heyhey im a 14 year old very very bored person lol um i thought i wud rather waste my time giving advice to ppl but dont get me wrong if u mess with me in anyway tht will tick me of piss me off i will serious make your life miserable...ahh i hate ppl who are useless seriously all they have to talk bout or complain about is how thei cell phone color doesnt match their outfits...now questions like those i will give adive to but it wont be a very happy comment...ok now im goin
peace~
oh and yes tht is my pic...my friend made it black and white for me
Website: *sumsum*
Gender: Female
Location: america
Occupation: blah
Age: 14
AIM: dreamsdoncomtrue@aol.com
Yahoo: hartof_dreams486@yahoo.com
MSN: moonlight_shadow2000@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 9, 2006
Answers: 141
Last Update: May 26, 2007
Visitors: 7690
|
| |
|
ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
| |
wow you thought about everyone execpt yourself...i think you should tell the gy that you currently like at the moment that you broke up with him because your first ex was being harsh and you were afriad he wouldnt be his friend anymore...and if he asks you out go out with him i mean you old ex isnt going to hold a grudge against you everytime you go out with someone you like and tell him to back off his he bothers you or tell the guy you like that he bothers you and im sure he will talk to him
|
|
my boyfriend told me hes in love with me. he looked into my eyes and said it and i think im in love with him too.his friends always tell me that im all he talks about and when im with him he kisses my hand and does the sweetest things and he always says never to let go of him.also he invites me to all his lacrosse games and he ditches his friends just to see me even if its only for 30 minutes...thats a pretty big deal right?when guys are the first ones to say it..they mean it right? or could he have said that because hes afaid of losing me?? (link)
| |
it sounds alot like he loves you i mean he is soo sweet and you think he is faking that is a little sad if a guy leaves his friends for his girl than he is serious he sounds soo sweet hold on to him
|
|
i need to lose weight but i dont want to invole any one and i would like to keep it fairly private from my friends and family. any suggestions? they would be LOVED (link)
| |
maybe at night when everyone is asleep and u r in ur room evercise at night for like an hour or so but keep it quiet
|
hey guyss
so i have exactly 10 days to loose as much weight as possible and tone up my stomach
im meeting my boyfriends friends and we're all hanging out at this theme park where we're prolly going to hang out at the water park for most of the time and i need to lessen all this flubber by then!
if it helps... im 16 and im 5'' yes im pretty short lol
and i weigh 107 lbs...soo any advice on this would be great...thanks so mucch (link)
| |
do the usual exercise and eat salads and veggies but dont push yourself to hard or you might get weak then you wont be able to go to the theme park just becareful dont exercise more than 3 hours a day
|
|
ok so theres this guy that i really like. hes MAJORLY nice and very cute. problem is he doesnt know me really. we meet pretty briefley but im not sure if he remeber me or likes me. i told my best friend and of course she told HIM!!! but i still dont know if he likes me. all he said was "oh where is she?" i would really apprecitate your advice! even though im not sure what im asking ANYTHING would help me out! (link)
| |
wow first of all what kind of friend is that...i would jump my friend if she ever did that and tell they guy that she lied and she is the one who like you ha ha h ah anyways let him come to you like the next time you see him dont jump up and down and start talkin and talkin and talking...i dont think guys like that just keep it cool and layback and watch him come to you and if he doesnt then he isnt interested then just forget it there are plenty of other MAJORLY nice and very cute guys
|
|
My dog just got put down. I miss her so much, how do I learn to forget about her? (link)
| |
maybe you should get a new pet but not a dog it might be a little to sad for you how about a cat or pherret i think that is how you spell it and birds make wonderful music im sorry about your dog after a while you will get over her
|
|
ok well i just woke up and i cant get the fact out of my head that i me me! is are might be in love or im just like crazy i dont know the difference.?! well lastnight i had a dream he was in it! he was iin my school and we would hang all lthe time there was on part where we like cuddled and i loved it it fellt soooo rite i know i wrote like am i in love b4 but is this reaelly showing that i love him when i can get him out of my head shoud i ask him if he loves me back should isay i love him??? just so you know that we tell eachother everything like if we were acting weird lets say he and i would tell eachother! so am i rreally in love i mean when you cant get them out of your head and wake up at 6 iin the summer time i didnt have to either! so am i i n love or just crazy about him? there is a dif. between those! (link)
| |
i dont think you truely love him right now but i think you are starting to fall inlove with him dont tell him striaght up like show him you love him...not sexually like mentally and after a while if you think he feels the same way tell him that your starting to fall inlove with him...good luck
|
What can you put on your skin to make it softer?
