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Ok, so my ex dumped me last November and got back with his ex the day after. They have now split up.

But its been a year now since me and my ex first started going out, and he never used to speak to me.
Except two weeks ago he sent a happy birthday text, and has been initiating contact through texts each week. I've tried to ask him why, but he completly ignonres the question. How can I get him to tell me his intentions? Thanks

Dear How to ask about exes intentions?,

Zane is right. You already know the answer to the question. His actions confirm it.

There are a lot of factors that you should consider before saying get lost, or inviting him into your life again.

How did he treat you when you were together?
How did he treat you while he was with her?
How long did you date him before he left you for his ex?
What were the reasons he broke up with you?

More important questions are;

How do you feel about him after 8 months of seeing him with another girl?
Did he leave you an emotional wreck when he dumped you 8 months ago?

It sounds to me like his ex-girlfriend was the reason he left you.

It sounds to me like she had been talking to him without your knowledge and had a huge hand to play in your break up, since he was with her the very next day. (at least he did not lie, and cheat on you, he showed strong moral character by leaving you instead)

What happened in those eight months that made him want you again?

There are so may questions that need answers before you can decide to take him back. Ultimately it is your choice to make. Lessons are your to learn, and he may be one of them.

So here is some friendly advice from your spirit guides'


He wants you back. Your Karma is what is bringing him around to you. According the spirits surrounding you, he made a mistake when he left you. He knows it and does not want to admit it. He reaped what he had sewn, and I bet it was not pleasant for him.

Men are fickle creatures and will often return to the most comfortable place they last remember. For him, that warm comfort must have been you, however it took him 8 months, and a cold discomfort to figure that out.

"the proper care and feeding of husbands" is a book that I am recommending to everyone having male issues.

Trust me, once you have the tools to work with, and you use them, he will never leave you again.

Read the book!

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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I been with this guy for three year and he is a real good guy but most of time is at work and the other time is with his daughter who is grown.He move out to live with his daughter because couldn't fine a Job so now he want me to wait until she find a job which i don't think she looking for because he pay everything so i can't get nothing she just did four year in college a master degree and she don't want any job, the job have to go around her hour of church and school of which she planning to go back, since she is his only daughter he never told her no before

Dear im wondering should i let him go,

Young Mommy is right. A bond between the parent and offspring will override all other bonds. (similar the Masonic Oaths that override all other Oaths taken by the president of this country, your sheriff, etc. . .)

Talking bad about his daughter will only end the relationship.

In today's economy, it would be wise for all of you to live together. The unemployment rate for college graduates is higher than the rate for laborers in this country.

She has a Masters and plans to go to more college. It sounds like she is a perpetual student, someone who never gets a real instead, they get degrees that they never put to use.

I personally know someone who has four degrees in various subjects, yet refuses to use the education in the fields they are trained. She is still going to college at 32 years old. 16 years of school, and no resume to show for it. She will never get a job with no practical experience.

Maybe it is time to talk to your man, and see if you can move in with them. That way, even if she never gets a job, you can still live together. Open up and tell him that you are afraid she will never stop going to school, therefore, never get a job, and he will never move out of his daughter's house.

If he has a bad reaction to how you feel, let him know that you will give him 4 weeks. If she goes to college, instead of getting a job, then you are moving in, or moving on with your life.

Never condemn the daughter. Always ask what you can do to help both of them, but do not be led on. If she does not get a job within a month, take the next step. If she goes back to college, instead of finding a way to pay her bills, he will never move out of her house.

Read a book called 'The Proper care and feeding of husbands'. Then apply the information and he'll be yours no sweat. If you damage his daughters limelight, you will be the one in the dark. Just try and be helpful, if you really want him.

If you do not want him, tell him that you have a life and cannot wait around for him to baby his grown daughter.

It is your life, go live it. The choices you make are no one else's to make. Read that book!!!

Good Luck

Doktor Tammy

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So- theres a friend of mine who Ive known for three years, Im 18, hes 20, we met in high school and when we talk its all day, every day. Everyone we meet thinks we're perfect for each other, and hes asked me out a few times over the course of our friendship, but I wasnt ready for that and I didnt want to lead him on, so I made sure to keep it honest and simple. So three years later he starts dating an acquaintance of mine, and about a month into it I realize; Im graduating and Im ready for that kind of relationship. So I tell him how I feel. While he told me he wasnt breaking up with her, (who I might add, screwed him after 3 weeks. hes 1 of 4 guys. Shes 18.) if they ever were to break up thered be no one else out there for him, (and a maybe in the future we could be together but- line) and continued to talk about how weve never been "just friends" for the next two hours before we had to go to bed. The next day we fought over the fact that I wont play #2 when he obviously likes me, and I dont deserve to be a back-up plan. The fight ended with a resolution of we're just friends, and shes my gf. I purposefully ignore him the next day, and the next morning, he tells the gf. Great. So after a week or so of barely talking- gf goes on vacation for a month. I text him like usual (although I am always making the first move) and things are normal, with him dropping some hints and using the 'best friend' thing a lot. But he never stalls the conversations- we actually have GREAT conversation. I stop about two days before she comes back. Gf comes back from vaca, I try to text him about day two after shes back- barely any reply. I finally just get mad, because he calls himself my 'best friend' but ignores me, and havent really talked to him since.

I know these two and I highly doubt theyre compatible. Weve gone through stages of not talking after I had written him off and hes come back twice before. So my question is- any ideas what the future may hold?

Dear "Best Friend" of three years has always liked me, but I missed my chance?,

There will be other chances. The advice you have gotten so far is good. However, I might add that he can no longer be considered your best friend, he is the Girlfriend's Boy Friend now. You have no claim to him. The world does not wait around for you to be ready. Either you are ready or not.

Luck is when preparedness meets opportunity.

Your goal is to be ready when they break up and opportunity arises. Do not seriously date anyone if you want to be available when they are no longer together. There is no telling what keeps them together, but if it is as you say, they'll be history soon enough.

