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What to do about having smaller breasts than all my friends?


Question Posted Friday June 8 2012, 4:46 pm

I have cone-like breast that are no more than a B cup. Every other girl -younger than me even- have a larger bust than me. At first I just told myself that I had less problems than other girls but then this friend of mine called me a washboard.. We always have little, silly fights but that was the one and only time it has ever hurt me. I feel uncomfortable wearing little clothing in fear of being ridiculed. Like my bra falling of or something. -Also I can't swim so I always take that as an excuse for not going to pool parties.

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chris12677 answered Sunday June 10 2012, 2:57 pm:
Most guys that I know don't care about boobs as much a they do about the rear end. You have nothing to worry about :). Having a b size cup is totally fine. Girls can be annoying when they try to knit pick on you. They can say things just to make you feel inferior because they are jealous of something else. That was just unnecessary for her to say that to you. And if it bothers you wayyyyyy too much. You can go to any store and buy a padded or push up bra. Victoria's secret ones ate amazing even though they are a bit pricy. And they also carry swim suits that are push up too ;).

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AskSinz answered Saturday June 9 2012, 4:40 pm:
There is nothing wrong with being a B cup. Don't let your friends get you down. If it really is beginning to get to you and make you feel insecure then go to your friends and tell them to stop saying things like that because it makes you feel insecure. I'm a girl with big breasts but to tell you the truth I wish I was smaller! They're such a hassle! My girlfriend has B cup breasts and I love them! I'm a lover of smaller breasts and not afraid to admit it! Just like the others who have answered this question have said, yes it would be nice to know your age in order to figure out whether your starting puberty, going through it or have finished that stage of your life. I was extremely flat chested in the beginning of secondary school, a B cup just like you (those were the days!) But when I reached 16/17 they just started to grow and now I'm an E cup! There's nothing you can do other than accept that your boobs are smaller than your friends and hey if they really get on your nerves with their comments just say, "At least mine won't sag as much" :). Hope you feel better about having smaller breasts because I myself would love to be your size.

Here if you need anything,

AskSinz.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday June 9 2012, 11:16 am:
It would have been nice to know your age. I'm going to guess that you are somewhere between 12 and 14 years of age.

The nice thing about the human race is that we are all different. Being different means we grow and mature at different rates. Puberty is what causes the changes in your body to go from child to young women. This processs can last into your early 20's. At your present age your physical shape is not the shape you will have in 2, 4 or 6 years. Your breast will most likely fill out to complete your physical shape.


Now their are some things that will stunt or slow a girls development such as athletics. I can't tell you why but I can give you examples. Girls who are heavily into athletics seem to stunt puberty. Their periods stop or do not materialize and their breast are generaly small until they stop training. This can be seen in females on the Olympic teams.


So if you are in to athletics don't let this stop you from enjoying your sports. You will fill out when you stop training.


Otherwise relax and let your body mature at the rate it is destined too.

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theadvicegal answered Saturday June 9 2012, 10:41 am:
Oh, tha brest size problem. It would have been helpful to know your age. I am 15 and my size is 34 B. Not totally small, but. Not that big either. And trust me, it took long to get to this size. I used to be so flat chested in elementary school. Sure people would make fun, but I learned to ignore it. One of my friend's is 16 with an A cup, and she accepts it.

Girls with bigger boobs actually don't like it. Some of my friends have big boobs and say it's uncomfortable or even have to wear a bra and a sport bra to keep it all in. They hurt when your running during sports, and hurts your back, so small boobs do have advantages.

Just learn to ignore it. Who cares what size your boobs are? Wear the clothes you want to, and don't mind what anyone has to say. If they say "your boobs are so small!" Sya, "yeah, I know" and laugh it off. People will say stuff knowing it hurts or annoys you, but if you show them you don't care, they's stop too.

So all in all, there is nothing you can do about it unless you buy a push up bra for an extra boost. Small boobs are great. Embrace them, love em. ;P

Hope I could help and good luck :) x

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