hey everyone... Im just a girl that loves to give advice...and hopefully im good at it...dont get mad at what i say tho because all I do is tell the truth on how i feel
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland...the best state EVER
Occupation: middle school...it sucks majorly
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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Last Update: November 7, 2004
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what's good make-up that i can wear 4 going back to school? (link)
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what do you mean like a type or like different brands...if you mean types dont put on a lot like some eyeshadow lip gloss and blush is good (naturak is cute) but brands there are to many to narrow down to just a few
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hey i'm a 13 year old girl, and i'm really petite(and dont have that much of a chest lol), and i'm like 4 foot 11. evry time i try on jeans, theyre 2 baggy around mi butt.lol. where can i find jeans and shorts n stuff that (link)
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well you could order stuff from abercrombie online and it can be shipped to you...and its hard to believe that the closest is an hour away...a lot of other places carry small sizes...5*7*9 hollister i thinkk american eagle and elias those two im not sure of if your a 00 or 0 but i think all of them carry small sizes
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okay i hang out with a group of about 8 girls...its kinda split up, its kinda like me and my 3 other best friends, then them tha 4 other girls. between tha 2 groups in one, weve had our fights and up and downs. but now one of tha girls in my group is moving away in 2 weeks to Hawaii..then another girl in my group is getting soooooo close to tha other group..now its just me and my best friend and we feel left out and everything. please dont say that i needa have a talk with tha other girls, cause we are sick of even bringing it up cause they never listen and dont really care...next yr at school me and my best friend are gunna feel like losers cause its just gunna be me and her!!! helppp (link)
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try and be better friends with the other girls hopefully they will become better friends with you then they were before...and if the other girl thats getting close to the other group if really your good friend then shell try and bring you two into the group more
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okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies? (link)
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deffinitely take the risk it will be fun and if you dont take it you might not get another chance
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okay i went to this camp acouple weeks ago, and met this totallly awesome guy. we ended up liking eachother. we kept in touch for acouple 2 weeks after camp. but then i went away for another week, and when i came back we just never talked. its okay with me. im way into the "play hard to get" thing. but he finally texted me acouple nights ago. then he IMed me on aim the next day. and theres a church festival tomorrow that we are both going to [we goto the same church]...and i dont know how to make it obvious that im still interested cause im sooo used to not being tha one who makes the hints, etc cause i ALWAYS play hard to get...help =] (link)
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go and flirt with him make it obvious that you do still like him, go up and talk to HIM dont wait for him to talk to you...or call him and ask if he wants to go with you
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There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do? (link)
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Hmmm...im in the same sittuation but im not really obsessed...and the guy doesnt act like an ass...but you cant leave him behind and forget him...its not possible believe me ive tried...but if you think of the horrible things hes done maybe youll realize hes just an ass all the time not just some of the time...but if that doesnt work...try to find other guys and hopefully they will be all around always sweet nice guys
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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go for an older guy to make your esteem go up put on your favorite outfit do your makeup then go out with a few friends to the movies and start flirting with the older guys and im sure they will be checking you out
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im looking for a song for/ about my boyfriend that im dating..do u have any ideas? thx.. im 14 (link)
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i think you should do a song FOR your boyfriend it would be to hard for you to find one ABOUT him heres one song i think would be good its by dashboard confessionals and called hands down
Breathe in for luck breathe in so deep this air is blessed you share with me this
night is wild so calm and dull these hearts they race
from self control your legs are smooth
as they graze mine we're doing fine we're doing nothing at all.
My hopes are so high that your kiss might kill me.
So won't you kill me, so I die happy.
My heart is yours to fill or burst or break or bury or wear as jewelery,
which ever you prefer.
The words are hushed lets not get busted,
just lay entwined here undiscovered.
Safe from the earth and all the stupid questions..
"hey did you get some?" Man, that is so dumb.
Stay quiet, stay near, stay close they can't hear, so we can get some.
My hopes are so high that your kiss might kill me.
