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whats up with myspace lately, is there really another power outage today?

Tom is probably doing something AMAZING! well he better, because i am acutally getting quite im-patient. lo It should be back by tomorrow sometime though. :]

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So I have a best friend,
but she really is getting on my nerves.

Everytime I make plans with someone,
she either invites herself, or says that the friend I had plans with invited her, OR talks to the friend I had plans with and talks her into inviting her.

I'm getting so sick of it,
now she acts like its okay,
and tells me if I dont want her to come
then I can tell her. But Everytime I tell her,
she gets all upset and gets mad at me.

But I mean come on, what can I do?
I'm so sick of her doing this!


Thanks!!!

Well, maybe your friend is just afraid of losing you to other friends. I know that is how I used to be. But someone jsut told me that i would always be their friend, but They can have other friends too. you should tell your friend this and if she still gets mad then she obviously isnt a good friend to start with. Hope i have helped :]

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ok so i really like this girl. but there is a problem, she is my friends ex. everytime im with her it feels right. we kiss and hold hands. but somedays she acts all weird, like we dont have a "thing". does it sound like she is using me to you?

ok, girls are very hard to understand. Trust me, I am one! haha. But anyways, it looks to me like she likes you, but is un-sure about you all being together some days. I cant say that in stone or anything, but that may or maynot be the case. Just see what she does, see if she still flirts with your friend, if so then she is probably using you. If not then i would say it is just a little akward for her. Hope I have helped :]

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I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way

Just try seducing him in your room somewhere. like, invite him over to your house, pop in a movie and in the middle of it, sorta go from a kiss, to a make-out, to maybe getting on top of him and making out. This would give him ideas about sex. And if you dont want to do this, there is nothing wrong with talking to him about it. Hope I have helped :]

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Since summer started, ive been at my dads a lot and stopped communicating with a lot of other people. I feel like everyone else is making connections with others and i only hang out with people that don't go to my school because therye not away or "busy" i don;t understand i feel so uneeded like in the way, am i really annoying? or are people just plain busy?

Its ok to spend time with your dad. You sound just like one of my best friends, Kelsey. she is always at her step-dad's house and she hasnt been spending much time with us. we havent invited her to stuff much, because she is always up there. its not because we dont like her, its just that we know that she is always up there. [well most the time] So dont think your friends dont like you, they probably just know that you are up there having a good time. Hope I have helped :]

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whats the worst thing that could come out of..me getting fingered? like what are all the risks.

thank you

Pretty much just getting your cherry popped. That is about it. And some people think it hurt, but that is all that you would have to worrie about. Hope I have helped. :]

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Okay well about a week or so ago I had sex. well the guy didnt use a condom which I know is bad but he did pull it out before spermen. n when he did that some had got on the inner lining of my underwear by my croch area. I manage to whip alot of it off but am I still at risk.

yes, even if you had a condom on the whole time, you are still at risk. No matter when you do it, or where you do it you are always at risk.

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a friend of mine was recently telling me that 'im his bffff

What I would do is tell him a little secret. Make him feel like its reeeally secret, but something you dont mind the whole world knowing. If he keeps this then you could see if he is trustworthy. Do this a few times and if you dont hear about it, then your good to go. Hope I have helped :]

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Me and my b/f have been together for 3 weeks. out of those 3 weeks we have only spoken and seen eachother for 1 week. no were not avoiding eachother. before we got together he signed up to do this lincoln challenge thing. so he will be gone for 6 months.I have liked him since I was in 8th grade which was like 2 yrs ago and he has liked me for 3 yrs. He will be home on labor day for a break. should I break up with him when he gets back?

Although I have never had a longdistance relationship that actually worked, If you like this guy, go for it. It is usually harder for couples to stay together in the summer, so dont worrie. Just wait until your school starts back and if things are still going down hill then i would say do what your heart tells you. But dont break up with him just because you all are both busy. Ok? Hope I have helped :]

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Where can you buy skinny jeans?

Well, I am not very skinny. But you can buy them at any Jc pennys, Goodys, Peebles, Maurices, and such. Walmart and Magic mart dont have very good jeans in my opinion. Just look around for the small sizes and you should find what you are looking for. Hope I have helped :]

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Okay, so my period is suppose to come a day before this really big concert I'm going to. I don't know what the hell to do because I won't be able to change my tampon/pad from 12pm to 11pm! I''ll be stuck in a mosh pit and wont wanna lose my spot in the general admission and there are no bathrooms!
HELP!

(pills are not an option)

I know it will be verry uncomforatble, but Just wear a pad. You dont HAVE to change those and you dont have to risk your health wearing them. Hope I have helped you :]

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i invited my friend to come down to the beach with me. everytime i invite her down, she always asks if this other girl is going to. why would she ask that if i never mentioned that other girl gong? that makes me think that she doesn't want to go down with just ME, and sometimes i can't invite 2 people. anyone know why she might be saying this?

