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i was talking on my cell to a boy i'm not allowed to date (but am dating anyway) and my parents now have the call records and i'm afraid they're going to call him, and find out i've been seeing him against their wishes. should i tell the truth (and end up grounded until i'm 60) or say it's someone else? i have no clue what to do next? help! (link)
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Before they can call and find out what's going on tell them the truth, not only will it make you feel releived but it will gain you their trust. If after that the still don't want you to see him press the fact to your parents that you will see him no matter what, whether it be at school or the town social they can't stop you (they can't watch you 24 hours a day). Once they see that you won't give up on him they should understand that its your desicion and not theirs.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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what are some turn-on's that guys like about girls, and what are some turn-offs that guys don't like about girls.
(does that make sense???)
thx, much appriciated (link)
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Many guys find a healthy woman extremely attractive (ie. Lots of curves, eats right-not over doing it-,physically active, ect.) dimples often create a spark of interest. The way a woman moves, often things so small as a perfume he likes or an outfit that fits nice and snug will be enough for him. Some turn-offs: Bad hygeine, constant mocking or teasing, baggy cloths (deppending on the person).
Hope I could help o^-^o
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ia sked him today if that was him really online last night and he told me yea and like smiled and then i walked away and looked back a nd he did the signal like come herelike with his hadn and then the teacher made him go in the roomand then me and my friend were going to go back into the roomand we were near the lockersand he walked out and looked and then walked away
theres this 1 boy who always stares at me & sometimes looks away he stares me in the eyes
and also only talks to me online .. today i first talked to him and i asked him if it was really him online last night he said yeah and like smiled /got all happy type..lol and then i looked back and he put his hand up like come here or something and i kept on walking idk who he ment it to i thought it was one of his friends or something but there was no1 infront of me.. then he was in the same class as me & i came from a different class and i was outside near the lockers he came out and looked and then went back in the room he also has a gf .. but she lives like an hour away from here. the other day (friday) he did that nod thing i asked him online what it meant he said it meant hey .. hes been with his gf since june 05 .. also at lunch time he stands up and looks over at my table he said when he nodded to me i turned my head i didnt realize that he nodded to me.he also seems to follow me around school . alot of kids are acting differnt to me so i dont know why.he talks to his bestfriend in the same class as me and talks about other girls to like get me jealous what could he be trying to do ? and he talks about cars and goes online w/ them and looks at cars and girls . my 2 bestfriends think that he likes me .and in gym class he got out .... he was folding his arms like he was mad & staring at me .. then my friend was trying to take pictures of me & i blocked her cellphone with my hand and yelled no he looked at me .. do you think he like sme?He also looks me in the eye.i think hes scared to takl to me because of the girlfriend even though she lives so far away.first of all i asked if his gf was online and he said nope and i said o that sucks and he said that shes a bitch sometimes and gets on my nerves then i said o why are u still iwth her and he said bc i love her and its only sometimes and i said o he said yup (link)
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if he has a gf then he's already taken. He even told you, via net, that he loves her. Sure they have relationship problems but thats only natural. Try getting closer to him but respect his personal space and if something happens between him and his gf be there to comfort him. Hope I helped o^-^o
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oaky so im dating this guy for what seems like the 20th time.im not telling anyone bcz all of my friends hate him. but i also have to decline on dates bcz im secretly involved. btw...im 14 and hes 16.well the story on him is he told a bunch of his football buddies just how intimate we had gotten. but i know he has changed bcz we have been going out again for about a month. but he didnt ask for sex once. so that is a big improvement on his part...bcz believe me...he is a class A pig. but i really like him. like...almost love. he's amazing. and im not shallow. i dont look for abercrombie models. hes kinda a big kid. but sweet as candy. very wealthy.not gonna lie. he does so much for me. his car is amazing. lol. and he treats me like a princess.okay...back to it. should i tell my friends and pray for the best that i know i wont get..risk losing all of my friends for someone that i could quite possibly marry?(ya i know fat chance) i love him. he loves me. my friends should support me right?or am i just a lost cause and i should cut all of my hair off drop out and be home schooled? btw...i wont really go to those extremes. lol (link)
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If you feel that you really "love" this guy then show your friends that you've made up your mind. A good friend only wants whats best for you. If they see that your really happy with this guy then it shouldn't be a problem. You said that he's "improving", that's usually a good sign meaning he'd be willing to change for you. So if he makes you happy and you love him then let your friends know and (not meaning to be mean) if they object you'll know they're not that great of friends. o^-^o Hope I could help
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I was really living the life! Queen of the whole 1st year high schoolers was never hard to get used to. I was the most popularest girl in the whole grade, but only because I was head cheerleader, and ofcourse like every fairytale I had the star player on the football team, the most popularest, cutest guy in the whole grade, as MY boyfriend! Life could not get better! My dad had a great job so I was what you would call "Filthy Rich", and lived in a huge house!
