My boyfriend dumped me before i went on vacation then a day after i left he went out with one of my friends. When i was talkin to him he told me he still cared about me and hes never loved anyone so much as he loved me..but when i asked him if we wud go out again he sed he didn't know and it sounded like he meant no..We also went out for a long time and were inlove really bad.What do you think i should do? Talk to him or forget him?
xoAmy answered Monday July 26 2004, 8:10 pm: FORGET HIM! a problem that all of us girls have is that we can't let go. i mean, he did so many things wrong here...
1. he dumped you A DAY before your big vacation, meaning that the break up is all you're going to think about
2. he went out with one of your friends!!!!!
3. he said that he still had feelings for you, yet he didn't want to go out with you again and..
4. almost the same as the last one but he said he had feelings for you WHILE he was going out with another girl kinda making him sound like a user/cheating kind of guy
if i was you, i would just forget about him, and it's amazing that the saying "there are plenty of other fish in the sea" is ACTUALLY true, it may take time but you will find another guy that will sweep you off your feet! it will take a while, but help yourself to get over him. i hope i helped!:D good luck [ xoAmy's advice column | Ask xoAmy A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday July 26 2004, 5:55 pm: I don't think he understands the meaning of the word "love," honey.
He sais he still cares about you, but when you asked if he'd go out with you again, he sounds like he's saying no?
I think you should find yourself a new guy. All this one's doing is hurting you and confusing you. Don't you want a guy who'll love you and respect you?
I would forget about him, as hard as it may be to do so.
Hope everything works out!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Monday July 26 2004, 5:53 pm: Girl forget him! What a dick! Seriously he has no right to lead the both of you on... and as for your "Friend" I think you need to talk with her because that is not right! Seriously! Find someone else! good luck
-holly-
hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Monday July 26 2004, 5:53 pm: i think yall can still be friends..but dont try 2 be more than tht. ppl say alot of things they dont mean, n jus cuz sum1 says 3 words 2 u..it duznt mean theyr true. n if he went out with ur friend i mean cmon now..n that was a bad thing for a friend 2 do 2! i think yall should just stay friends..maybe when he sai he loved u he meant it as a friend..but idk haha thts just my opinion [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
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