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ex boyfriend drama


Question Posted Thursday July 29 2004, 4:52 am

Okay, So I got this guy friend right, who is an ex we dated about 10 months. well now after we broke up and all I realized how much he really gets on my nerves, for one : he's 18 now, well I take that back he's 19! but anyways, He still hangs out with people my age and stuff, (i'm 15), he got mad when I told him he was immature, and he gets all offensive when I try to help him. In his online journal he called me "ms. bitch" and it was definately unneccisary. I just think he should find people his own age, and do stuff most 19 year olds would do. so what should I do? I want to be his friend and all, but I just think there's more for him...

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dancergal1024 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:56 am:
you cant change a guy and you shouldnt try he doesnt want to be your friend you should just leave him alone just because you dated doesnt mean you have to be his friend after you broke up

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lilsexyangel answered Thursday July 29 2004, 10:25 am:
I can see where ur gettin at listen he's just immature and doesn't know how to have a real relationship he's a jerk hunnie i know u wanna be friends with him and all but i guess that he just doesn't understand that ur better than he is and a whole lot more mature keep it up don't let him bring u down with him he's not worth it and plus another thing is that he's way to old for u , u need someone that will be kind to u and understand things like me but i'm a girl u need to find a boi that cares bout u more then anything well i hope this helps u out cuz i've been in a situation like this and i dumped him and also bout the " ms.bitch " part just ignore him becuz he's the bitch not u and plus ur way better and well i think that bout all well if u need to talk to me about anything just write back or e-mail me ok if u need to and if u don't know what my e-mail address just ask ill give it to u otay well buh byes 4 now hope to talk to u more laterish buh byes love, jenn

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girdy_goo15 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 9:22 am:
dear ex,
well first of all it sounds like your helpful and
he doesn't accept that. there isn't really anything you can do. just give him time alone
to appreciate how you help him. sometime down the
road he'll be grateful but you just have to be
patient. *~~~shana~~~*

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IxAmxCrying answered Thursday July 29 2004, 6:02 am:
He was probably a loser as a fifteen year old, and figures he can live out his past now, by hanging out with them.

He sounds pretty damn immature, and there probably isn't much you cand do, but be blunt and in his face.

Tell him to grow up. Seriously, work on becoming a man instead of going back and being a fifteen year old.

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