Do not 'wait' for him, but be available when he comes calling on his soul mate. Do not let his lapse in judgement, and character throw you off. He may be just getting what he needs from her, since he was not getting it from you. That is often how men accomplish things when dealing with sex, relationships and life in general.

Read a book 'The proper care and feeding of husbands' . . . you can probably find it on a PDF download torrent. It will prepare you for what you need to do to get him, and keep him. This book will help you do that with any man you want.

If you were friends with the girl before they began dating, you should continue that relationship as well. You are paying the price for acting jealous. Your actions have caused him to pull away when she is around, and made her aware of your intentions. You may have lost both of these people as friends if you do not apologize for acting like a jealous baby. LOL, it is not uncommon for this to happen when you have your best friend pulled away by another female.

Once you apologize, they will have no reason to 'band' together against you. An outside attack will always push them closer together.

Your best bet is to apologize and approve of the relationship. Do not give them any reason to believe otherwise, then read that book so you are ready when he is bored with her and comes running to you.

Be patient grasshopper, your day will come. In the mean time, let him make his mistake with her, be there for him when he dismisses her, and show him how a woman treats a man. Trust me, once you have engaged the techniques in the book I mentioned, he will be ruined for other women, forever. Anyone after you will seem like a slob, who knows nothing about men.

Good Luck

Doktor Tammy



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I've never been interested in girls. I'm not a lesbian but I fell in love with my best friend that is a girl. I'm 16 and this just recently happened. Why would this happen if I am not a lesbian?

Dear I fell in love with my best friend,

Just because you have feelings for someone does not make you bad or evil. Lesbian is a label created by up tight eugenics in order to discriminate openly against the beautiful humans in this world.

Do not be ashamed of who you love. We cannot help the way we feel about others, no matter what their gender may happen to be.

Love is universal. You can love anyone and anything you want. The important question is still to be asked. Does your friend feel the same way?

The Eugenics bimbos have insisted that society is to believe that only man/woman relationships are acceptable and any other relationships are unhealthy.

Unhealthy is not being who you are because of labels and discrimination. Hell, most of the Eugenic power families are all inbred and not quite human. LOL

That sounds funny, but when you have seen and researched the things I have regarding society, governments, religions, and the economy, you will not think it is so funny, nor is is absurd to say that they are not quite human. They are inbred!

However, you are human. It is human to love each other. Anyone who tells you it is wrong to love your best friend is an idiot. The one person in your life that you love, should be your best friend above all else. My husband is my best friend and lover. If he were not my best friend, he would not be my husband, lover, soul mate, and other half.

My point is that you should not let the fake, corrupt social system dictate your life. Dare to be different!!

Take care.

Doktor Tammy

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Okay here's the scoop. Ever since I've gotten done with my last class, I've been working nonstop basically ever since.. Pick up a couple hrs here with this client, a few here.. Before I know it, forty hours a wk here, and after that fifty.. Now I got a second job over the summer, for some occasions. Well that lady is upset because I can't work work forth of july weekend. However she asked me to work for her! I told her I'd help her when I could.. Then the lady I take care of right now asked me to be there friday and monday when i work for the other one on wednesday... Easily this will amount to about 48 hours since the shifts are usually about 12 hours or more long. Now, my aunt has this other man with Alzheimer's she wants me to pick up a few shifts with.. Then this one man actually stopped me to ask me how much I charge when I was taking care of the lady I take care of on a regular basis.. I know I shouldn't be complaining. A lot of people want a job, and can't get one.. But then again a lot of people don't actually enjoy there "boring" time. I treasure those moments every time I get them. The problem is... I'm really started to feel all this stress taking over me emotionally & physically..... I have a vacation scheduled, and asked off for it months in advance. However they want me to hurry up and get back... I love my job, but I'm starting to feel way to much pressure. I don't need the money that, that bad... I live with my parents and don't have to pay rent or anything. All I need is money for my car insurance, gas, and phone bill. Any tips on reducing stress? Being able to say no without feeling guilty? I'm freakin out here & in way over my head.. Please! A WORD OF ADVICE!!

Dear Starting to feel really burned out.....,

Feeling burned out when your life is stressful is a common thing for many people. Lowering your stress will mean cutting back on hours. You choose to take on so much and now it is taking its toll on you.

Do something fun on your vacation. Something for you. Ignore all requests to help others until you have enjoyed some stress free time with yourself.

Others see you as a machine, not a human. You are in the 'caring field' and therefor, you cannot say no. I have been there and I have done that. I can tell you are in need of a break. Go someplace where the people are not needy. Someplace where you can lay around and have others bring you drinks, food, and massages. YOU DESERVE IT!!!

It is important that you GET AWAY, or the stress will cause you to get sick easily. You are no good to anyone if you are ill yourself.

Look into the blood-type diet for energy reserves, controlling mood swings and avoiding fatigue. You may be eating foods that are making it very hard for you to handle the stress as well. Tomatoes, chicken, pork, corn (corn products)and shelled fish are just a few of the foods that will slow you down. NO HUMAN ON THE PLANET SHOULD EAT THESE FOODS. At the basic cellular level, they are killing the human DNA.

Take care and get better soon. If you need anything you may e-mail me. I am also gifted with Tarot cards and spiritual readings, so call on me if you need some more insight into your energy's paths. 719-839-0710 MST USA

Doktor Tammy

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What's a liberal and a comunist? And what's the diff between a democrat and republican? And is Prez. Obama a republican or a democrat. I'm 13 so can you explain it without all the confusing politics words? I skipped a few grades and I'll be taking a placement test in august that'll have some social studies and American history sections so I think it'll be good to know a little more about some if this stuff. Thanks a ton guys. :)

Dear 13,

While the answer you have gotten so far, is close to being the truth, it is not telling you the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Republican and democrats, socialist and conservatives, witless or not, are all being run by the same puppet master.

