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Q: do you have any tips for a newbie on giving blow jobs? answers from both guys and girls are appreciated! age 15 gender female.
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You shouldn't even be asking this question.
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Q: Hey everyone! How do you make an upside down question mark? Like this one
http://media.photobucket.com/image/upside%20down/PepperCat564/upsidedownquestionmark.png?o=8&sortby=sevendaysview
but in just regular text on the computer if you know what I mean? Also can you tell me what does an upsidedown question mark mean?
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Well it's just a question mark and it does not mean anything more than a symbol that indicates that a sentence is actually an interrogative one, and it is placed initially,the thing is that in English it doesn't exist,I don't know why.It's chiefly used in Spanish,hope it helps,as for how to make one,if your keyboard does not have it,then you should get an spanish language one.
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Q: Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 mo., we kiss a lot, making out etc. He asked about sex, I told him I was waiting till 18, and he was very respectful. We have a really great relationship, but I would like to go further, not sex but more than kissing. He's coming over today so please respond ASAP, how do I let him know w/o being awkward that I want to go a little further? Any signals, ect..? Thanks.
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My dear,the thing is that for a guy to go a bit further means sex,bc they're more sexual than women,even if you just kiss them,they may get an erection right away,so think about it,what's the big difference between having sex now and do it when you're 18?I don't know how old you are,though,but anyway,I bet you are over 16,so you must be ready,have him to wear a condon and have sex with passion and respect for each other,you won't regret it;) best of luck!
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Q: 19F
Boyfriend 20M
To start off I have been sexual active for about 4 years now, I have never had too many problems until I started dating my boyfriend I am with as of now, Most the time sex is fine and great, however some of our favorite positions can't be done, when we do doggy style or I put my legs a certain way he goes to deep or it just hurts too much and we'll have to stop, he's not very big, about 6 inches, I don't know what the problem could be, because I've been with bigger guys and it never hurt, could there be a reason why? It feels like he's going too deep and it hurts a lot, Is there some kind of exercise or something I could do to stop this from happening??
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A Dr immediately!!!!My boyfriend has a large penis and it has never hurt me when inside,so you ought to go to your gynecologist to see what's going on,try not to have sex again till you're sure that everything's alright.
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Q:
What does it mean when a guy asks you " What are you up to tonight"? OR " What are you doing tonight"? When he has seen you with friends and then he replies back saying " oh okay cool". End of conversation. This can not be a conversation starter because it ended it... :0 I mean why can't they just ask you to do something if they really want. What is up with this?
I mean why do guys ask this question and It can not be a conversation starter because this ended the conversation overall :0
And he is 24 and I am 24 years old as well....so we are not like in our early teens or kids.
He asked me this while he was working after we had talked a bit.
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Guys are like that,I strongly recommend that you talk to him,don't expect anymore from him bc you'll always end up disappointed,so if you're interested in him,wich I don't know for you haven't said anything about you having a crush or somehing on him,ask him what does he want and what does he mean with that question,my boyfriend never told me he loved me till I started to say it so to him,and he told me he loved me too but he was just expecting me to figure it out:/ So talk to him,tell him I'm not 15 anymore so go straight to the point,hope it helps
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Q: So I had this dream last night.Here's the dream in details:I was at my grandma's house,and Liam Hemsworth was there,with some 8 or 9 year old chinese boy.My grandma hurt her hip,so she asked us to help her sit down.So I grabbed one side of her arm,and he grabbed the other.Once we finally helped her into the chair,she asked him to get a book for her off her bookshelf.
He said ok,and went to get it.
But for some reason,he had took his shirt off.
Once he brought the book back,she handed me her glasses,and told me to put the glasses on him.
So I took the glasses,and reached to put them on him,but he was wayyyy to tall for me to reach him.
He smiled at me,and I smiled back.
Then I woke up.*End of dream*
But the wierd thing about this dream,is I only recently found out who he was,when I saw the Hunger Games movie.And,I don't think he's cute,I just like his accent.
What does it mean,if it means anything,and is it wierd?
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I believe that the most important thing here is the fact of having dreamt with glasses,I have heard that it may indicate that novelty and thinking about something are important factors regarding the continuity between waking and dreaming,as for the guy who becomes taller,it could mean that you want someone to look up to,or for someone to protect you.Or it could mean that you recently lost someone who was your role model,may be your grandma was or IS your role model(don't get me wrong),as for the actor,maybe you just saw this movie quite recently and his face was just showcased by your subconscious during the dream,hope it helps.
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Q: Ever since I started being abused I started chasing after guys and stuff and I don't know why I keep doing this.I feel like I can't live without a boyfriend! Even if I don't like someone I'll date them! I don't know why but I just love the attention you know? I used to do anything a guy asked me to but now a guy asked to have s*x with me!I'm 12 by the way !
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Having been abused is no excuse to become a slut,you do it just because you want to,not because of some traumatic experience which should actually make you feel afraid of men,not attracted to them,you ought to look for some professional help and stop doimg this.