(link)
| |
for your face skin alright you can wash your face with hot water sry it then put a thin layer of honey for about 30 min or 15 if you cant stand it..or egg whites also for 30 or 15 min..or cut alot of cucombers and put it on your face for 30 min
|
ok so in 3 1/2 weeks it will be me and my bf 1 year anniversery. so i was wondering.. what can i get him.. i got a couple ideas but not so sure about them any idea?
1) besides a gift i was thinking of sendin him like a love letter to his house. is that good or bad? how much be4 time do i have to send it to him in order for it be recieved on the exact date. he lives 45 minutes away from me.
2) i was also thinking about like a hat and a brecelt. what do you think?
any idea will get a 5 (link)
| |
maybe you should get 2 silver necklaces that ech have half a heart that connects eachother have them custome made and have the necklace your gonna take have his name on it and his says your name and on the back of his have it written i love you on it or with my love or something or a silver bracelate that has your name on it and tlike i love you underneath or something like that
|
|
this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!! (link)
| |
tell him that you think he is great and all but you have already answered his question and its not going to change becuase you take him as a friend and that it and that your not interested
|
|
I am not even sure exactly what I want to ask, but I have a great voice and I know it. But how do I sing in front of people like I'm not scared and how do I get discovered in a small town? (link)
| |
you could start like taking any talent job anywhere and when a talent job comes up take it and for birthdays and parties and school talent shows even free volenteer work dont give when you find a chance anywhere take it sing at like soccer and football games save up money and get an agent and dont be nervous when you go to sing sing as if your in your room singing with a brush or in the shower...but keep your clothes on ok well i hope i helped you out good luck with your singing
|
|
i am from bermuda...ok so i have a boyfriend and i really love him me and him have been together for 8months now.... um 17 and he 22 we fight sometimes but we end up talking like hourss later... well when my bf is mad at me he tells me to leave him alone and tells me to f off and he says its over but he don't really mean that so when he not mad at me and when we together he tells me um going to marry you someday.. i really want us to get married but i dont no if i should believe him or not i don't no if he lying to me or not... my friends say i should leave him cause they think that he don't respect me and he shouldn't talk to me like that but i don't want to leave him cause i really love him and want to be wit him so i need some advice thanks hope to here from u soon (link)
| |
ok i think maybe you should take a break tell him that your not breaking up but you two obiously need some time apart just to striaghten things out and think without having to fight with one another and i say 2 or 3 weeks is good enough but tell him your not breaking up you just need some time alone and if u felt betterin these 3 weeks and go back to him feeling the same trashy was you did before then he just isnt the one for you but like if you couldnt stand those 3 weeks and went back to him and both of you solved your problems then you two should be together
|
Ok, this could be a little long, so I'm going to apologize for that right away.
Anyways, I was going out with this guy, let's call him C, for almost 2 months. Then I started thinking that I only liked him as a friend && I didn't want to keep going out with him && hurt him later, so I broke up with him.
About 2 weeks after I broke up with C, I found out my friend, M, was going out with him because he asked her out. When I found out, I seriously broke down && cried because him going out with another girl made me realize I still really did like him.
It's summer, so I'm doing OK since I don't have to see him, but when school starts I'm afraid I'll cry when I see him.
I still really love him && whenever I talk to M, she's my friend you know, she always talks about him and it literally breaks my heart. My friend, E, asked C once if he'd ever go back out with me but he never answered. My friend M, the one he's going out with, bounces from guy to guy all the time, but I'm just afraid she won't this time && I'll live with a broken heart.
