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Okay, so i went out with this guy a i really really like him and stuff but when we went out we never saw eachother (diff schools) he acted like he didn't really wanna talk to me, we didnt talk on the phone or anything, and yeah it was weird so i dumped him. We have been friends for a while and when we arent going out we go to movies and stuff n talk on the phone all the time and yeah. I really like him, but i dont want to go out with him unless things can change...but i dont really know what to do. hes always like "i wish you would go out with me" and that he really likes me and stuff. But now hes mad about it and he told me he might just go out with this other girl because it doesn't matter and i was like crying (it was over the internet) because i still really like him! and i guess it seemed like he was trying to make me mad by saying stuff about the other girl or whatever but yeah i dont know what to do..should i go out with him again? or just forget him? or what??

Maybe, you guys are scared to talk when yall know you two are a couple. But when you two are just being friends, yall dont think about the boyfriend/girlfriend situation, theres ways to solve it but you have to not let that odd feeling get between you two when yall are goin out. Just go out with him. If it dont work, then yall are prolly just comfortable around each other as friends. And the "hes thinking bout goin out with another girl" hes just tryin to get you to say I wanna go back out with you. Go for it girl !!

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Okay there is this guy and he lives down the street, but we have never talked really. One of my best friends got him to start talking to me, because she thinks that we are perfect for eachother (both country kids). He is also talking to one of my friends from another school. I start to like him, and he tells my friends and his friends he is starting to like me too! Meanwhile that friend from another school found out I like him and blatenly told me to ask him if he liked her for her. So I did to be a good friend and it turns out that he does like her. He told me that "we can be friends" "for NOW ;)" (wink face included) what does this mean and what should I do? Should I still try for him or what? Im 16, and a girl obviously! Guys I would love your point of view too!

Well, first your friends being mean because you like him and she is moving in on him,but she wont like him forever and neither will you. So just dont worry bout her goin out with him. But sounds to me he thinks hes gonna get to have his cake and eat it too. What he meant by the "we can be friends" "for now" ;) is that he thinks he can go out with your friend and if things dont work with her he'll go for you. Girl dont even worry bout him he is a retard! Plus it might ruin your friendship over some stupid guy, that you two will look back on in a few months and ask yourself "why did i even like him ?"

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this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?

I know you said your too old for a sleep over, but I dont think so, your never to old to invite some friends over and watch movies, eat popcorn and all other junk food, and talk about anything and everything. Just have fun with a sleepover, and dont worry bout bein too old for haveing a sleep over.

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ok..
my boyfriend is like failing our grade and he cares but he just doesnt think he can do any better he always tells me he dont know how to study like his mind drifts and he said if he fails then he wants to just move to a differnt school...which would kill me!! because we wouldnt see eachother at all..so can anybody give me advice on what to do and help him pass some subjects (enough to pass)! please help! ill rate high!

Tell him to get his act together, and that you know he can do better,maybe he just needs someone to believe in him. Help him study and actually pay attention to what hes studying, help him however you can. But dont let it get in the way of your grades, because if he wont try harder and your helping him more than likely he doesnt care enough to worry about doing better.

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what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship

Cheating, sucks and hurts peoples feelings. But just let him figure out on his own that she isnt worth his time,because she is going to cheat on him. Your friend obviously just doesnt care if she already knows she is goin to cheat on her boyfriend. He'll find out in the long run, you wont even have to tell him, trust me what comes around goes around. Just set back and watch her make a mistake. Then go for him.

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im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......

PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means

When you talk to someone, normally its harmless flirting that you dont mean to do. The girl your just friends with probably just has a lot in common with you that you see as cool to talk with her. If you dont have feelings for her, dont worry bout what your friends say they just dont understand how you feel about your girlfriend. Its harmless flirting, if the girl that use to like you a lot and you are now friends shes moved on and understands yall werent meant to be.

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how can i hook up w/ u

Well im not sure..lol.. I know who you are

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is there any other way to get rid of moles besides a dermatologist removing them? i have some in embarrassing spots that i could never tell my mom or a dermatologist and i was wondering if there was any way that i could do it

Go to the doctor, the doctor will not care where there at, plus you should have them checked out to make sure theres nothing more than a mole there and you dont have cancer or anything, Not tryin to scare you but you can never be to sure of anything.

