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My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.

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16 f
My best guy friend who I've known for three years is suddenly not talking to me.
he won't look at me or even talk to me. In the hallways when we walk near each other he'll look the other way and pretend like I was never there. It never use to be like this he's not those type of boys either he's really respectfull and diffrent I'd had to really screw him over for him to be doing this but that's just it ! I haven't done anything to upset him the last time we talked was on tuesday he said hi to me like we always do and then wednesday he started avoiding me and its been like this ever since I'm really confused I don't want to loose a good friend .

this probably doesn't help - but you need to talk to him.
ou don't have to confront the subject right away. just say hi like you normally do and ask if you want to hang out on *insert dasy here* and do *insert activty*.
he might just be having an off week. it might have something to do with school. like, his grade's could be stressing him out. or anything, for that matter.
or he could just be shy because he likes you. but thats jumping to conclusions.

pretty much, what i'm saying. is you're not gonna find anything out unless you do something about it.

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one of my best friends has a girlfriend that i think is fake. He wont answer any questions about her like if i say "How did you guys meet?" hell say "Bee quiet!" or if i say "I think i know her whats her last name?" hell say "NOne of your business shes form out of town". and you get the picture, i dont understand were really good friends. Also he hsant told any of his other friends about this. except me, so i dont know if hes lying or not. Because every time i bring her up, he either snaps at me, doesn't answer me, or changes the subject. Im really confused here. I know him, if he really had a girlfriend, everyone whould know about it!!
Tell me your theories

yeah.
i would probably start to think he was faking it too.

listen to what the person below me said: show no interest.
he will get tired of it eventually, and stop.

or if he's telling the truth, you'll meet her eventually.

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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

The Audition
All Time Low
We The Kings
Emery (yeah, atl, wtk, and em. are on tour with mayday parade).
Hellogoodbye
The Almost
Blink 182
A New Found Glory.

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ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her between them
it's been about 1 month that we have'nt been talking
and it's really awkward b/c we have the same friends
and i have 3 periods with her
and she's my only friend in that class
i don't know wat to do
b/c i'm sick and tired of dealing with her crap!!
and if you can give me any other advice besides making up with her that would help
b/c i doubt i will ever make up with her

i think you should still be friends with her.
maybe not BEST friends right off the bat.
but at least tell her why you've been mad at her.

it seems kind of stupid to end a bestfriendship or friendship over something that could've just been a bad day/week.

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what is the best way to lose 10 pounds fast in like one or two weeks?

well, i can't give you an EXACT meal plan. but i can give you tips.

- eat only healthy foods
- cut back on sodium
- drink 8 glasses of water a day
- workout at least 3-4x per week
- keep a book of what you eat.
- go to am-i-fat.org to find out what your BMI number should be.
- take a multivitamin
- eat at least 1400 calories per day
- NO soda
- NO junkfood in general
- do crunches while watching tv.
etc etc.


good luck =D

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good alternative music?

i like stuff like fall out boy, boys like girls, cartel, jacks mannequin, etc.

im sick of my music though. thanks!

my favorite alternatives are:

allister
mayday parade
sherwood
plain white t's
armor for sleep
all time low
hellogoodbye
a new found glory
set your goals
something corporate
sparks the rescue (they're a local band from new hampshire. find them on myspace) (nurse! nurse! is they're best song =D)
the track record
the almot
we the kings






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Did Zac Efron lip synce in the first High School Musical? Some people have said that he did but Im not sure. I know everyone lip syncs in the movie because of the dancing and all, but they had previously recorded the songs. I have heard the Andrew Seeley sings Zac's songs. Does anyone know what really happened? Id really like to see some websites about it too if it helps. Thanks!

yeah he did.

in the second one, he sung himself though.
same with hairspray. =D

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is it wrong to hang out with my best friends boy friend when she is not there even though we were friends before they started going out...

well, i don't think it would be. it depends on if your bestfriend is the jealous type or not.

ask her if its alright.

i don't think it would be a problem if you guys are just friends, and you don't have feelings for him.

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what is better...a zune or an ipod video.
its my birthday soon and i want a zune, the new one because i have alot of music and videos to put on it. but i have heard bad things about it and its battery. but the ipod video is more expensive right? what do you think is better to get basically?

i think it really depends on your general interest.

i've heard that zune's are more complicated. but the music space quality is excellent.

ipods are easier and less confusing to have.

personally, i like ipods better. but thats only because i'm more familiar with it.

try asking someone you know with a zune, or a person at the store you go too. they should have something to say about it.