They claim to be on opposite sides, but in reality they have the same boss.

The name of a class of people is important in recognizing the different actions of each party. There is one important thing you must know, any politician that is a Freemason, has signed their allegiance to the brotherhood of their masonry.

A Freemason takes an oath to the clan, and it overrides all others. The President is
a classic example of someone who is taking orders from his Masonic Leaders, not the American People. You see, your sheriff is probably a Freemason, that means his masonic oath overrides his Oath to the American People.

Check out this Oath taken by the Knights of Columbus. It is disturbing to anyone who believes in the life and works of Christ.

http://arcticbeacon.com/books/The_Oath_of_the_Knights_of_Columbus.pdf

Here is link to some important information. You are thirteen years old and exactly where they want you. Ignorant of the truth.

Here is the truth. Spread it around and stand up for your right to live in a peaceful world, full of beauty and abundance.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VebOTc-7shU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-CrNlilZho

Please take some time to get informed. Your parents were tricked into handing you over the United States. Not once, but at least three times if you have a birth certificate, a social security number, and have ever been registered in public school. The registration of a child at birth hands over legal rights of the child to the state it was born (meaning you have no civil rights your parents handed them over at birth). A social security number is also known a Social Insurance Number (a SIN)and is a contract the binds you to the Federal Government as an employee and turns you into the responsible party
of a foreign corporation with the same name your parents gave you. When you are registered with a public school, it is the same as a birth registration. All rights are handed over to the school.

You are not an American.

If you were born here, you are a native to America, a Native American so to speak. If you were born here but were registered with the USA you are not an American. You are a US Citizen. I am almost 4 times you age.I have done my research on the US government. Let my knowledge be your reality check. Ask your parents what they know about contracts with the beast, er I mean the devil, er I mean the United States Government.

Ask your parents if they realize that everyone who does business with a social security number is doing business as a foreign corporation. Ask them if they realize that the IRS tax code is simply the law that regulates foreign commerce within the borders of our country.

So, when your parents use their social security number for anything, they are bound by the IRS tax code, that regulates their foreign affairs, to forfiet any monies, property, and life that the USA tells them to Forfiet. The Social Security contract that you are illegally entered into by your parents can be annuled. the birth certificate and registrations too.

I know this sounds crazy, it did to me too, at first. Until I did my resaerch and found more than what I was looking for.

I hope this helps your inquiring mind want to know more!!

Good Luck!!

Doktor Tammy

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I keep having dreams of this man i dont even know in person. i know of him because he was in a early 90s band he was in.. my question is why cant i get this man out of my mind? hes in my dreams and my thought everyday for the last 2 years! while hes in my mind my boyfriend is getting impatient..

Dear about my dreams,

I apologize for the delay in responding. Life is teaching me some valuable lessons.

Dreams are a way for your unconscious brain to communicate with your conscience brain. Since your unconscious brain cannot speak to you, it shows you pictures.

Dreams are a way of processing information coming to you. It is possible that it has nothing to do with this man, but with the symbols he represents.

I would look up dream dictionaries. A celebrity in your dream could have significant meaning to your life.

I am not sure, but I think it has to do with secrets. I could be wring about that, so I encourage you to look it up for yourself.

Thanks for asking your question. I feel so bad about the delay that I want to make it up to you with a Spirit reading and Fortune telling session. You can call me anytime between 9am-9pm Colorado, USA time zone. 719-839-0710 ask for Tammy.

I hope to hear from you soon. Take care.

Doktor Tammy

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A friend recently bought me a voodoo doll from New Orleans. I live in New Zealand. How do I safely get rid of it? I don't want to throw it in the bin incase something bad happens. I was thinking of just putting it in the post and sending it somewhere but I am scared of something happening too. What should I do? Please help.

Dear How do I safely get rid of a voodoo doll?,

I assure you that the doll is nothing more than a teddy bear, or a figurine until you use it to do voodoo.

Have you used it yet? If not, send it to me. I will take it. I can use it to get my kids some food.

Really, I know people, good people, who collect those dolls. They have never had anything bad happen to them as a result of having them around.

Doktor Tammy @
PO BOX 251
Fairplay, CO 80440

When your friend asks about the doll, you can openly and honestly tell them you donated to a needy family who traded it for food.

If you decide to keep it, you are not in danger unless you believe it to be true. I beg you not to throw it away. Your friend thought of you and made a sweet gesture. Do them the honor of keeping it, or donating to a needy family.

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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Could a huge protests at UN Headquarters allow the UN to make sure Cameroon has a fair election in 2011?

Cause Paul Biya is a dictator who has been ruling since the 1980s. He rigs the elections to make himself win, and will do it again unless there is intervention to make the polling fair. If more publicity is drawn to this issue, do you think the UN could become more involved in it?

Otherwise, what can I do? I'm a 16 year old girl in America, and my family is Cameroonian and it really pisses me off that they have such a corrupt government because most of the people don't like Paul Biya and if the election was fair, he would not win. I just want to do something, you know? I know it won't be easy at all, but I really want Cameroon to progress to becoming a better nation, have a better health care system, etc.

Paul Biya hasn't helped Cameroon at all. Fru Ndi isn't much better, so I support Kah Wallah. Paul Biya and wife waste millions of Cameroonian dollars on trips abroad, staying at fancy hotels while that money could have been used for so many things in Cameroon. People get away with shady, backyard deals and what not.

I want the Cameroonians to take a stand for what they believe in, like how the British colonies fought against the British to get what they wanted, and etc. But how can you rally up an entire country? Or people in other places in America and around the world to get Cameroon to host fair elections? I know the American government won't take any interest since they can't really gain anything in Cameroon like they can in the middle east, but hopefully the UN could.

Dear How to protest at United Nations,

I have to agree with the advice you have already gotten; The United Nations is the most corrupt agency on the planet. If you have not already noticed, our system of voting is controlled by the UN.