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Hey guys! Okay, so theres this guy, and well the whole story went, I liked him and I was scared to tell him that I liked him but then one day on the phone he went and told ME that he liked me...I was really happy and everything, well I recently found out that he's been saying stuff about me behind my back,I dont go to his school being that he is younger than me, but yeah, hes been saying that Im obbsessed with him, and that he doesnt like me,and that He just plain doesnt like me and ALLLLL this stuff to ALL my friends and stuff, so. I found out that i have to see him next weekend at a play...Im SO EXCITED. My friend told him that I was going and he looked reallllllly nervous, so! I need help! Whats something I can say to him to make him completley shut up and like pee his pants...I want something to diss him really bad! im 16/f! thankss

Since hes younger than you,or a grade behind you or whatever. Just be more mature than him because he sounds immature and ignore him and act as if you dont know him and could careless. Then he'll realize him talkin bout you is not hurting your feelings a bit. Plus you can do better your older and theres no reason for him to be acting stupid like that.

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I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?

I dont think you should be getting involved with a teacher, not only is that illegal if your under 18 but its wrong because he could take advantage of you.

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I've just had my train track braces removed and been given a retainer. I didn't think to ask my orthodontist, but...if I wear my retainer more (like round the house after school as well instead of just at night), will it make my teeth more likely to stay in place or move quicker or whatever? Would wearing it more than just at night do more harm or good?
Thanks!

It will do better, and might speed up the time of haveing to wear..Just wear it and night and if you want more than that. It cant do harm, then when you go back to the orthodotist ask about wearing it more often.

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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not?

TRY OUT, you should always have confidence in yourself to do something, it doesnt matter if your scared you wont succeed, just go for it. I tried out for basketball my freshman year of highschool, I wasnt even half way decent but I wanted to play, I got out there on try out days and tried my best, I didnt make it but I left knowing I tried my best. You do the same, but I hope you actually make it ! :) :)

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

I completely agree with you, because I have asked a question to recieve good advice, and this one person responded in a sarcastic way. But it doesnt really bother me I pay no mind, to those who are immature and cant think of a real way to answer a question. I dont really think we should suspend them, it doesnt really matter, because compared to those 30 or so people who are rude, we have hundreds of people who actually care. Plus your always gonna have rude opinions, because people see things differently.

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I got my cartilage pierced in august, and I didn't have a problem with it until now. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear scabbed over in the 5 seconds that an earring wasn't in. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one it-a post hoop, and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks

I got my 3 hole pierece last june and the stupid thing would stay infected, (with puss) and they were sore, and scabby. I never took mine out, and now their finally healed completely...Your ear might just take a long time to heal. And to keep it from getting worse dont change the earring because each time it infects it an irritates it even more.The best kind of earring to keep in the hole is surgical steel. Just leave it alone and every night before you go to sleep or just when ever you think about it, put alcohol on it and turn the earring, sooner or later it should just clear up.

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what are some movies with belly dancing in them? i really want to learn how to belly dance and i try and try and it still doesnt work, so anyone that knows any belly dancing movies please tell me or any other advice! thanks

honey

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theres this kid i want to hook up with.. hes my friends cousin.. we havnt met yet but we probably will soon.. the thing is hes skater/punk and im like prep... i dont know how we will be able to go out together with eachothers friends if were so different.. my guy friends would probably make fun of him.. and i dont want that.. i just hope he likes me for me..

If he likes you and you like him, defintely go for it, who cares what your friends will think.. Opposites attract.

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Okay, i've been dating this guy for like 2 months...and he's being really immature and he can't do things very often cuz his parents r really strict and he's been really busy. I want to wait for summer when he can do more stuff because i really like him....what should i do? dump or wait~*Kt*~

You should stay with him, maybe hes being immature because hes frustrated because his parents are strict, I know mine are like that too. And when I have a boyfriend I start worrying about if their gonna stay with me because we cant do stuff together and talk all the time. Therefore I get kinda bitchy, not really immature though.. Talk to him about it, if he keeps acting immature let him go.

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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him

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I've been in a relationship kinda of like you are in, he was in a different state, and I lost my virginity to him after only a couple of weeks of knowing him. I cried way before that because I knew I was already in love with him,but it would never work. More than likely same thing has happened to you, he took your virginity and now he just doesnt care. Dont take offense but its the truth more than likely. You can live without him, end it.

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my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me

Keep your virginity, I had promised that to myself, and I didnt keep the promise. More than likely to do it now you will regret it, I do. Because now me and the guy arent even together.

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ohkay, my boyfriend, Chris tried making out with me but then i pulled back. He said he's planning on doing it again. But i love him so much and i feel so bad, so i plan on making the move, so guys, how would you want a girl to "make the move"?

Just get in his face get real close to him and make a move, its easy, go for it, he will like!

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