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Q: God? Family? Friends? BF/GF?
Hahaha...
I can't trust anyone...
and i'm just so plain old alone.
So trapped here.
Nobody even knows the real me.
I DON'T EVEN know who i am anymore.
And i would end my life... except i fear death...
Ironic, huh?
So i'm stuck here.
And my only question is...
not what can i do to feel better
or can someone help me...
but...
my question is
simply
has anybody else felt like this?
This lost? this broken? this empty? this alone?
Well, have you?
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Yes,I have...tons of times,I still continue to be really introverted and shy though, but I'm just pleased to know who I really am ,I don't actually care much about the others because it's them who have to accept me and be around me if they like to.What's actually more important,is to get to know yourself and care about yourself,fall in love and trust yourself,by doing this,you'll start building confidence and a high self-esteem,like Ru Paul says,'if you can't love yourself,how the hell are you gonna love somebody else?
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Q: 23/f
ok i have been dating this man for the past 7 months and i took him to meet my father and he reconized him as his son!
i took him to meet my mom and she didnt reconize at all,but did say he looked alittle like my father.
im not sure i should date him.
any advise would be very thankful!!!
by the way he did not know this.
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Oh my GOOOD!!!!well honey,I don't think you two should be together for awhile until you are really sure whether he is actually your brother or not,if he was your half-bro,then your relationship would be incest,he'd share the same blood of yours,so get your dad and him to have a blood test so as to confirm the bottom of the truth,good luck and be strong!!
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Q: For a while I was talking to one good friend every day. About 3 days ago we stopped talking and I don't feel right not talking to him. I talk to my girlfriends still, but we don't talk long. I would like to meet new friends but summer just started and I don't know what to do when I feel out of place except watch television and eat.
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Well it's really up to you hon,start meeting new people,take up new activities that get you to meet new people,if you just sit alone at home watching television expecting others to come to you,then it will be really difficult for you to make friends,friends need to be in a way gained,you have to gain their respect so they respect you as well and so they look for you,hope it helps:)
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Q: Okay, well I had a thing for school that is a Music Festival. Well, there is this guy I know and he is three years older than me. I had a boyfriend at this time and this guy wasn't him. Well, I was around this guy all day I would hold his hand. At one point me and him went into the choir room and there wasn't anyone else in there. So, he fingered me and I gave him a hand job. He kept trying to get me to make out with him. And, we laid on a couch cuddling together. Well, then at the end of the day we ended up making out for at least five minuets and then he tried to have sex with me. Now remember, I had a boyfriend. Well, a couple days later we had sex and I felt so bad so I broke up with my boyfriend instead of telling him the truth. I now have a totally different boyfriend but I still feel guilty and I love the other guy not my ex. But, I love my boyfriend now just not as much.!
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Mmmm...You're neither a slut nor a whore,stop troubleling your head with this,the thing is that if you do know that what you're doing in not correct,then that makes you a cheater.In my humblest opinion, what you really really ought to do is to be alone for awhile,sleep on it,think about what you actually want to do,who you actually want or need to be with.You see?Now you are not sure who you love more,that's not right and you know it,so start working honey,grow up and stop thinking you're a whore bc you're not:)(this is just a learning process)
ps(no one will prevent you from being whatever you wanna be in life,but whatever path you decide to follow,try not to hurt anybody)
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Q: I am very sure my dad is cheating/ being unfaithful to my mom.....AGAIN! from what I know this would be at least the 4th time. My mom and I went to go pick up my father from work yesterday. He asked me to come inside his job to help him carry a few things out, so I did. I was introduced to his boss, he seemed very friendly and comfortable with this man like they are friends. I then started walking ahead of them and I heard them laughing his boss said "please introduce me to your wife, so I can tell her all ur antics and the things you do around here!" My dads whole mood changed after he said that, he became nervous and uncomfortable and said" you dont need to go there, no you do not need to go there." I could tell he knew I heard what his boss said. I tried to act like I didn't hear it..it bothered me a lot. The way his boss said it made me think he is messing around with the females at his job. Considering my fathers past. He has cheated on my mom before. My mom was devastated by it, but yet she still stands by him and is still in a relationship with him. Should I tell her what he said? would it even make a difference..
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Think about the consecuences first honey,I'm with you though,tell your mum,but be ready for what can happen next,good luck! I admire you,you cannot let your dad get away with it once again.
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Q: i am from india
My life is hell now...i m failed in class 11th
Everyone thinks i am a player bt i dint even want someone to be in a bad situation....my friends hate me now...,my parents are always shouting on me, my boyfriend always talk very rudely...everyone think i m selfish, i m mean..n no one love me thats why i dont want to live.