My best friend studied constitutional law at the UN. He believed we had a republic until he got his United Nations education.

A republic is the only system that allows true justice at the polls, in our homes, our lives and society.

However, we were only a republic for about 5 years before we became a democracy. Then we were only a democracy for 20 years before we became communist, err, I mean fascist, er I mean socialist, err I mean a monarchy.

Damn they change the definition so much . . . .

The bottom line is that protesting is being quickly made a treasonous crime and doing it at the UN will get you imprisoned, tortured, and even killed. That is right, and just talking about protesting can get you turned in by a neighbor.

"I want the Cameroonians to take a stand for what they believe in, like how the British colonies fought against the British to get what they wanted, and etc."

The founding fathers were brave men who risked their lives to stand up to the same tyranny that looms over us now. The United Nations and United States teaches its public thugs, err I mean public officers that our founding fathers were traitors and assassins. What the hell?

I know the truth. SO why are our police officers, being taught to hate the very foundation of or nation;s birth.

Our founding fathers were freedom lovers who risked their lives for you, me and the other 6 million people living today. acted on their devotion to their fellow humans.

Follow in their footsteps. Stand up to the tyrannical actions that are currently kicking in your back door.

p r i s o n p l a n e t . c o m

That best friend I mentioned had recently campaigned for sheriff in our county. He got 1/4 of the votes from the people in our town. His name was never mentioned as a candidate, the people that voted for him lost their votes, and his vote was not counted.

He is currently filing charges against many of the public officials that ran the voter panels.

I keep trying to tell my friend that the polls are fake. Since we register our votes, we are handing them over to the government to use. They put them where they want them; trying to make the elections seem real, they must have a winner and loser.

Legally, the word registration means to hand over ownership of the thing being registered. This is true with cars, kids, dogs, votes, or whatever you are registering.

Millions of innocent people have no clue that they are held bound by contracts they do not understand or know even exist.

If you have a contract with the SSA you are property of the United Nations; if you have a birth certificate, you are property of the United States Government. The same is true with other governments that claim to a Democracy.

You were registered to the United States at birth, usually. Commonly, you are handed over to the United Nations via a social security application.

Both of these contracts can be terminated.

Both of these contracts are evil; in the sense that they are designed to take your physical energy and transfer it to the United Nations, err I mean New World Order.

The bottom line is that there is only one thing you can do. Be ready to stand against the tyranny when it comes to your door. It as your family's door right now, it will be at yours soon enough.

Get ready. Wise up and get informed.

Money Mechanics, Obama Deception, Fall of the Republic. These three will get you started. You can You tube them or get them from info wars dot com, prison planet dot com and listen live to GCN live dot com.

I have a love of my fellow human, just as my cherished founding fathers had felt hundreds of years ago. Just saying that may get me killed, but I love you, I love life, and I love freedom.

In the name of justice, love, peace, and all that is beautiful in life, I stand against tyranny.

Are you ready to do something about it? Go to the sites I listed, research the information and get informed, keep your eyes open and be ready.

Look at F E M A camps across the nation as well. They are another part of the ruse 'to help', when all they are intend to for is 'killing camps'.

2012 will see famine, rioting, death, violence, military action and mass extermination. It may be the 2012 elections that spur this rioting that triggers the open declaration of Martial Law.

I say open declaration because we have been under 'closed' or hushed martial law since 1861.

If more people took the time to stop (question authority) and smell the roses (research the answers), we would have the most beautiful looking and smelling world possible.

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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Okay so I'm an adult female who believes they are an otherkin. how do I explain my otherkin self to my family? I have some unusual reactions to certain things they do or say...which makes me scared. One time my best friends step brother was being verbally abusive to me and I became so upset my "tail" lashed out, tripped him over and I pinned him down and did not let him move unless he crawled. I sometimes get alot of stress at the docs and im also scared I might attack them too. I'm not into lying. and im not a alternative reality seeker. Being an otherkin is very stressful sometimes and I've tried online groups and many of people are into the occult which is against my Christan ways.

Dear otherkin awareness,

It is hard keeping yourself in check when you do not understand your nature.

I am an energy being in physical form. Essentially, I am a human with an extreme connection to what most would call the holy spirits. Others call them the weavers of fate, cosmic forces of the universe, and Hee.

You are not alone in your issues, and they are real. Although I do not have a tail, I have the ability to feel your pain, hear your thoughts, and see your future.

These were abilities that went against my Christian upbringing, but have never harmed anyone. In fact my abilities have saved marriages, lives, and families. How can it be condemned as a bad thing when I have done so much good with my abilities? I would have been called a healer or a gypsy witch in the medieval times.

You are a celestial being in human form, call yourself a otherkin if you like labels; but that does not change who and what you are. As of this point I am aware of dozens of beings in human form living on this planet.

You can control your tail. Do not let it control you. You react irrationally to stupid actions and comments; instead of acting rationally to the ignorance.

The phrase 'ignorance is bliss' goes both ways.

The people around you are ignorant of their influence on your nature. Keep in mind that they are also ignorant of the power you have over them.

Learn to put up with their ignorance. Ignore it if you have to. Verbal attacks are nothing. Use your abilities to defend and protect yourself and others from physical danger.

Focus on realizing that most people around you are not special. They are on the hole, nothing more than sheeple.

Your time is coming. Infowars and prisonplanet dot com.

Take Care. Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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I read the earlier posts on emotionlessness and saw that some of the things put down were similar to what I'm going through. Sometimes, I find my self crying with out actually knowing why. I put on a mask everyday to play that body I walk around in. I tred explaining it to my mom but it took a while. It's sort of like never being able to be hurt by anything but then,... never being able to be truly happy. I can't remember the last time I have felt happy and I'm afraid that I never had that emotion in the first place. What if I never know what it feels like to be happy. I want my emotions back and there may be a few reasons why I don't have them. My life hasn't been all fun and games as my outward mask feigns it was. I had a father who neglected me and stepmothers who caused me both physical and emotional pain. In the end, my father dropped me off at a daycare center where i had spent most of my childhood at. Now I'm adopted but I don't think i came out of it all unscathed. If thats where my emotionlessness came from than how do i get it back? Oh and don't bother trying to contact my email. It's bumb anyway.

