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Ok, this weekend was the homecoming game & dance. A good guy friend of mine, let’s call him “Bob”, ok, now me and “Bob” have a history together, and recently, things have happened (mostly he stood me up for a dance) and I know that he is not that great of a person (he’s a stoner) and yet I still love him, but, he has messed up so many times in the past, but I know things will turn out ok, because we both really care about one another. And I know this for a fact, but his mom died about 3 yrs ago, and eh was really close to his mom, and her death made him hate relationships, and hate love. Is there anyway that I can convince him the\at not all relationships are bad and that love can be a great thing? And to let him know htat I am here for him always. I tell him that I am always here, and I tell him a lot, but I think he is afraid to lose me like he did his mom…what can I do to help him?
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Well "Bob" has been through alot, And i think its his time to get into a serious relationship... If you like him.. like that then i think you should totally open up to him and prove to him that its okay to be afraid but.. if you only wanna be good friends..then talk to him as a friend and explain to him that you know how he feels and u think he should give it a try
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You just have to be there for him, when hes being sad like just keep telling him that you'll be there for him and that things will start looking up for him and that everything will work out in the end, and that you will always be someone that he can count on for support
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TO: (anonymous)
just let time heal his wounds... ya cant rush him into things and if his bond with his mom is as strong as you say then mehbe he just needs more time... he'll open his eyes soon enuff wen hes redy... just be there for him for now and make soore he's okie... support is the best medicine you can gib to another person especially wen they are in serious need for it...ya noe?
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