Then one day my very rich dad lost his very "rich paying" job. We moved into a room in an apartment room, and I had to quit the cheer squad because we could not even pay the $80 fee. Then after that the roomer got around that I was now poor, and my boyfriend dumped me, which meant my popularity went buh-bye! Soon after that, my daddy got a call from his job asking for him back, so we got our house back and I re-joined the cheer swuad and the roomer went around and my ex-boyfriend asked me out. I said to him we can try. So I am going out with him on the Tuesday after X-mas, and I'm going to see if he really likes me or my popularity! But this guy is SOOOO cute, popular, and romantic! Should I dump him or take back my role, i mean after all, he is the MAJOR CRUSH of the whole grade and he likes ME out of 56 other girls! What should I do? (link)
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The others gave you some pretty good advice so I'm gonna try not to repeat what they've said. This guy sounds like the typical hollywood football player which, in most cases, won't ever know how to love. Sure he's in his "A" game and has everyone in love with him. But think of this, how often do those people make it in the "real world"? Do you think that he is "best" for you? Think about how he treated you and how, if circumstances are right, he might treat you in the future and make the discission whether he is right for "you". o^-^o hope I could help.
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So there's this guy that's 29 and I'm really attracted to him, both physically and emotionally. We can talk for long periods of time without getting bored and we talk about anything and everything. He's funny, charming, polite, smart, handsome, responsible, everything I look for in a guy. We get along really well and seem to really click. We have fun doing whatever we do. The thing is, I'm 18. I think that's the only thing that's standing in the way of us taking this a step further. I personally don't have a problem with the age difference, but I think he does. What should I do? I really like him and can honestly say that I'm falling in love with him. (link)
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If you feel that your attracted to him you should tell him how you feel. Nothing in the rule book says you can't date younger women if they're 18 or over. Find out how he feels about the idea by jokingly suggesting it to him and if he's serious then go for it. o^-^o Hope I could help.
