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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
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No you don't sound like a slut. A slut is when a girl sleeps around, or is around, has been around, more then one guy in one night. That kind of a thing, so you're not considered a slut. If you are in love with the guy that you had sex with, and it seems like you are because of how long you two have been going out then i don't think that's a big deal. About your parents... most parents don't want to know that stuff- they want to just think that you lost your virginity when you were married. But to me 13 seems a little young to be loosing your virginity but thats my opion so i'm not telling you that it's wrong. And if you think that your mom will tell your dad, then maybe you should wait a while to tell her, like until you can trust her not to tell your dad like positive. Because belive me, I wouldn't want my dad to know that i wasn't a virgin because he would chase the guy down that i lost it to and kill him.
JUSTKIDDING. well hope all goes well for you, if you do tell her come back and tell me what happens! If you need more advice, just pop one in the inbox.
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ok heres the deal i have a few questions to ask in one ok first how do you know when a guy likes you and second how to fall for somebody your acually aloud to date b/c i have the tencency of falling for people i cant have pleaze help me asap (link)
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i'm not really sure if theres a way to fall for someone that you're actually aloud to date- just because you're allowed to date them.
in the end you know that wouldn't work out if you had to make up reasons to like the person.
but whatever, my advice to you is to look at all the best possibilites of going out with the person. is he sweet? is he nice? & so on. and then i would look at the down side. if there's more downs then ups.. :\ i don't think that's too swell.
but if you really don't truely like the person, and you're just dating them to go out with some one then it's not worth it.
hope i helped. ♥-Jessie
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Don't get me wrong, I love my mom, but I don't think she feels the same way. See, I'm a 9th grader, and along with school, I also have a part-time job that ends at 6pm. Then when I get home I have to do homework, then my mom makes me take out the garbage, unload the dishwasher, fold laundry, clean my room, and dust. By the time I'm done it time for bed.
My mom doesn't treat me like Cinderella and make me do everything, but its sooo annoying when she's makes me do these things when she's off the whole day and she does NOTHING. How can I let her know I need a lighter load? (link)
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Tell her how you feel, and maybe she'll let you off the hook. If your mom is really strick then maybe you just need to tell her that your grades are dropping and you're telling teachers that you don't have enough time to do the homework and they're saying to many excuses. Just tell her something that she'll belive.
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im noticing im growing hair around my vag. is that normal? what does it mean? (link)
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That's normal. you're getting older.
&maturing. that's all. no need to worry.
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I was wondering if any of you could help me with this song.
It goes, "She said, shes had enough"
Its pathetic thats all I know, but It sounds like the guy from sum41 sings it. Can someone help? I will rate 5s!! (link)
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Well, i searched for you but all i could find was:
http://www.christianlyricsonline.com/artists/tobymac/gone.html
I'm not sure if thats what you're looking for.
But do I get rated 5 for looking? ♥ :]
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well 13 months ago my doctor said i was gonna get my period in 6 months to a year.. but then a year passed and i still hadn't gotten it.. and then i went to my physical 13 months later and the doctor said another 6 months to a year.. but ive gotten like everything such as my growth spurt pubic hair.. vaginal discharge.. etc. but im active.. cauz im a runner... but i haven't ran since the end of may cauz i have an injury.. so i know like you shouldn't want your period or w/e.. but i just wanna get it over with because all of my friends have it except me and i feel so left out.. and my best friend just hers and she says she won't feel comfortable talking about it with me until i got mine.. so i feel so bad.. when do you think i'll get mine??.. do you think i'll have to wait another year?? (link)
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YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL LEFT OUT.
periods stink, so you should be happy that you don't have it right now. you'll probably get it in a year or so. but ENJOY LIFE NOW WITHOUT YOUR PERIOD because it STINKS. it's yucky&disgusting. don't be excited to get it either. if you want to talk about periods just IM me-unxreachhable. i'll tell you whatever you want to know.
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i need help on what to wear i got 3 tops and i cant choice.. i am goin to the mall to see a close friend that i havent seen but i need help with a top..
1)http://photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/?action=view¤t=2f5f8131.jpg
2) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg
3) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg
i am planin to wear blue jeans and pink and black shoes. my hair will be striaght but i dont know if i will wear a hat that has the inatails of my first and last name on it and it is black and red... should wear a hat or not?? and whcih top should i wear??? (link)
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I say wear the second one. Straighten your hair. Don't wear a hat. Blue jeans. & Pink&black shoes. YOU'RE GOING TO LOOK CUTE. =]
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Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...? (link)
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YES 13 IS OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
but just remember like if you're ever doing something you don't want to do... don't let them force you into anything.
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hi am the same age as you are when you have sex how come it hurts so much? i done it by bf but is dick in me all the way it feel really good i keep on telling him to to it harder but why dose it hurt? (link)
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Well.. you're breaking a layer of your skin in your vagina, and you're probably not use to having stuff up there so it is suppose to hurt a little.