Dear I have found that i can't feel anything,

You are so sad, yet you say that you cannot feel anything. You feel sadness. It is a sadness for something that is missing from your life. There is a bitter emptiness filling the space where the parent's love should sit. Your emotional state is a result of your social programming.

It is true, you never had the emotion in the first place. It is the result of not having the close loving connection with a mom and dad. It is true of most children that have two parents, but spend all day in school, daycare, or the care of complete strangers.

You do not need a therapist to help you relive and revive past issues that cause you to cry. They will also want to put on pills that will increase your negative thoughts and change your natural body chemistry in a negative way.

Crying is a healthy release of unspent negative energy. However, it is not healthy to cry all the time. Your emptiness will consume you.

Do not dwell on being dumped by stupid people. Do not get caught up in the programming that comes with being raised by strangers. You have the capacity to love, otherwise you would not cry at all. You would be numb, indifferent, and emotionless. Sadness is an emotion that indicates the capacity for love. You do feel, you are not emotionless, you are sad. You are not alone.

It may help you to look into exactly how many others like you are victims of a system designed to separate the family units. You are the victim of a grand scheme. Instead of seeking therapy that will increase the focus on your sadness ten fold, and get you hooked on some dangerous chemicals;you should look to future and focus on filling your emptiness with love.

I am sure that you have learned to keep to yourself, fend for yourself, and put on a happy face. These are important character traits. You should not condemn yourself for this. I am sure you feel unwanted and abandoned. Who would not feel that way? Your feelings are natural and you must work through them with a clear mind, wise choices, and knowledge.

Start looking into subjects like inflation, money mechanics, fractional reserve banking, world reserve currencies, socialism, fascism, the communist manifesto and the differences between a monarchy, an empire, a democracy, and a republic.

After you have researched these subjects, go to inforwars.com or prisonplanet.com and browse or listen to the radio shows. You need to know what the real world has in store for us.

Your sadness can be replaced with love from any source you choose. Your adopted parents, a pet, a plant, or a friend. You are intelligent, and I have faith that you will overcome this challenge and grow stronger from it.

I am here anytime you need me.

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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I Don't know what it's called even though I've been trying to for a long time now. For about 2 years now, I've felt little to no emotions, constant suicidal thoughts, no need to socialize, haven't been able to remember a single dream, and the need to be alone.

2 Years ago, I was the guy with all the friends, the happy person with the happy life. Now, I'm still considered to be the same person by at least 90% of people I know. The 10% that asked me if there was something wrong, I blew them off. I don't tell people my problems, and don't feel "alone in the world". I don't see the point in "white lies" and analyze all my conversations, thinking of what to say next before saying it. I don't feel happy, sad, regret, guilt or anything. But I still have suicidal thoughts. I can't explain it well. When I think of suicide I feel like a great weight will be lifted.

To be honest, I'm surprised i went through with this. I normally just read, not write. Oh and also please don't go "Please see a therapist, or doctor, or speak to someone." I've tried enough times.

Dear I have this really weird problem,

Man, suicide is always a scary subject. Taking your own life is a serious action that has no reward, or reversal. While great relief may come when we are dead, it is not your time to go yet.

I agree with the feedback you have gotten thus far, in the respect that something happened 2 years ago that changed you. I find it a harsh reflection of the world we live in that only ten percent of your friends were aware enough to notice something was wrong with you.

The world is changing and your feelings about suicide will change. You are needed to be strong, indifferent, and unwavering. These character traits will be needed to deal with threats that will come to your family, and loved ones. Your emotions will return when you gain your purpose; to protect and provide.

Another thing that will feed into your suicidal thoughts are pills prescribed for depression. I do not agree that doctors can help you with your problems. Since they have no idea what it is like to have your life, to think your thoughts and have your problems. They are trained to label you, categorize your symptoms based on what you tell them, and then give you a 'fix it' pill to cover up the problems.

Weather or not chemicals are influencing your thoughts, you are going through this for a reason. Everything that we are put through is a test with a lesson learned and meant to make us stronger. You are a strong spirit that has hit a major speed bump at 65mph. It has thrown you off your game and you do not know how to deal with it. You are not a weak character. Otherwise you would have killed yourself instead of engaging your 'emotional' defensive mechanisms.

This is not a cry for help either; so it is obvious that you want to feel again. The longing to have these emotions again feels like a huge anchor weighing you down. Naturally you want relief from it all. This tells me that you are human. The relief you contemplate is not ideal, but the only option you have been exposed to; that is until me.

Improve your eyesight, increase your focus, and your purpose will be made clear. When you find your purpose, you find yourself and your feelings. When you find your feelings, you will find life again.

Trust in me and you will see,
Hopefully, I can give you clarity.

i n f o w a r s.com and p r i s o n p l a n e t.com

Get real. Get honest. Get the Truth. I am here for you anytime.

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

P.S. Only ten percent of your peer group, not just your friends, will comprehend the truth you'll find in the above .com sites.

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how do you get every one loughing at a talent show?

Dear How do I get everybody laughing,

I suggest finding funny in your own faults. Cracking jokes about yourself will most often get you the laughs you want.

Another way is to make fun of ridiculous subjects that everyone agrees upon. Since it is hard to find a subject that everyone agrees on, joking about yourself is a safe bet.

I once saw an episode of a family show where the kids were going put on a talent show for the neighborhood. Just before the show, all the kid actors had cancelled and the kid who planned it all ended up playing all of the parts.

He fumbled as he changed characters, recited lines, and moved props around. His physical actions made him look foolish, and people laugh at that behavior.