So won't you kill me, so I die happy. My
heart is yours to fill or burst or break or bury or wear as jewelery,
which ever you prefer.
Hands down this is the best day I can ever remember,
I'll always remember the sound of the stereo,
the dim of the soft lights,
the scent of your hair that you twirled in your fingers and
the time on the clock when we realized
it's so late and the walk that we shared together.
The street was wet and the gate was locked
so I jumped it and let you in and you stood at the door
with your hands on my waist and you kissed me,
but you meant it and I knew that you meant it,
that you meant it, that you meant it,
and I knew, that you meant it, that you meant it.
-> hopefully I helped and i hope you like the song
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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd- (link)
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i think you need to tell her that you want to be her friend and that you hope you still can be friends even if she has a new friend also
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idk what to do any more me and this guy went out for a while and i really liked him....but we lived like 20 mins away from eachother,so0o he did this to me 3 times...he keep sayin i dont know if we should still go out any more and by the 3 time he broke up with me.....he broke my heart 3 TIMES and he told me he still loved me and all that and i met another guy like a week ago that i started to really like and ((this other guy that broke my heart was goin to ask me out again and i felt so0o bad that i didnt love him any more and every ones like yellin at me b.c i wouldnt go back out with him ((even though he hurt me more then i hurt him)) what should i do to make him be my friend HELP ???? (link)
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tell him that he hurt you so many times and you dont want to feel that pain all over again but tell him that you think he is a good guy you just dont want to be more than friends and say that you hope you can atleast be friends nothing more
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ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp (link)
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it is not wrong to hink he is cute it would be wrong if it went farther than that just remember its better than a first cousin
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Okay, So I got this guy friend right, who is an ex we dated about 10 months. well now after we broke up and all I realized how much he really gets on my nerves, for one : he's 18 now, well I take that back he's 19! but anyways, He still hangs out with people my age and stuff, (i'm 15), he got mad when I told him he was immature, and he gets all offensive when I try to help him. In his online journal he called me "ms. bitch" and it was definately unneccisary. I just think he should find people his own age, and do stuff most 19 year olds would do. so what should I do? I want to be his friend and all, but I just think there's more for him... (link)
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you cant change a guy and you shouldnt try he doesnt want to be your friend you should just leave him alone just because you dated doesnt mean you have to be his friend after you broke up
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well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me (link)
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have you told your parents??? shes threatening you and stalking you you should tell your parents then figure out what to do from there
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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel? (link)
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yes you deffinitely did if you didnt then you would be keeping a secret from him and it would drive you crazy wondering if he likes you or not you took the first step which was good
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i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks (link)
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you shouldnt care what other people think of the guy you are going out with or will go out with as long as you like hime
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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do??? (link)
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think of a look that you love and go with it change your wardrobe room hair anything you want to go with that look...but you cant change a personality so pick a look you think will go with your personality
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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
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rate fives to who ever helps mee! (link)
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tell her you dont have friends that make you feel like that but dont be harsh girls tend to overreact say something like you shouldnt be so harsh to the people you want to be friends with im sorry but you kinda blew your chance with all the stuff you have said to me in the past
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How can you tell if your 'cherry is popped'? I'm a virgin but can't tampons sometimes do it? Sorry if it's under the wrong category. (link)
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no tampons can not take your virginity that is totally wrong
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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
Help! (link)
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you should wait till the morning to see if you got it if you didnt then go and swim if you did go and sit out by the pool and tell your friend why you cant swim
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My boyfriend dumped me before i went on vacation then a day after i left he went out with one of my friends. When i was talkin to him he told me he still cared about me and hes never loved anyone so much as he loved me..but when i asked him if we wud go out again he sed he didn't know and it sounded like he meant no..We also went out for a long time and were inlove really bad.What do you think i should do? Talk to him or forget him? (link)
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tell him hes an asshole cuz he lead you on its not right to tell someone that they love them so much and then tell them you wont go out with them...so to answer the question forget him
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