So I have a best friend,
but she really is getting on my nerves.
Everytime I make plans with someone,
she either invites herself, or says that the friend I had plans with invited her, OR talks to the friend I had plans with and talks her into inviting her.
I'm getting so sick of it,
now she acts like its okay,
and tells me if I dont want her to come
then I can tell her. But Everytime I tell her,
she gets all upset and gets mad at me.
But I mean come on, what can I do?
I'm so sick of her doing this!
Additional info, added Sunday July 23 2006, 10:23 pm:
Okay -- another thing.
Yes she is my best friend,
and I'm not, not making time for her,
I give her the time of day,
and I hang out with her a lot,
but I want to hang out with other people,
I mean I'm allowed to have OTHER friends, other than just her.
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Also, guys I have talked to her about it,
and she acts like she understands but then secretly is mad at me and I dont find out until the next time I try to talk to her.<br>
Oh and then she starts balling and throwing a sob story about how it hurts her feelings that I didnt invite her.
Hello guys, can anyone agree with me, that just because shes my best friend DOESNT mean I have to do EVERYTHING WITH HER. and invite her EVERYWHERE WITH ME?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? lookitslorin answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:01 am: Well, maybe your friend is just afraid of losing you to other friends. I know that is how I used to be. But someone jsut told me that i would always be their friend, but They can have other friends too. you should tell your friend this and if she still gets mad then she obviously isnt a good friend to start with. Hope i have helped :] [ lookitslorin's advice column | Ask lookitslorin A Question ]
ilovehimxox answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:15 pm: i think you should talk to her. tell her that shes getting mad for no reason. she cant just invite herself into the plans that you had with a friend. tell her your getting annoyed if you guys are bestfriends that she should believe & understand you. & if not then maybe you should just stop talking to her for a while.. [ ilovehimxox's advice column | Ask ilovehimxox A Question ]
ESMEDINzBABE answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:06 pm: ok well just tell her you want to hang out with other people and maybe shell understand but if shes your best friend you should make time to be with her with out her talking to the rest of your friends becuase i kno how it feels when you have a friend whos annoying!! [ ESMEDINzBABE's advice column | Ask ESMEDINzBABE A Question ]
amour_davrilx3 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:00 pm: i once had a best friend like this. She would get really mad whenever i hung out with any other friend besides her. she wouldnt really invite herself. she would just make me feel guilty untill i did invite her. i just told her that im allowed to have other friends besides her and shes allowed to have other friends too. so i think you just need to tell her that. and make it clear to her that you need to make time for your other friends. [ amour_davrilx3's advice column | Ask amour_davrilx3 A Question ]
StoughtonKidd55447 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 9:49 pm: First, try talking to her about this problem then if it doesnt work talk to your other friends what this girl REALLY says to them
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