I know that you will find funny in yourself.

To get some more ideas, research is needed.

Watch funny videos and see what makes the masses laugh.

What show is popular with your age group?

That could be a common ground for your peers and a possible avenue for a talent show.

No matter what you decide, I am sure that you will do great. Laughter is a great medicine, and you are the doktor. Go get'em!

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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i want to know if its anything i can do if me and my suppose to be father, took a dna test after he stood me up for 31yrs and he was always lying about taking the test. [he is a pastor in his brother chruch] im getting married in his bother chruch so he was kinda force to take one but we had to do it his way. threw the mail and i did not see him mail it off. the dna center said they dont know who dna they were testing because he mail it in. we all think something is fishy including the dna center. how can i get him to take anthor test for my benfit. i have two children and i need to know where i came from. WHAT CAN I DO?

Dear Getting My supposed father . . . ,

love you for wanting to know where you came from; however, it seems to be causing you come grief since your supposid father will not cooperate. This also makes me sad; sad for your children.

If not knowing if this man is your father makes you so unhappy, I cannot imagine how your kids see you. You have two children that could turn that bad energy into something glorious; all you must do is focus on them, and not you or the issues with you fake father.

I know this may not be something that you want to hear; but who cares if this man is your father?

He was not there for you when you were growing up. He does not deserve to be your father!

He definately does not deserve to be a granfather either.

I say move on from this bad tasting subject. It is obvious your fake father has no interest in being your father. Put it past you and focus on your future. Those two children will know where they came from, and that is what matters here. You need to be a better mom than your father was for you. You cannot get those years back. Your children will not get back the time you spend focused on other things as well. Just because you are with them physically, does not mean you are with them if you are focused elsewhere.

Please do not be mad at me for being honest and blunt. You are doing your children and new husband a huge injustice by forcing this issue.

Let it go. Move on and enjoy the time you have with your children. They are the future, not your absent father.

Congratulations and Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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One of my best guy friends (we'll call him Sam) told me on Friday that he was sick of his life and that he was going to kill himself. I've been paranoid all weekend and i dont know what to do. he's the type of guy that mot definately would kill himelf.

Friends in need are friends in deed.

What are his reasons for such drastic life ending actions? Life in general is not meant to be easy. However, I do know grand plans have made things much harder than they needed to be.

It is hard to give advice about a suicidal friend. You are not the one in distress. You are not the one feeling empty. You are not the one who believes there is no reason for his life.

However, you feel for him, otherwise you would not be a friend.

I always find that having a sense of purpose is the best medicine, along with some Cannabis, for a change of mind. Help him find something he can do to help others, the planet, and himself. Clear thinking is important. He should eat for his blood type, and avoid chemicals.

If it is just life in general that has him down, he is not alone. Millions of people around the world are unhappy for apparently no reason.

There is a reason. It is like a background noise that we cannot hear, through conditioning, but it is there, annoying us none the less.

Some of us have learned how to turn off that background noise, but at a price.

Anyone interested in learning how to turn off that background aggravation can go to GDNLive.com and inform yourselves.

Life is worse than he thinks, but it is not worth taking our own lives. He is here for a bigger purpose and until his spirit is united with that purpose, he will feel sad, empty, alone, in despair, and tortured by life.

He has a bigger purpose. You are here for a bigger purpose as well. You are his support. He will be yours. Inform yourselves. Be prepared.

Turn off the background noise, and have peace of mind. Listen GCNLive at am central U S time.

Good Luck. I am here if you need me.

Sincerely,

Doktor Tammy

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Doktor Tammy,
I hope you have some patience, because this may be long...but I'd like to know what you think.
I'm a 23 year old female in, for lack of better terms, a difficult situation. My ears perked up when I saw you identified yourself as an Empath. I have always identified myself as a Healer, of all sorts, but lately I've had trouble with my abilities when I've had time to think about them, between having terrible anxiety, disturbing dreams, and dealing with my physical and emotional pain.
I took my cat and most of my things with me when I left a dangerous, abusive man back in October. I loved him...we wanted to get married. If he hadn't hurt me I don't know that I'd have left. But he did, so I did. It took me almost six months to come out of shock and begin the grieving stage of healing...and I'm not sure I'm out of shock, either.
I'm struggling now to function. I used to be able to move energy through my throat chakra (emotion center) and solar plexus (power center), to heal both myself and others, but now the centers I had opened have closed up to the point that they hurt, and I can't open them back up. Not to mention, in order to operate in my day-to-day life, I've been needing to shut down my emotions, because I feel I have no control over them - either they take over or I do. I work in the mental health field and have dedicated my life to learning about and helping others, but I find myself not caring, which is ridiculous for me.
I have a psychologist, and I'm on antidepressants (and other medications for other physical problems), but I'm so, so sick of medications and chemicals...I feel like I haven't healed at all - if anything I've gotten worse. The dreams are more disturbing, the lows are more frequent than the highs, and much, much more intense. It scares me. I've never been this wholly thrown off-balance by anything, and I've been through a lot. It's frustrating.
I'm not completely sure what I'm asking, other than a general cry for help, but I had an instinct to reach out to you. I don't expect you to say the magic words to heal me, don't worry. :)
Thank you for your time.

Thank you for reaching out to me.

You are recovering from a terrible disappointment and if your doctor cared about you, the last thing they would do is put you on chemicals that exploit your fragile state of mind.
You are young enough to learn a lesson from all of this. I can pass on helpful information and intuition, but it will be up to you to choose your own actions.

Your pineal gland is having a hard time picking up vibratory energies. Clearing your various chakra is a great thing, but will do you minimal good if your pineal gland is not vibrating at a healing level.

The first thing I can see is the chemicals interfering with your ability to think and heal; yourself and others. Your chakra are so clogged with chemicals that you are in physical discomfort. Your body and mind are not in alignment anymore. The chemicals are causing your crazy dreams and clogged chakra.

