How can I make myself feel better about having little breasts?
Question Posted Friday June 8 2012, 4:23 pm
See, all the girls at my school -from what I can see- have pretty large busts. All my friends do. Except for me. Even my little sister is is reaching B cup, if she isn't already -she's 11- I'm 16 and just recently my mom bought me a B cup bra. At first I didn't even notice until we went to a pool... Shoot I felt like just putting on a shirt. My bikinis always have filling so that is doesn't show my breast's actual form -which kind of like a cone really. The nipple and aureola are bigger than the rest except when I'm cold.
Anyhow, ever since then I've felt uncomfortable wearing little clothing. I started to feel a bit better when I realized there was a lot of trouble I was saving myself but.. I have this friend of mine Danielle. We always get into silly little fights and throw remarks at each other but I never take anything personal. Except this one time when he called me a washboard. :( I didn't show it then very much but it hurt. Especially when it comes from a boy. Afterwards Alejandro asked me why I got mad at him. Turns out I'm always cheerful but without noticing I got gloomy.
Ever since I always compare myself to other girls, not just in school but also on TV and anime -where everysingle girl has C or highr cup. I don't want to feel bad about myself, it's almost like it's a reflex now :( what can I do to make myself feel better?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Fitness? mercury answered Saturday June 9 2012, 3:27 pm: Frankly speaking,I didn't take the time to read the whole passage,because once I read your question I immediately knew what to answer,WHO cares what the size of your breasts are?Don't be sad because of that,you're beautiful the way you are(inside and outside)I bet you must have other beautiful features and qualities,you'll soon discover that what actually matters is not the way you look,but the way you are,that's the place where true beauty comes from,don't be silly,breasts stop being attractive soon,but personality shines and glitters for ever.I stand by beauty that comes from within our hearts and pesonality sooner than physical beauty.Really hope it helps:) [ mercury's advice column | Ask mercury A Question ]
theadvicegal answered Saturday June 9 2012, 10:44 am: I just answered this question. You're the same person right? Take my advice from my other reply.
Ignore it, and they'll stop. Who cares? You'll have your time when your boobs will grow, but for now, learn to deal with it.
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