like go for it...theres not much that itll hurt rite? you should jump for every opportunity you get coz life like...too short and if you dont open the door thats knocking...someone else will...ya noe?
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Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.
Before I left the game.. I asked him if he wanted to go to our school's homecoming dance with me. He said yes to me.
During the car ride home.. my friend told me I shouldnt go with him because he is white trash. She probably knows him better than I do.. but I really like him. Should I listen to her and tell him I dont want to go to the dance. or go with him and get to know him better?
TO: Homecoming Date
mehbe she thot you wouldnt reallie go for the guy and got upset/jealous wen she saw the two of you makin out and stuff...she could be hiding somethin or something like that...you should go talk to her and ask her...itll prolly help...ya noe?
PS...dont be judgemental on this guy...just coz yor frend says this and that about him dunt mean hes like that..ya noe?
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Well, last year I liked this guy alot alot alot . He became popular and he'd pay me less attention by the day but he'd stop paying attention when I stop paying him attention . Well now we only have two classes and that'll soon change because, we're coming to a new semester soon . At first in these classes I felt insecure around him . I used and still tell myself that," he isn't man enough to except me and to hell with him . If he can't be man enough to seek what his heart desire is, then he really isn't a man . Forget him " . And it's been working because, I've been interested in three other guys and two or three guys have asked me out but I rejected for some reasons - but not for him . My friend think I should continue this game but I'm tired of the game . Two years and he hasn't owned up to it becuase, two people told me he liked me and he blushed seriously . That was two years ago , but he continues looking at me as though he likes me and did I mention I'm getting tired of tis. What do you think ? I think I really should move on . Why do you think he's doing this . Am I right about him not being man enough . Should I stay or move on . If this helps he was a jock last year and is onw this year . Thanks and by.
TO: Yeah...Im having boy troule to.
just coz he pays less attention to you and stuff like that dosnt mean that hes not "man enuff" at all...i mean you should totallie go and talk to him first and see how he feels...and make soore you two talk ALONE...you mite feel stoopid doing it buh in the end it can all be worth it...you can nebe noe the whole story coz theres always gonna be one or two pieces missing buh its good to noe the most of it...gib him a chance to say wat he has to and make soore you do too... if you like him THAH much then totallie stick to him and find out more first...ya noe?
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?
TO: (unknown)
i think that you should wait a wile and see wat he does with his to-be-girlfriend...like try to noe more about him before totallie going strait and just telling him how you feel...its better to noe wats under the water before diving in insted of just going ahed and be shark meat...ya noe?
PS...still talk to him...dunt throw away a frendship just coz he dunt like you...ya can still be frends!! ^-^
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OK guys.. A really cute guy likes me and invited me to go to his football game tomorrow since he's one of the starting players. I know to cheer for the team and when he does good, etc.. But I dunno if I'd be able to see him after the game. I want to see him but I don't want to wait around for him if he only wanted me to be there for support. So should I wait for him or just leave after the game ?
TO: Football game
totallie wait for him..i mean wat can it hurt? and if he likes you and wants you to go to his game then why not just hang around after and see wats up...theres no problem with that...ya noe?
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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do?
TO: OmG!!
if you want you can talk to her about it and stuff...like tell her that you are soooo okay with her being a lesbo just so long as she dosnt start falling for YOU becoz thatll make you feel uncomfy or something... the onie other thing you can do is be there wen she needs you and keep supposrting her like you are now...wat more can a troo frend do...ya noe?
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so my best friend leah of 2 years met this guy jo and wanted to date him. she thought he was really hot and nice. but i felt the same way. my other guy friend hooked me up with jo and now me and jo are goin out. now leah wont talk to me and my other friends say leah is mad at me and she doesnt like jo becase..'hes not hot or nice he takes me away from my friends and ignors me ' according to her. shes trying to make all my other friends hate me and she says i shouldnt even b goin out with him cuz i havent known him for that long.. but she cant tell me wut to do becuz she just meets guys off the street for one night stands. wut should i do i dont wanna ruin our friendship but shes goin way over board and i really like jo.
TO: bf v. bff
if jo is reallie worth it and your best frend is reallie your best frend then she should be able to understand and be happie for you...theres nothing rong with you goin out with the guy you like rite and the whole jealousy stand or watebe shes going through shouldt blow over pretty soon... talk to your frends about it too... like your other frends..tell them your side and explain to them what you think and feel and such like that...most likely there will be at least one other person to agree with you...also talk to jo about it and whats going on and stuff like that..ya may nebe noe buh he could help somehow...ya noe?