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This does not have to be a reason for you to put an end to your life,if you feel like no one loves you or even appreciates you,then maybe this is the right time for you to make a change in your life. Start meeting other people,as for the ones who are actually your 'friends',you ought to talk things over with them,tell them how you're feeling,that you need help,and to be supported and understood,not criticized. If your bf is being rude,something must not be working in your relationship,perhaps you're both mistaken,or maybe there's something in your attitude that you may need to change.But face up life with its problems,don't give up:)
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Q: Welll, Im Friends with this guy and i been talking on the phone with em for couple Days we dont sleep at alljust to stay on the phone and uhh we be talking dirty like him getting boners and im telling em im bi and stuff like that but i dont know if he likes me . he told me that my voice is sexy im like ahh weird
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First of all,I can bearly understand what is written down here,and I don't think this guy likes you at all,it's just nonesense what you guys have been talking about on the phone,so this does not mean,to any extent,anything serious:(
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Q: I'm 13 and I loove Emo style or their music(BVB)
1st question is...I don't cut myself. Do I have to do it if I wanna be a real emo? And also I'm a cheerful person so, am I not Emo for that? I have nothing to be sad about in my life.
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That's just a trend,you don't have to do such a thing for you are a child,and as you mentioned,you don't have anything sad in your life,so wear that make up,wear those strange clothes,be happy with your style,but don't harm yourself because of a 'fashion trend':)
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Q: See, all the girls at my school -from what I can see- have pretty large busts. All my friends do. Except for me. Even my little sister is is reaching B cup, if she isn't already -she's 11- I'm 16 and just recently my mom bought me a B cup bra. At first I didn't even notice until we went to a pool... Shoot I felt like just putting on a shirt. My bikinis always have filling so that is doesn't show my breast's actual form -which kind of like a cone really. The nipple and aureola are bigger than the rest except when I'm cold.
Anyhow, ever since then I've felt uncomfortable wearing little clothing. I started to feel a bit better when I realized there was a lot of trouble I was saving myself but.. I have this friend of mine Danielle. We always get into silly little fights and throw remarks at each other but I never take anything personal. Except this one time when he called me a washboard. :( I didn't show it then very much but it hurt. Especially when it comes from a boy. Afterwards Alejandro asked me why I got mad at him. Turns out I'm always cheerful but without noticing I got gloomy.
Ever since I always compare myself to other girls, not just in school but also on TV and anime -where everysingle girl has C or highr cup. I don't want to feel bad about myself, it's almost like it's a reflex now :( what can I do to make myself feel better?
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Frankly speaking,I didn't take the time to read the whole passage,because once I read your question I immediately knew what to answer,WHO cares what the size of your breasts are?Don't be sad because of that,you're beautiful the way you are(inside and outside)I bet you must have other beautiful features and qualities,you'll soon discover that what actually matters is not the way you look,but the way you are,that's the place where true beauty comes from,don't be silly,breasts stop being attractive soon,but personality shines and glitters for ever.I stand by beauty that comes from within our hearts and pesonality sooner than physical beauty.Really hope it helps:)
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Q: why do people like anal, i get they like what they like. but wouldnt it hurt and people say they like it more then vaiganal sex. why is that?
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Because of the 'sphincter musles',full of nerve endings which give a painful sensation when something is pressing them,and which can be quite dangerous at the same time if you injure them,the thing is that some people like that sensation because once the anus is dilated,it starts to feel pleasant.So enjoy if people ask you that,all the same,taking into account what I have just told you would be sensible,since some people have died having anal without having paid attention to the precautions I mentioned.Hope it helps:)
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Q: Ok so I've decided that me an my bf are going to have sex. And I'm unsure of how guys like it "downstairs".? Do they like it bare, trimmed, or hairy.? I wanna be confident and I'm not very. Because I have large labia minora also. I hate it because it just looks funny and I feel like he'll think different of me.? But are there certain designs for shaving.? Or how do I shave.? How far back do I go also.?
I looked up some designs, and I kinda liked 2, the heart shape and the initials... I might surprise him with the initials, but idk if he wants it hairy, or bare.?!
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Totally agree with ninjaneer's,you could ask him what his preferences are,but in the end,it'll be up to you,I have it bare down there bc not only is what my boy prefers,but what I also like.The thing is that a rash may appear after shaving that zone,on the plus side,though,it's cleaner,healthier and it looks classy as well LOL,hope it helps;)
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Q: can i have pregnant if my boy puts his cum on my anus?
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Of course not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Where did you hear such a thing??
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Q: we have become close friends and even few times came very close to kissing, but nothing ever happened.
what am i to do?
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And why wouldn't it be?It is perfectly normal,some people can be quite mature at a very early age,like a fifteen-year-old boy,for instance.So if you have fallen for this guy,then go for it!
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Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise...Take it easy...but take it!! My aim here is to give good advice,not gentle words,but what I think is best for you to do;)
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Occupation: student Age: 27 Member Since: March 20, 2012 Answers: 166 Last Update: June 21, 2015 Visitors: 12719
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