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Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl? (link)
i no its long but real advice is....i read all those people telling you to tell your boyfriend everything that happened.i think you should wait on that.since none of us no your boyfriend we dont no if he is the type to be so jealous that he tells everybody you no.if he's like that then i dont think you should tell him unless you dont care if people no.over all....i think your bisexual...you like both gurls and boys if your feeling both of them. i say if you dont want the whole world to no your having sex with a gurl then stay with your boyfriend.and mess with her on the side.or just stop messing with her at all.
hope i helped


ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!! (link)
if you never told this boy that you like him then he might not no.i dont think you should give up until you no how he feels about you liking him.you have to try before you say you fail... hope i helped

Peace.Love.Unity~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~Love.Live.Life


i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.

~*~in need of help!!!!!!!!~*~ (link)
these situations happen alot.i think you should tell him that you like him. right now all he knows is that people think yall are a good couple.if he knew how you feel it might change his idea of everything.if i were him i would be like"yea i like her but she would never like me so why should i try".tell him and you both could be together.
you can email me at Denajah5@comcast.net so i can get some better details as to whats going on.

Love.Live.Life............Peace.Love.Unity


ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx (link)
its a female because only girl cats have tits

Hope i helped

Love.Live.Life.........Peace.Love.Unity


ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a week now and hes really shy. i highly doubt he's ever going to kiss me so i decided to make the move. but how? how should i kiss him? i rate 5's. hurry with the advice! (link)
really i think this guy is trying to take his time with the relationship.that shows how special he thinks you are.he doesnt want to move too fast.now on the other hand if your ready for a kiss you should talk to him.i would bring up on the phone how you think its time you guys kissed.then you could say something like the next time i see you were gonna kiss.say something like that.or you can play truth or dare and dare him to kiss you
hope i helped

Love.Live.Life...........Peace.Love.Unity


well, i've known this guy for about 2-3 years, and he's one of the sweetest guys i've ever known. i can talk to him about anything, and everything. and if i asked or wanted the world, he would give it to me. he means a lot to me, and i dont want to lose him. im not sure if he likes me, or is just being a good friend. he calls me hun, sweetheart, and his little princess. i know what you're probably thinking, whats the problem, why not just ask him out or something. well heres the problem... i'm sixteen (almost seventeen), and hes, twenty-three. is this right? i dont think my parents would have a problem with it, because they really like him. but im afraid my other friends/relatives will,because of such the difference in age. i really like him, and he's basically what i've been looking for. and i think im in love with him. can you please help me out? (link)
one of my saying is "age aint nothing but a number".you should always remember that.two little numbers dont compare to love.just follow your heart.oh and about all the haters,dont trip on them.at the end of the day its all about you and your boo
Holla at me
Love.Live.Life...............Peace.Love.Unity


do girls where condoms? (link)
ALL OF THESE PEOPLE ARE DUMP EXCEPT FOR A FEW.YES GIRLS DO HAVE CONDOMS.AND THEY DONT NEED A WENNER TO USE ONE.THERE ARE CONDOMS MADE FOR FEMALES AS WELL AS MALES

Love.Live.Life..............Peace.Love.Unity


anyone have any quotes about love and friendship they can give me? thx

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hey babes i got a couple 4 ya...

"if you love someone, put your name and theres in a circle because hearts can be broken but circles go on forever"

"Meeting you was destiny.Becoming your friend was choice.But falling in love with you was out of my control"

"Forget the times you walked by.Forget the times you made me cry.Forget the times you held my hand.Forget the sweet things if you can.I can no longer pretend.Ihave to remember your just a friend"
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you can also go to www.bestlovepoems.com it has not only love poems but everything else including quotes
hope i helped you put

Love.Live.Life..........Peace.Love.Unity


well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx! (link)
i have a saying for people who are not sure if they are gay or not..if your not willing to admit to your closes friends that your gay then your not...im not sure of your age but if your young then the saying doesnt go for you. if your young then its all about how you feel around girls. like if you feel akward hugging your friend goodbye or something like that then you might have feelings for them.or if you dont like boys at all then you might be gay.truthfully if i were in your situation i would just see where life took me. i wounldnt stress over it.if you need somemore answers i might have them for you
my username is denajah5

Love.Live.Life........Peace.Love.Unity


O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do? (link)
you really need to see a doctor it could be serious..its very important to check it out..and if you have a lump in it you might have breast cancer
please check it out immediatly

Love.Live.Life......Peace.Love.Unity

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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Hey girl,
first off i want to tell you that if you really like this boy you cant be afraid to let him know.im assuming your shy just like i used to be,but there is still other ways to tell him you like him.
you can write a letter. yes i know letters do seem kinda chessy but hey, your young and we all do chessy things sometimes. letters are a good idea because you can say whatever it is that your feeling.and its not like your in front of him spilling your guts so you wont be shy either.
there also is getting a friend to go up to him.you can tell your friend to ask him whatever it is that you want to know.and if your not ready to let him no that you like him, tell you friend to play if off like they dont know if you like him or not but there make be a potential relationship.
i hope i helped you in some sort of way.my username is Denajah5.check out my column whenever

Love.Live.Life........Peace.Love.Unity




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