The physical pain increases your mental instability and your mental pain will manifest itself physically. It will become a vicious cycle if you do not stop it now. It is all caused by the chemicals.

Sweetheart, you do not need the pills; you are stronger than that. You do not need the psychologist either. You can gain sure insight through the Cosmos when you detoxify your body, clear your pineal gland, unclog those chakra, and get back to living your life.

To increase your body's ability to heal, find out your blood type and eat for your blood type. You will be amazed at how healthy your body will become and how clear you'll be thinking.

Healers are empathic as well, so it does not surprise me that you are feeling the way you are feeling. The chemicals are a big problem for your body. They are keeping you from functioning; even more than the problems that started you on your chemical use.

I help others as much as possible. If you find yourself not caring about things you once loved, maybe it is time to try somethings else.

Never be afraid of change. It is what shapes us, it is the thing that makes us strong and able to carry on in the face of adversity.

You are a strong spirit that was crushed by someone you trusted with all of your heart. It takes time to recover from something like that; but do not lose yourself in the sorrow of it all. Sitting alone and dwelling is the worst thing a human can.

I know where you are coming from, and I can tell you that life continues. Never put up with anyone touching you in a manner you dislike.

Even from the so called authorities.

You have rights. Get informed. GCN Live.com

You can tell a lot about a person's character based on how they react to a situation.

You are strong and the things you are doing to yourself are making you weak. Detoxify your body, get out to meet people, and get on with your wonderful life.

I am here anytime you need me.

Sincerely,

Docktor Tammy

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I have been overweight my whole life. Back in high school I dropped 40 pounds. I gained it all back and then some. I have been trying to watch what i eat but with working crazy shifts its hard. I also have been working out to turbo jam, but to me it gets boring east. I thought about joining a gym, I did in the past and didnt feel it was working, but then again it was too big of a gym and i just got on the ellipitical. I would like to lose 50 pounds atleast before summer. I also have a problem with being hungry a lot and didnt know if i should check into a appetite suppresser?

Dear working out/losing weight,

Your story is reminiscent of mine. I was a whopping 415 pounds after giving birth to my first child 12 years ago. I too had a 'plump' childhood.

Throughout my life I have tried to change my diet in order to lose wieght. Only one worked.

I almost died finding it too, so I know it works to cure diabetes, weight problems, bad body odor, insomnia, restless leg syndrome, heartburn, acid reflux, and a slew of other health problems.

However, the information I give you is not meant to cure or claim to cure. I just said it cured my problems.

This diet will bring you to your ideal body wieght without exercise, as long as you stick to it with strict adhereance.

Here is a link to help you figure out what foods are medicine for your blood type and what foods will kill your blood type.

http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html#Caucasian

In a nutshell, all foods, organic, natural, and GMO foods have a basic DNA structure. You also have a basic DNA structure. IN each DNA structure exists lectins. When two lectins get together, they react.

If they are good for each other the body maintains a healthy metabolism, immune system, and functions at its best. When the two structures are incompatible, they kill one another.

For example: When you consume a food that has a lectin structure not compatible with yours, your body spends the next 12 to 18 hours being attacked and attacking back. The effects include water retention, slow metabolism, and inhibited insulin production.

Look at the main diet in this nation and others.

How many unhealthy foods are labeled healthy, like tomatoes, corn, and chicken?

The main foods in my house were corn, chicken, and tomatoes. I was fat at 8 yeas old.

My research shows me that I was being killed from the inside out all my childhood and early adulthood. Millions are being led to believe that these and other foods are healthy.

The information put out by experts working on behalf of Corporations or Government organizations is often the opposite of the truth. The United States has the highest death rate from diabetes, obesity, heart disease, and cancer.

Start your search with this link. I have nothing to gain from you visiting it, so save it on your browser bar and consult it often. I take mine to stor with me when I shop for foods.

Good Luck. Call on me if you need. I also do tarot readings and advice from a higher wisdom.

Be safe, take care.

Sincerely,
Doktor Tammy

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Hello, my friend is 21 years old and has constant "high school" drama in her life. She is constantly getting into love triangles. She is constantly mopey. She is also a parent and although she is a good mother when she is with her child, i don't think she spends enough time with him because she is always going out. Should i confront my friend about her immaturity? If so how should i?

Dear 'immature friend',

Honesty is always the best policy, even when it hurts someone you love.

You are out growing this relationship. Your friend is not mature enough, or responsible enough to handle being an adult. Her child, unfortunately, is and will suffer as a result.

The only thing you can do is voice your concerns to your friend and hope she does not resent you.

If I were in you shoes I would calmly explain to her what you see happening and that it is time she cut out the childish BS. She is responsible for what kind of person her child will be when it gets older. If she is acting like this, she is teaching her child that is normal behavior, and the child may grow up repeating the cycle.

If this behavior is not ok with you and you cannot stand to be around it, then leave. Stop talking to her. When the drama starts, you leave and have nothing to do with it. If you choose to listen to her stories and indulge her behavior, then you are enabling her. Anytime she comes to you for support in these times, turn her away. Be real friend and help her grow up.

In fact, you can help her grow up by showing her these videos and then doing further research on your own. Both of you need to be prepared for what it to come.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sebVLGXydTM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIry0XCJ_Z8&feature=related

http://www.brucewood.net/wmi/caym.php

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkiH-JrSXcs&feature=related

I hope that I helped out in some way. It is always hard to choose the right course of action when dealing with loved ones. So be careful. Her reaction might be anything, so tread lightly.

Stay Safe during this time ---> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOD934BhNEs&feature=related.

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15/f

Hi guys! So, since wednesday I have been experiencing a series of similar dreams. They have all been drastically different, but revolved around the two same things--a guy I have never met and a strange forest.

The first of the series was set in the Victorian era. He was poor while I lived wealthy. I would escape to this forest to get away from my suitor. In the forest I met this guy--gorgeous. He had black hair and brilliantly green eyes. Those were the first thing I captured about him.