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so i'm not sure what to do about hair removal down there, do guys like it when it's all shaved? or just a little? a friend of mine told me she got waxed in SHAPES! like a heart or a diamond? i don't get it, can someone please give me tips and explain, i'm nervous about this (link)
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It all depends on who your trying to please. In my opinion a lot of guys don't like too much hair, the shapes can be fun. some guys however like hair and it doesnt really bother them because it has a more natural look. o^-^o hope i helped
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I had this dream.. i kinda forget alot what happened but i remember i was in this house and played like a video game, and then i was stuck in the game and couldnt get out until i beat it. i forget all what happened in the game and such, but after i was with this boy.. like my cousin or something, and we had this like attraction to each other and brought each other closer and closer.. and i wrapped my arms around him, and we were soo close to kissing, but we didnt.. after that i was so caught in the moment i felt like tense or something, lol. but yeah.. does anyone know the meaning of this?? (link)
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This dream could mean a number of different things. You may feel strongly about your cousin or have a strong bond with him/her and want to strengthen that bond. It could also be your imagination presenting the possibilities to you in a dream, showing you what it might feel like so you wouldn't have to do it in real life. people go through various steps throughout there lives, when they move to a new step they often have dreams that may scare them and it is possible that you have moved onto another step. Hope I could help o^-^o
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okay this is going to be kinda long to jsut bear with me. Me and my best friend have been messing around with this boy i like for the longest time. We have stuck notes in his locker....and money. My friend made him a myspace and ws tlkaing to all of his frends and then he found out it was us. ALL OF IT. Then we decided to try to see if we could get close enought o get a pictures of him...well he kinda saw us with that one to. Now we have found out that he has a myspace but it is set to private so we made up this girl named brooke and invited him. I was only wanting to see his profile but my friend want to talk to him so that is exactly what she did. NOw we have his aim...his phone number and we know where he lives.THe only problem is he has told us bunch of personal stuff and his dad just died and he is really close to brooke. he is telling her that he love her. I've talked to him a little over the internet as brooke but now everytime i think about it i relize how worng it is and i want out of the whole situation but the only thing is that no matter what i do i'll still hear about what they talked about over the internet from my friend and that makes me interested in what he says but i know that IF he ever finds out it was really me and her it would kill him. I don't know what to do because even if i haven't done hardly anyhting my name is still in it and my freind would probably make sure that it is because she doesn't want it dumped all on her .....which it really isd ALL her. HELP!! (link)
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This whole thing can go 2 ways depending on how both of your personalities are. The first way, if he is forgiving and you are brave, go to him and confront him, tell him how you feel about him and allow him to tell you how he feels. Or if you don't feel confident about telling him then do what queenhearts suggested, avoid the entire thing and get close to him personally. Hope I could help o^-^o
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15/f
okay..well there's this guy that i like..and he likes me back..
we talk to eachother on the phone sometimes..and when we do we talk for hours at a time..its the same when i see him in person.. i guess we're getting pretty close..
i havn't been kissed before. but i know he has before.. So i'm kind of afraid that if we ever do kiss..i'll turn out to be a wicked bad kisser.. and then he'll like..dump me or something.
i guess where this question is going.. is what do i do when i do kiss? (link)
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When you kiss someone try to stay as calm as possible. Make sure not to tense all the muscles in your face and just stay relaxed. Run your fingers through his hair at the back of his head and every once in a while pull back a little and give a small smile. When he asks "what?" respond with "nothing" and take your hand on his head and slowly bring it forward. As you do this start to close your eyes. Make sure your aim is on, theres nothing more embarrasing for you than to open your eyes kissing his eye or nose.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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the only good thing in my like right now are my friends and my crush. those are the thigs that are keeping me alive right now. me and my parents fight constantly and im just sick of it. they make me feel like im worthless and stupid. ive been cutting for the past 2 years and my parents dont know that and im starting to smoke and both of those arent helping, everyone said it would but it doesnt, it just makes things worse and now i just dont know what to do. i almost ran away like 3 times and my relationship with my parents is worse. the other day they were talking and my mom said to my dad "why the hell did we have kids?!" so that made me feel even worse. and now i just wanna give up cuz ive tried so hard to be a good girl and be nice to everyone but i just screw up everything. so if u can help me in any way, i would appreciate it. (link)
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First off, smoking will only make things worse. Hurting yourself wont solve anything at all. You need to sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel, tell them that you do not like it when you fight with them. Try not to bring up the cutting or smoking cuz that'll only make things worse but tell them how you feel in a calm voice and keep a straight face while maintaining eye contact to let them know that your serious. Hope i helped o^-^o
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k, so theres this guy and I like him sooo much, and i really want him to be my boyfriend. But the problem is that hes in a different grade, and the only time i see him is at lunch. but like the only reason i know him is because at luch, me and my friend started hanging out with her boyfriend(her boyfriend is My crushes best friend, so hes there) so its just the four of us, so i only get to have a group conversation with him. And I dont see him that much.