Dont jump to conclusions. She might not like the other person. Maybe they dont get along or something. The best thing to do is just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and things will fall into place. Hope I have helped :]

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Where would yu buy a hooter's girl shirt?

You would have to go to a Hooter's resturant. :) I know that was short, but hope I have helped :]

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Ok so I've been dating this guy, we'll call him "J", for 2 months now... and I love him a lot. When ever I see him or talk to him on the phone I get alittle happier. And when hes around I get butterflies in my stomache. But he's never calls me and he didn't even remember our 2 month anniversary. I go to a summer day camp monday thur thursday. At camp theres this guy, we'll call him "G", who likes me a lot and I mean a lot. He flirts with me a lot we are really close friends but I think I might like him as more then just a best friend. Every time I think of him I smile. And I see him way more then I do "J".

I need Help

13/f

Well, if you like "G" more than you do "J" then tell both of them. But I wouldnt break up with "J" just because he didnt call or forgot your 2 month ann. I went out with a guy that didnt like to talk on the phone and he actually forgot our 6 month ann. [We dated for 8 months.] And we were madly in love. But if you like "G" more than "J" then tell them and I hope things work out with you and "G" Hope I helped. :]

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Hey i wanted to know how you got that backround on advicenators? All the ones they let you choose from i dont like. Any sites?

Yes. I see what you are saying. I didnt like the ones they had either. I go to photobucket.com and search for backgrounds. They have all sorts of them. If you have anymore questions just come back to my inbox. Hope I have helped :]

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okay well my friend is going through a rough time right now. her boyfriend just told her that he is gonna kill himself cause he wants to but he wont tell her why. he was starting to but then he just stoped typing ( it was on AIM ) the ages are 12. do you think he seriously could of meant it. cause he said he really wanted to cut himself also. & she is so worried about him because she loves him so much and she doenst want to loose him. any advice that i could tell her to do. that would be helpful thankks

I have a friend that does this all the time. He comes from a bad home, so it is usual for him. I personally dont think he will do it. He is probably just looking for attention. If he wont tell why, its probably because he dosent have a reason. Dont tell him that you think he is lieing, try to comfort him. This will make him feel better. Hope I have helped :]

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Is it possible to get a blister or like a blood blister from shaving close to your vagina, if not what else could shaving cause?

Im not sure about the blisters, but other things you can get are,

1. Swolen lymph nodes [Not common]
2. Rasor burn
3. Yeast infection
4. Abnormal discharge

Hope I have helped. :]

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ok.I have a nice funny bofriend.We have been dating 4 about 5 months and we just started staying away from each other more and more.That has been going on 4 a couple of months.(MEANWHILE)A boy we r going 2 call jacob started flirting with me and i flirt back.I have heard tons of people say he likes me and that we look cute together.My boyfriend gets mad if jacob hits me or something like that.The reason im scared 2 break up with my b-friend is all the drama it will bring.all his friends will be mad at me and they r kinda my friends 2.his mom will be mad at me and so will he and i would like 2 stay friends even if i do break up wit him.I just need some opinions and will love anyones help!!!

If you dont like this guy, then you shouldnt date him. If anyone else says something to you, just say that you dont like him and you dont have to go out with him. No offense but your boyfriend has reason to be mad if you are flirting with other guys. I mean, what would you do if he started flirting with one of your friends? When/if you break up with him, tell him that you want to be friends. If he gets mad, then just give him time to cool off, then ask him again if he wants to be friends. If not, then there is nothing you can do. Just live life and be happy with 'Jacob.' Hope I have helped :]

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I have VERY curly hair and its in short layers and im not too sure what I can do with it. I try to do a different style every few days but I'm running out of ideas! Can anyone relate or have ideas? Thanks!

I am the same way. I have very very curly hair. I just straighten mine. Although It dosent work with my friend's iron because theirs isnt good enough. You usually have to get one of the more expencive ones. [30.00 tops] Or you could just try scrunching it. I think curly hair can be BEAUTIFUL if treated correctly. Hope I have helped :]

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how do you delete a ? you don't want or need answered any more???

Ok. Look under Welcome "whatever your useer name is" There will be things to click on saying, Inbox, Favorite categories, Your advice column, Your Questions, Your feed back, Favorite columnists, /edut abswers, Profile settings, Colunm settings, and logout. Click on Your question. The questions that you have asked will pop up, and look like a little chart. There will be little boxes you can click on and it will put a check in the box. Click on the questions that you want deleted then go down a little ways and there will be something at the bottom that says delete selected or delete checked. [one of those] Then your questions will be deleted! :]

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