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i'm looking for songs that are sad, about losing someone (a death), or about breaking up with someone, missing the relationship you had with someone, saying sorry, etc. slow songs would be best, preferably alternative music. thank you.

three cheers for five years by mayday parade (for breakup)

sonny by a new found glory (for death)

let this go by paramore (missed relationship)

speechless by self against city (for sayng sorry)

or saying sorry by hawthrone heights (for sorry)

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only answer this if you like stuff like boys like girls, wtk, powerspace, yellowcard, etc. not top 40 stuff. or rap.

thanks :]

racecars by allister ;
get over it by ok go ;
whats my age again? by blink 182 ;
i feel so by boxcar racer ;
baby come on by +44 ;
call it karma by silverstein ;

oh boy. there's lots i love =D

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what is a song about doing something that hurt so bad, and youre soo sorry for hurting the person, but it was the right thing to do for now, but you love them with all your heart and its hurting you too?

is there one?

preferably rock/alternative.
three days grace, seether, linkin park, all time low, etc...
or even like rascal flatts..
and preferably something newer.
thanks.
withlove.

just one of those things by meg & dia.

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im interested in getting into some soft music. so far, i like stuff like "1,2,3,4" by feist, "fidelity" by refina spektor. some stuff by cartel and jack johnson. what are some other things like this? some artists that play soft but modern music like this...

try randy newman.

he's the guy who sings "you've got a friend in me" on toy story =D

or the beatles.

blink 182

allister

meg & dia.

and now i'm just naming random music at the top of my head.
but anyway, there's a few good bands.

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Well , When they sing on the show .
Is there actually a band , If so what is it called ?
And what are the sings called ?

its not a real band, but you can find their music on myspace.

just type in cory in the house or something in the music search engine.

=D

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some songs like.
seven years.
tears don't fall.
and some other songs sound better in acoustic.
what are some other ones?

in acoustic versions..

three cheers for five years by mayday parade
don't be so hard by the audition
night drive by all american rejects
ohio is for lovers by hawthorne heights
face down by red jumpsuit apparatus
no it isn't by +44

on punk goes acustic 2, there's a lot of good acustic song.
featuring silverstein, the audition, all time low, mayday parade, anti-flag, etc.

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i have a HUGE problem with binging on food. i eat tons and tons at a time until i feel sick. how do i stop myself from doing this? i am trying to lose 10 pounds and could easily do it but this binging gets in the way..

well, like the person below me, try eating about 5 meals a day. but make them small, and filling.
for example: eggs, toast, fruit, carrots, salads, etc.

also, try this:
delay then decided. i got this from a book called "the diet for teenagers only". but basically;
lets just say that you're pulling up to macdonalds. you can smell that burger and you reallly want it, right? well, before you pull up. drive away. your stomach is most likely not really hungry. it just really wants that burger. driving away will make you forget about it. but if you still want it 10 minutes later, go for it.
its the same case for any other situation you might have.
but if you're not in a car, then try these:
- take a bath
- paint your fingernails
- drink a glass of water
- read a book or magazine.

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My best friend of 5 years is Tom. Tom has always been there for me, and he's a really great guy. I (being a girl) have developed some feelings for him. Tom liked me a year ago, but I sort of just ignored that; we were still close friends. This year things are different, and I feel like I want to be with him.

He likes this girl Amber who he met a couple months ago, but we are still close friends. I'm jealous,quite frankly. Tom asked Amber on a few dates, but she turned him down. They hooked up (just kissing) and presumabely she likes him? Yet they are not going out.

I want to tell Tom that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to tread on anyone's feet. Amber is not the nicest of girls, but either way, I'm not sure if it's the best idea to suddenly drop a bomb like that on him.

I almost feel like he's just with Amber because it's just someone to like, you know? Maybe if I told him how I feel, he'll realize he likes me too...

I have no clue what to do. :/


16/f

tell him how you feel before its too late.
you have nothing to loose, really.

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how can you boost your metabolism?

eat healthy. eat less calories. work out or take a short jog after every meal.

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16/f.

Hi, I was wondering if anyone knew any good diets that dancers go on. I'm a bit chubby and i wanna start to slim down and watch my weight. So, any tips or anything will be great!

Thanks!

i saw a video in health once about diets and such.
the doctors told a dancer in the movie to cut back on fat. watch what you eat. and only eat 30grams of fat per day. no more.

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well for myspace, i want a cute christmas song, but not one of the ones you generally hear like All I want for Christmas is You by mariah carey. is there any songs for christmas that anyone knows that are sung by well known arists like chris brown (this christmas) or are just really great or funny songs? please let me know ; thank you. =)

sleigh ride by relient k.

=D

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