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I am a nice funny person. I love to swim and dance, and i love to help people. I like hanging out wiht my friends and goin out on friday nights and stayin out late! Im all about havin fun!! Ask me for help when you need it. I will be happy to answer your questions. I love answering questions about relationships, so ask me about that!
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Okay i used to be REALLY good at school, but now my last report card i got four C's and one D. Wich is really bad for me! i got ONE A and that was in gym! I'm trying to get into The School Of Proforming Arts (a highschool) and you need amazing Grades to get there! How do i get good grades with still being able to hang out with my friends enough?
seperate your time, a time for doing your work, and for doing homework. Maybe you shouldnt go out on the weekday to much and concentrate on your school work. Then friday nights and saturdays can be your friends days. Hope i helped! By the way, its wat i do!
hi, i'm new to this subject, how often do you recommend changing a tampon? and is it okay for ppl who just got their 'aunt flow' visit for the first time recently to wear them? thanks
well it should say on the box, but i think its like 6 hours..hope i helped! also..dont forget to take them out b4 you go to bed, use a pad at that time.
I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!
well some of the stores with the hottest clothes are like, abercrombie, holister, pacsun, aeropostle, dkny, n e way....you dont have to go to these stores to find these brands, sometimes you can find great deals at tj max, marshals, or even platoes closet, which is a store that sells used clothing from all those stores! Hope I helped!
heres my problem. whenever i start to like a guy, i get really excited about it and tell ALL of my friends. then it usually turns out that the guy doesnt like me and ive been humiliated in fron of my friends. how can i keep my love life to myself?
maybe if you dont think about him a lot, you wont bring him up. or dont talk about things that would make you bringhim up. Instead right your feelings in a notebook or something. this happenes to me all the time. Stinks huh. Hope i helped!
O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.
ok well first off im not a guy sorry, but i am goign through the same thing! you know, guys at this age are really shy and get to nervous. Most girls dont even get bf's until they are probabibly 15-16. so dont worry at all. Who ever is telling you that you arent pretty or smart, are just tryin to make themselves feel better because they arent as great as you. Hope i Helped!
I have a ferret. He is so cute and I love him to bits. He's about 10 months old now, but all he likes to eat is his ferret food! He won't eat chicken or anything else! Should he be eating a more varied diet, other than his ferret food? If so, how do I get him to accept new foods?
i dont reall yknow about wat ferrets eat, but i would start mixing in other food with his ferret food, and keep adding more and more of the new food until you dont put any ferret food in. Hope i helped!
hi and happy valentines day. okay now to my question, its kind of weird but it seems like alot of things make me laugh, but i dont actually..laugh. like the only thing that made me go HAHA was yesterday when i saw a penguin smack another penguin into ice and that was hardly real laugh. the most il do is a "hmph", or a "heh" if you know what i mean? i want to laugh, and i feel it coming, but i just cant get a full hearty laugh!! and also if i try to laugh at something funny, i'll just make the little sound thing when youre out of breath and you still want to laugh and you sound like your having little qiest hiccups or your choking on something, right? okay this questions weird and confusing, as am i.so basically i cant get a real laugh when i want to and when somethings funny to me. someone help?!
Everyone had there own kinds of laughs. I mean i dont think you can really control the way you laugh. I dont thin you can actually do anything to make yourself laugh....im sorry i couldnt really help....
i finally got rid of my acne problem but now its like i have small not even like touchable bumbs and it looks like i still have acne what can i do about this?
Well maybe you can put on some coverup....powder..Dont worry to much about it, im sure it will go away. But if it doesnt and it gets worse, maybe you should go to thedoctor and see what it is....maybe whatever your using as acne treatment is making you break out. Wash your face in the morning and at night with soap and water. Hope i helped!
all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do
Talk to your friends and say that you guys need some girls night out nights.....and only girls! Hang out at the mall, or the movies....not guys! Tell them that you dont want to be left out just because your not in a relationship. Dont make it seem like they should break up with their bf's, but make it clear that for a friendship to work, friends need to spend time together, and guys shouldnt come between that. Guys wil always be there, but true friends only come around once. Hope i helped!
Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).
Well you should definatly break up with Justin. I mean, if our going out with a guy even though you dont like him, thats hurting the other guy. Your not being true to him. Also, its not fair to him that your tryin to get with a different guy at the same time your with justin. You can try to get with Micheal, but if he doesnt like you, theres a possibility nothing will change his opinion. But hey, why not try! Hope i helped!
So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes
I wouldnt worry about it, i mean its Valentines day! Plus your just telling him how you feel. If you think your wrong for doing that....then your not trusting your own self. If he doesnt like you, so wat.....find someone better. Hope i helped!
i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?
You can grow them out so like they are a little longer, that always looks pretty...sorry thats all i have on that, i just grew mine out! Hope i helped!
ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?
I just think hes overly excited, i mean he wasnt like that before was he?? You got him a nice gift that he obviously wanted and now he just wants to play it! I mean havent you ever been like this when YOU got something new you always wanted!!?! But i see were your coming from, it IS valentines day....Maybe you should tell him you felt bad that you guys didnt hang out on this special day. But i wouldnt dump him for just this. Hope i helped!
This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
OH this is a hard one.....who hasn't this happened too!?!? But i think the numbe rone think you CANT do is going around screaming "i do like him," it just makes people NOT believe you even more. I would just ignor any coments people make, and the rumor will die off. You can try flirting with a new guy, and if you get a boyfriend, no one will have a reason to believe you like this other guy. Hope i helped! And dont worry the rumor will pass!
how do you make people want to be around you all the time?
Be nice to them, and be funny. Well mostly just be yourself! If people dont want to be around you because of who you are, then they arent worth your time! Dont try to be someone your not just to have certain people like you. Hope i helped!
Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him!
Try going out more with your friends, to the movies, mall, dance clubs, w/e and try to have fun! You are bound to find some cute guys in all those places. So Flirt! Soon you will be over that guy. I know you feel horrible, but later he will realize wat a jerk he was to break up with you, and the only one who will feel bad is him. Dont show him that you depressed. Show him your ok with what he did and that your gonna have MORE fun now. You will be fine, just dont think about him so much. If he doesnt think your good enough for him...then hes not good enough for you. Hope i helped!!
Everyone sayd first loves never die well i believe that.. I met my first love when i was 12 and i haven't forgot about him since im 17 now ! Everytime i date a different guy all i think about is him.. When i was 15 we started dating again.. But his parents made us break up because he was too old for me or so they said..Anywayz now i haven't seen him since and i can't stop thinking about him ! What should i do because i don't have his # or address??
You will never forget your first love....its like a rule. But you need to try and realize that you need to move on. If you 2 are meant to be then you will meet up one day when you least expect it. If you really need to talk to him, try looking for his phone number and address on the internet or something. ONne day you will find someone who you will love even more then this guy, or maybe this guy is the one, and you'll see that later. But for now.....try to get to know other guys. Hope i helped!
I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused))
Well do what a girl would normally do in this case of liking a guy. Talk to him! Flirt! I mean it should be hard for you since your already friends. It also doesnt matter if hes a little younger. Maybe start doin stuff like hanging out one on one, like going to the mall together or the movies. He will prob realize he likes doinf that, and will like you in that way too. Make it clear to him. Whats beter then being good friends with a guy, and going out with him at the same time! He will see that too. Hope i helped!
Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5
Talk to her, show her you are a fun guy and that you are interested in her. Dont try to steal her, but just let her know that you are there. Become friends with her. Also if and prob when she and her bf break up, dont go and ask her out right away....that would seem desperate. Wait a few days to a week before asking. If you let her know you were interested before hand, and shes interested back.....she will wait for you. Hope i helped!
i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering!
Well what if they think YOU arent inviting them to do stuff....Maybe you should one day be like "hey guys we never do anything together, lets go out." If you all go out and have fun, im sure they will invite you to go out with them more. However if they dont invite you out still....then confront them. Tell them that you really like hanging out with them at school, but you feel left out when they dont include you. Don't go sitting at a different lunch table ight away because your friends will think your betraying them or that your mad at them, and then it will be a big mess. So communicate with them. Hope i helped!