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I have known this guy since 5th grade and i'm in 9th now. His name is Nick. In elementary we were practically enemies. We would fight all the time. Well at the time i was in love with his best friend Gabe. Well this past yr (in 8th grade, i had religion class with Nick and I thought that if i could maybe get closer to Nick that it would help me get close to Gabe like i wanted to. Instead of all that happening i just got closer to Nick and started to fall for him. Now i feel like he is the best person that i ever met because we connect in a way that i never have before. The thing is, he is going to a different school. I am going to one in Clearwater and he is going to one in Tarpon Springs. Now I feel like I am in misery because I didn't make a move and I don't know when I am ever going to see him again. And as many guys as I've met, none of them are as good as he was. I miss him so much. What do I do now?
TO: (unknown)
theres not much to say about that...you could always talk to him on the fone, send email, and like AIM or MSN...also its not like you guys are a gabazillion miles away... you can always set up a day to hang out with frends or go to the movies or something and then make the move on him then... he prolly likes you too onie you onno it is all...who noes rite?...just gib it a try...you guys can still see each other and stuff rite..and its the effort that counts in a relationship...ya noe?
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Well, ive been a cutter for about..1/2 a year now. And i cut on my wrist..(i was pissed) and i went out without my wrist band on, and i think my mom saw! what if she sends me away to a mental hospital!?
Please help!
|-.Lost Soul.-|
TO: |-.Lost Soul.-|
why do you cut yourself? you should reallie talk to someone about that...and about your mom...i doubt shell take you to a mental hospital buh im soore a LONG mother-daughter talk will be coming around the corner pretty soon....just tell your mom everything she needs to noe and how you feel and stuff like that...im soore shell be able to understand eben if itll take her a wile..also....try to cut down on the cutting... its not good to worry everyone so much with it and its not healthy either...ya noe?
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Whats that music on your page? It sounds a little familiar and its really good. Thanks!
TO: hey!
thanx...the moosic on my page is called One Year Six Months by Yellowcard...
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I'm really attracted to my friend. Hes 17 years old and is a total hottie. I really would love to spend the rest of my life with him. He gives me chills down my spine to see him happy and when hes sad it kills me ... literaly. The only thing is, that is stopping me from being with him, is my religion. In my religion it is against my code to have sex with another male. What do you think i should do? I really want to be with him and have sex with him but when i do i feel bad... help please. im an 18 year old male. Weve known each other for 5 years now. please help.
TO: My Best Friend
i cant reallie help you much there coz ive nebe reallie had experience with uhhh...people like you...buh i gess the most you can do is watch from a distance or tell him...altho thah second one mite totallie scare him off...buh if thahs how ya feel and like ya well ya cant change thah rite? soooooo do wat ya wanna er think is best...ya noe?
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Ook lately my friends havent asked to do like anything with me. They barely do. And i know theyre all good people and they dont particularly not like me but i invite people placez plenty of times and the invites i get back? Slim and few. Plus my best friends being.. well obviously not herself. My schools too small and I wouldnt leave them anyway... talking to them has proved impossible. so wat do i do.
TO: bf
keep tryin to hang with them...and if they dunt wanna they just givem space and wait till they invite you er sumthin...ya noe?
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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..
HELP ME PLEASE!
*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*
TO: Help!
its not something i can reallie decide buh something you hab to do on your own...i CAN tell you this much tho...everyone deserves a second chance and if its someone you totallie cant live without..well they get an extra life...ya noe wat i mean?
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ok ill be 15 in like dayz.. an i swtiched skoolz this las past year (in a middle of 8th grade) an when i switched skools.. all these girlz like started hated on me 4 no reason.. an they all wanna like beat me up an jump me.. still an its a new year comin up. I dunno what ta do because they wont leave me alone.. help please?
lost an confused
TO: wow-- a lotta lotta stuff
all i can stay if just stick with your frends... traveling in numbers is better than being alone rite? theyll get it over soon enuff...ya noe?
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I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times?
TO: best friends and relationships
you and your boyfrend should try and convince your best frend and his best frend to at least be frends...i mean like leave em a lil time to be seeperate buh then like tell them its for the sake of you guys's relationship er something..i mean after a wile the two of them will prolly be frends agin and who noes...mehbe they mite get back together agin...ya noe? fer now just lay it low and dont force em together too much if ya can help it
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