The next night, my dream took place in Rome, Italy. I lived in a small cottage style home and he was the new guy in town. Every day we would run off into a similar forest.

Basically, every night would be about him and me finding a way to be together in those woods. The part that gets me is that each time we go in for our first kiss, I wake up in a cold sweat. I don't know what to make out of it. The guy in my dreams seems so familiar, like I've known him for my entire life, even longer, but I know I've never met him before. Does anyone have any advice on this? Any similar experiences?

Dear 'Dreams of a guy I've never met?',

I know your question is a few months old, but I noticed that only one person answered.

I am very familiar with dreams and how they affect our emotions.

If I were you I would look into dream interpretations.

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

Our sub-conscience mind knows more than our conscience mind, and tries to communicate with us through dreams. It is the only way our sub-conscience mind knows how to communicate with our conscience mind.

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreaminformation/dreamtypes/recurringdreams.htm

It is the advice of this Doktor that you read about what dreams represent through dream interpretations and learn about the meaning of re-occurring dreams.

I know all to well the power of dreams. Mine tell me of what is to come in the years ahead. It is not pretty at first. So it is important for you to know as much as possible about your dream gift.

Another possibility is that you entered the Underworld and he is your contact there. I am just now starting to look into the pagan beliefs of the Underworld and Feary Realms. From what I understand, they contact us through dreams, vivid dreams, and often re-occurring too. It is important for you to talk to him the next time you see him and ask him what his message is. If he talks in riddles, he is no contact, but a GOD. Which is rare, and from what I understand, a sexual encounter is initiation to the Underworld.

Your dreams sounds an awful lot like what I am reading about. I am reading a book called The Power Within The Land by RJ Stewart. A friend loaned me the book to see if I would be interested in his religion.

Truthfully, I am interested I all religions because I believe that there is power in knowledge and I intend to seek out as much knowledge as possible.

http://www.rjstewart.net/land-power.htm

I am always here for you, just ask. Good Luck!!

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17/m
just so everyone understands, i am deeply spiritual in an occoultic or light-worker manner.
There are two main people i am torn between as leaders of two different groups, one from out the other. One in my original group is my teacher, Becca, and the other one has been a second mom and a confidant in the past, Summer.
These groups arent neccessarilly the same as cliques but psychic circles. Becca and summer have been at eachothers throats lately. Its for the same reasons as it has been Becca vs. whoever in the group. I left beccas group thinking it was time to do so, and joined Summers group. A sin against Beccas group. But then i started to feel closer to becca, i started praying for her and the group. I even started drawing wolves (symbolic to her as it part of her nickname. I felt a mix of emotions, thinking i have headed in the wrong direction. I have saved a chat log of summer, myself and a guy named Daniel talking and planing on the new group. Days later when i returned to the old group I had discovered Daniel had leaked some sort of information to Becca, and another person of leadership had enquired information from me so I had to show him the chat logs. I had intended to hide it but figured if Becca knew, it might bring eople closer together and know the true nature of those who left.
Some people in Beccas group are untrusting of the intentions of others. While I tried to leave with a whisper instead of a bang, a bang was percieved.
So i have lost a "mther" and one of my better friends, Daniel, is paranoid of me.
Im really not sure whats up with me because my heads been in a haze and my heart as well.
Along with my normal levels of impulsive insanity this is the worst display. Which impulsivenss is not my ownly insanity. Ive been contemplating suicide.

please do not condemn me as a sinner, i do that enough to myself.

Dear ‘Occultic light worker contemplating suicide HELP?’

It is a sad day when an earthly spirit like yourself is devastated into thinking about killing yourself. A drastic end to such a beautiful light. The eternal sleep is not for you, your journey and life’s mission is not yet fulfilled.

It is time you went your own way. In our lives we have teachers, parents, and walk throughs that teach us what we need to know at that time in our lives and then move on. You have learned all you can from Becca and Summer. It is time for you to seek out a new teacher. Someone who can teach you what the others have not. If you cannot find a teacher, then seek out the information and teach yourself.

I am a powerful Empath and I can tell you from experience, as a Psychic, Becca is an Energy Vampire. Most of the time, people like Becca do not even realize they are Vampires. This would explain your confusion, haziness, and wanting to draw symbols representing her. Summer seems harmless and uncontrolling, but Becca is draining your essence, controlling your moods, and causing you serious turmoil. It would be better for you to limit your exposure to Becca, and get some psychic protection from her to block her energies. This is not your fault, you are deeply spiritual and that leaves you open for intentional and unintentional psychic attacks.

Besides, if Becca was a true spiritual being, she would encourage your spiritual growth, even if it meant that you were leaving her group.

As for the logs, you showed them, told the truth, and moved on. However, it is Daniel that you should be wary of here. Daniel cannot be trusted. He has betrayed you and caused big problems. The log situation was his fault, not yours. He did not have to mention anything about the subject. So how did it get brought up? Did he offer the information? If so, what are his motives for this?

I would never condemn anyone for being a sinner when that other being knows not what their sin is. Do you know what your sin is and how you got it? That is right, I said IT.

This link will set you free my love.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sebVLGXydTM

Watch all of the series from this video. This will give you a deeper spiritual understanding of the world at large.

It is the Advice of this Doktor that you seek out new life and new civilizations, and to boldly go where you have never gone before. It is time for you to say good bye to the groups, and set an example as someone who seeks the truth in the light and does not mess around with the silly drama, backstabbing, lying, and manipulation. If you are focused on this, you cannot be focused on spiritual health. You have learned all that you can learn from the groups you are with, so move on, and continue to enlighten yourself through self exploration. Most of the time, we need teachers to help us along, but there comes a time when we must move on and learn things for ourselves.

Nothing prepares us like real life education.

Stay awake and stay safe.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw

I am here anytime you need me. Just ask. Good Luck!

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