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i went to the movies last night with the kid i like and his friend and that kids friends with my friend and me and my friend were goign to sit lower down they called me to sit with them so i did and sat next to my crush
well before the movies me and my friend talked to his friend (crushes friend) and he said that the crush of mine wants to do stuff with me
well at the movies he didnt and like after like 25min he went in the row in front with the other girls his fr iend was with but didnt sit next to them left a seat in between and so i put my foot in between the seat cuz i was freezing he kept playing with my feet and stuff but i dont know he knows i really like him ... i think and i tell him but i really do and not over him after school i liked him since like september december? what should i do any advice?
sorry its long (link)
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i talked to you about it online. :]
xo ♥- Jessie
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Does anyone know how to download appel sauce? Can you please give me the direct link to download it? Thanks! I rate also. (link)
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Go to Publix.com and search for appel sauce.. then right click on the picture and save. Print it out and you have it for you. :]
Thanks for being weird. ♥
REVISED ANSWER:
-- K IF YOU WOULD HAVE SAID IT WASNT REAL APPLE SAUCE I WOULD HAVE TOLD YOU- people are weird like this and ask random questions. so i thought maybe you were one of them.♥
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ok, so theres this guy that i've liked since the beginning of the year. At the end of the year my friends went and told him and it got made into this whole big deal and the whole school knew and then that guy wouldn't even look at me and i felt like i lost my best friend. Then i decided to be mature and put a note in his locker saying just forget about it but he had talked to my friend and he had said he wasn't sure about me because he likes our friendship because im one of his best friends but he did like me a little more then a friend. Si he didn't know and he still had to decide, meanwhile still flirting with me. So the end of the year came and i never found out. Should i call him and just get it out of him or just let it be awkward until i see him next year?
so confused... (link)
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HEY YOU IMed ME, but I'm going to answer it here anways. YOU SHOULD DEFINITLEY CALL HIM. ASAP. yeah babe i bet he likes you. I mean how can a guy not like my little dancer. ♥ LOVE YOU & MISS YOU. If you ever need anything IM me♥ xo
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I'm dating this girl and i rlly care 4 her but it seems liek its falling aprt but she constinly tells me she lieks me ....im so confused...am i just ther as her trophy or does she actually liek me...like she said she did...im feeling so much dispair... (link)
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Well if she tells you she cares for you she wouldn't be lying. No girl likes to lie about that. I am sure shes really likes you. If she tells you that you should belive her. ♥
PS.
Okay, i think i know who this is. BELIVE ME SHE CARES FOR YOU SO MUCH ITS UNBELIVEABLE. she would do anything for you even if at times it doesn't seem like it. she loves you. AND YOUR NOT HER TROPHY. she actually likes you and doesn't want you to feel dispair. GEESSHH SHE WISHES SHE WAS WITH YOU RIGHT NOW - but shes getting ready to go out somewhere. & you can't go :( but she misses you.
♥ Jessie
IM me & tell me who this is , okay ?
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hey, well i rele like this girl and she knows but i dont know what to do. can you help me? (link)
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Talk to her about it .. you never know, maybe she likes you back! Or get one of her friends to ask her if she likes you.. you should really ask her though. best of luck.
♥ Jessie
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how did you do that yellow thing with your camera? cause i have a digital one too :o) (link)
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i use this thing fotoshop thing ! lol its not with my camera . =) its a program i think!
♥ Jessie
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What do you do if you liek sum more then a friend but ur not sure how thy feel? (link)
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Well, you can ask them if they like you more then a friend, or who they like! It just depends how well you know the person. ♥
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i have a good friend who just broke up with her boyfriend she never really told me anything and says she had . i just hooked up with him on friday night and found out they broke up 2 nights before that. i told her today not wanting to keep it in and this otehr girl one of her bestfriends also and mine was there and she was like making it for us to hook up i dont know what else to do shes all pissed off i know i would be also but i need alot of help. (link)
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hey, i think i know who this is. what i would do is tell the girl why you hooked up with him. it was totally peer pressure because her best friend was telling you to. you didnt want to seem prude so you did it! i mean, serisouly if she doesnt belive you then i wouldn't know what to do but to let time pass and maybe she would get over it .. it'll take time. good luck though. =) ♥
if its who i think it is (hotboxtgirlsrock!)
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hello....I bet you dont know who this is. jk....i know you know probably...i am on your bus and annoy the hell out of you!...ok see you in school!!...ok bye jessica:) (link)
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hey chelsea ;) lol ♥
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Could someone please give me a site for myspace layouts.People gave me sites but I couldn't find any so if you have any good ones I would love to hear about them.Thank you! (link)
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http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/index.htm ♥
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i want to talk to this guy soo badly..sometimes we talk online..but never really in person..now he works where i do so i am going to have to start talking to him..its probably up to me but it is the perfect opporunity..in school we most likely ignore eachother..he's probably uncomfortable and i always figure if i ignore him it wont make it akward..now i am going to have breaks and stuff with him so i can talk..but what about..are online coversations have already consisted of where we were born and came from etc. lol..what else is there..hes not one to talk that much..please give me ways to start cpnvo. and topics to talk about..until i get comfortable around him..i always go blank when hes around and i cant think of anyhting to say..please help..thnx so much (link)
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Start by saying like hey! what's up and stuff. & then you can talk about who you like, the music you like, bands you like, fav. TV shows, if you hate your boss, & more! =)) If you need any more ideas IM me =) xo ♥
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