I really need advice just on what to do. (link)
| |
ok calm down everything is going to be alright..your just emotional right now becuase you regret that you left him but you cant get mad or blame yourself you felt like he was a friend and friends should only be friends nothing more...but now that you see him with another girl you feel like you lost something you had dont worry you didnt you feel like that because he found someone before you and you will get over this guy i mean its not like you loved him im sure when school starts you will find someone that you like more than a friend, and you will be over him
|
|
do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
| |
ok dont listen to them ok its naturally not slutty but for your age it is bad..not goodyou should be discusted about it at this age...your 13 you shouldnt be going around being fingered and givin hand jobs at this age...what ever happend to simply kissing i mean seriously you can ohnestly get hurt being fingered what if he pops somthing or hurts you or something down there is very sensitive and hurts very very ez and if you do this stuff when you get older you will regret this remmeber what you did when you were younger think of your parents they would hate it if you did this...what if you had a daughter and got fingered and gave handjobs wouldnt you want her to stop and be angry she could easily say "what about you when you were my age you did worse things" anyways fingering and handjobs just lead to sex and then what will you do what if you get a disease or something girls your age get sick al the time for doing the things you want to do or who ever
|
|
Ok, so my best friend is with her second boyfriend ever. The first one only lasted a couple weeks and it wasn't really serious. She has been with the one she's with now since December. Well, they are wicked, wicked serious about each other and I've come to accept that and even be happy for her because she's finally happy again. But this has kinda started to get too far. Her boyfriend asked her to marry him when they become of age and she pretty much said yes. I guess I'm kinda concerned that she's throwing her life away over her second boyfriend. But the major problem with me comes from the age. I'm only 14/f, she's same as me, and he's 15/m. It freaks out alotof our friends because true love at this age is so rare. Do I talk to her or just stay out of it? Am I just jealous? (link)
| |
no ok ur just worried about her your not jealous im sure you will find someone...if they desided to get married now..you should be worried but she still has many many years to give it some thought...and if they trusely love eachother they will go through with marriage but most highskool sweethearts dont last...so don worry just stay out of it or she will think you jealous and not supporting her and she will feel alone alright well good luck
|
|
If you run away and get caught, what kind of trouble could you get in? (link)
| |
serious trouble..not only for you for your parents by court you might be possibly taken away for some unneeded help which im sure you would hate ...it sucks and if you do go home your parents wont be the same and you wont know how to talk to them without them being paraniod in every step pr move you make and you will always be supervised...so who ever wants to runaway..it isnt worth it think about the pain you will be putting your family wondering dying to know if you are alright wondering why you left or if someone took you and they will have nothing else on their mind and they will never be happy and will always fake a smile and laugh...
|
as you guys all know.
the school year's starting soon.
and i want to be a whole new me ! :)
i want to get highlights.
& have a new found style.
i want to decorate my locker.
& i want your help. :)
any ideas:
on styles, locker decorations,
nice highlight colors for dark brown hair?
[i'm thinking a bit blonde or red].
helP. :D (link)
|
ok well i dont think you really need makeup you have a nice face structure maybe dark eyeliner and mascara and f you want a little color on your lips nothing weird like purple or blue...lol scary maybe some black eyeshadow becus black matches everythig...not the lipstick though..anyways i dont think you should do blonde highlights becus everyone does that but i think the really really really rally light blonde wud match the color that is almost white tht would look hott and everyone is doin red also so if u want red do like tht ccrazy red the really red color not dark like a lil darker than ketchup red something like that and for your loocker be creative like take random things out of magazines that will make your lookcer really standout alright wll hope i helped
|
i am a 34c and i am 13 years old. 5 feet tall . and way around 107 . personally i tihnk that it to big and all the guys stare at them . i mean i know that i am pretty . i`m not conceited but i`m honest . i want guys to look at my face more . and i do wear revealing shirts . yeah lol but i`m starting to cover up more and realizing that more guys like me for my face lol . any ideas on how to get them to notice my face more instead of my breasts? thanks a bunch (link)
| |
ok well maybe you should get one fo those bras that really hold them...and you shouldnt want then to look at your face you should want them to look at who you really are inside your personality not face or breasts im sure you'll find someone who cares about who you are not how big your breasts are or how pretty you are
|
|
is love real or possible at 14? (link)
| |
the age doesnt matter atall..its how u feel..it might be strong feelings not love like..if he left you and you get over it after a month then it isnt love atall if your inlove wit someone and tht person left you..they never loved you and it might possibly take you a very very long time to get over that person...and if so dont date someone just to try to get over your old lover your just harming this poor person for your own needs....well i went a bit far there well anyways you should see how you feel if you cant stand being without that person for a half a day then its possible you love him/her
|
what can i do to stop arguing w/ my mom. Talking w/ her about it isn't helping anymore.
-i'm a 16yr old male (link)
| |
i feel you sometimes i daydreem of me chocking my mom...(whish probably isnt a very good thing) ha ha ha ha neways maybe like just try not talking to her to much and listen to her becuase if you do then she will...and like when she says somethng thats annoying or that pisses you off...just suck it in and be like ok umhm whatever your right whatever you say which will drive her nuts and then she will give up and just finally stop well i think thats all i hope i helped in anyway good luck with her
|
|