But I like him Sooooooooooooooooooo much, and i just really want a boyfriend, because i always have to watch my friend cuddle and hold hands with her boyfrined, and its soo depressing because i wish that its me and my crush. Plus, i think he thinks im weird. but my freind thinks he likes me for some odd reason, even though he shows no signs. I think shes just trying to make me feel better.
I dont even know how to flirt with him, because of the situation im in. Please help
i need to know how i can let him knowd i like him without telling him to his face. how should i flirt with him? i need help, bad.
GUYS: tell me how you like a girl to flirt with you, and what you look for in a girl.
GIRLS: tell me what you would do in this situation. Also, any flirting tips you may have for me would help, and which ways work best for you.
PLEASE HELP ME. IM LIKE IN LOVE WITH HIM, AND ILL GO CRAZY IF I HAVE TO STAND BEING JUST FRIENDS ANY LONGER (link)
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If you have IM: get your friend to give you her bfs email then ask him what his friend thinks of you. If the answer is the one you are looking for then approach the guy you like and ask him if her will walk with you, then bring up the subject with him jokingly at first then if her plays into it and does tell you he likes you then he should ask you out.
If you want to do it all in person: Go up to him and ask him if he will walk with you, take him somewhere where there are not many people and ask him to tell you haw he really feels about you. Tell him how you feel about him. If all goes according then he will ask you out.
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ok so my mom .. does not agree with me geting a lip peircing.. but i .. REALLY REALLY want one and have for the past few years and obviously i need her aprovil to get it done she things its gross cause its a hole and she thinks its grose cause its around the mouth but i would love to have one i put fake ones in all the time but i want permanemt and i wouldnt wear i fake one to school so how should i come about this.. how could i convince her what can i do ?
PLEASE HELP
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Sit your mom down and have a conversation somewhere private with just the two of you so that no one else interferes. Explain to your mother just how much you want this. Let her explain to you what the concequences are and tell her that u r willing to accept anything bad that may happen that way she is not responsible. hope I helped o^-^o
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What does it mean when a guy and girl have sex or she performs oral on him and he finishes fast because he says that he is "very excited" && we was gunna do it a second time but he couldnt get hard.
Does that mean anything?
Is there anyway that i can get it hard again?I really didnt do anything, i just sat there soo maybe i shoulda tried. But anyways, what does it mean?
Thankss (link)
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when im with my girlgriend and she wants to go again, she usually just plays around with me and sometimes tries with her mouth. After about 5 minutes just play around and you should be able to get him erect through oral in about another 5 minutes. But when he does get hard right after orgasm you need to be quick to get him inside of you otherwise he'll go soft.
Hope I helped. o^.^o
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Thsi question is in my head for years now: is final fantasy a show? there's a game but people make music videos of it and in some videos have words on the bottom like subtitles so I wonder if it's a show too and they made it into a game? If there is a show can you give me a website to watch or download it? thanks! (link)
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Final Fantasy has a number of games, 3 for NES, 6 for SNES, and 7 for playstation/ps2 (2 online) as well as 1 for gamecube. There are 2 movies, Final Fantasy: Spirits Within (can be found through p2p downloading programs or the use of torrents) and Final Fantasy: advent children (can be found through p2p downloading programs or the use of torrents). As well, there is a new Final Fantasy anime series out that links to FFAC (Final Fantasy: advent children) which can aslo be found through p2p downloading programs or the use of torrents.
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Help!!.
What are some great boy toys i can get my 16 year old boyfriend for Christmas?
any ideas..
guys..
just list stuff you have..or want.. or would love your gf to get you.. detail please!! i don't have a very open mind when it comes to boy stuff haha
thanks so much~ (link)
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If he wears body spray, u can always get him axe. They usually have different packages and some of them smell great. wut about headphones? does he listen to music, maybe a CD of his favourite band. Also, if he doesnt have a watch or has a beat up old one then u could always get him a new one.
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