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okay..well there's this guy that i like..and he likes me back..
we talk to eachother on the phone sometimes..and when we do we talk for hours at a time..its the same when i see him in person.. i guess we're getting pretty close..
i havn't been kissed before. but i know he has before.. So i'm kind of afraid that if we ever do kiss..i'll turn out to be a wicked bad kisser.. and then he'll like..dump me or something.
i guess where this question is going.. is what do i do when i do kiss?
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damn getaway01 almost got me a hardon
lol
well they are right on the perfect kiss
but for a first timer, you might be tryin that and mess up, and end up goin crazy and pullin his hair and stuff.
so for the first time
keep in simple
yall arent on a honeymoon or something
like the other person said
just keep your face very relaxed.
hardcore-making out is out of style so u dont have to worry about that. its just like dancing. when you dance, you follow your partners body/hips. follow their lips. softly.
basically
if you worry about it and TRY to do something, ull mess up.
if you stop worryiin about it, and let it just happen, you will be fine. i promise.
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honey, like i've told every other person i've responded to with this question...don't sweat it!! since it's your first, of course it is going to be a big deal and everything...but once it's over, the nervousness will go away! take me for instance...i had only been pecked on the lips till september *i just turned 17*. well when i got my first REAL bf i knew, because i asked, that he had some experience...actually a lot lol. our first kiss wasn't planned...it just, happened. and you just follow his lead, try not to spaz out, and you will actually be surprised at how easily it really is and that there is nothing to fear. and who knows, you might now be as bad as you think. me and my bf have been together for 3 months and the other day he asked me "ok you are a realllly good kisser like, your kisses just make me melt. how many guys were there before me?" so i said "none" and he is just convinced that it couldn't be "natural" or w/e...and i'm like, the most conservative girl you would ever meet. just add your own personal touches here and there, play with his hair, maybe tease him with a gentle tug of the lip...you'll do fine!! hope i helped!!
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When you kiss someone try to stay as calm as possible. Make sure not to tense all the muscles in your face and just stay relaxed. Run your fingers through his hair at the back of his head and every once in a while pull back a little and give a small smile. When he asks "what?" respond with "nothing" and take your hand on his head and slowly bring it forward. As you do this start to close your eyes. Make sure your aim is on, theres nothing more embarrasing for you than to open your eyes kissing his eye or nose.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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