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Q: So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???

Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.

Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside.

umm tell a parent and call the police and always stay with an adult untill they're caught

Q: I ma starting a business in selling pretty and urban jewellery but i cant think of any names. Just wondered if anybody has any ideas.

you initials
ciao
bliss
pretty and urban by ______________
your name here

Q: My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing?

just explain that you loved your aunt and it would be upsetting to you to wear them. they'll understand.

Q: Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com

its ok to be in luv with her, but she could get arrested for doing "things" with a minor so just wait a little bit.

Q: Ok well in exactly a week from now I have to run a mile and a half in P.E, and I'm really out of shape. It's a race and my teacher says I must be one of the first people to finish. Does anybody have advice on how to run faster? Any food that could give me energy to run faster? Please help me.

ok here i go
1 no one can force you to be the best as long as you try your hardest
2 you can run20 min nonstop each night untill then
3 they make jellybeans with like eneryg boost things and afterwards drink vitaminwater

hope i helped

Q: So I'm pretty much broke.. I can get $150 if I push it for Christmas.. Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for over a year and I have no clue what to buy him.. Any Ideas?
He has a computer.. but has everything for it.. he loves video games but has every single one known to man... The only game he plays on his computer is Everquest so he doesn't need any other games.. please reply ASAP.. plus does anyone know how much one of those yellow gold figaro necklaces cost (( for him )) Thanks.. I rate 5's!!

umm maybe give him sumthin special like u make or pick out things and make a gift basket orrr you could get him a christian/jewish/other neclace if a gold one is to much.

Q: I just got powerchains put on the front of my braces..and they are a really bright color. Is there anyway that I could make the color fade.. maybe by brushing my teeth a lot or drinking a lot of water or something? Because I wont be able to get the color changed for another 2 months. Thanks

umm maybe brush aa loooooot and drink a lot and wear bright colors.

Q: So I have olivish golden skin and I want to buy like a beigish(sp?) lip gloss like tha stuff that Jessica Simpson wears.. It's really cute but I dont want stuff that is super thick
Okay so my boyfriend doesnt like glossy lips because when he kisses me it gets on his lips... soo is there anyway that I can lighty add color to my lips while making them soft and kissable?

umm tryy sumthin like closer to a chapstip w/ color

Q: Whats the best way to lose a bad slut reputation that isnt true?!? I try to be nice to people but there so mean to me cause of what they hear about me...i need to fix this. Any ideas?

umm dress conservatively and try hard at school/wark.

Q: Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. Hell, I can't even spell it. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.

Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate.

if your in love why not wait??
you can buy webcams and phone him and all of that untill jan!!!
hope it works out!!!

Q: please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE

email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com

ok i am totally willing to help you out and i promise i will not judge. you can go to my column and ask me a question and just type in all of what you want to say or (ou can do this on your own)write a list of all of the good things about you. i just found out today i have a friend who cuts and she has big cutss all over her arm that are gonna be scars and she wishes she didnt so now you know how bad it is sooo plz dont cut!!!!!
♥ luv ya

Q: I have a project in English for an individual reading assignment, and i got signed THE PRIME OF MISS JEAN BRODIE.. its a movie also..

but in the movie and the book, Miss Brodie keeps saying she will turn her students in to creme de la creme. does anyone know what she means by that? I don't know if anyone would have read it so that would probably make more sense..

easy 5

creme de la crem means the very best. ♥

Q: im getting my nails done tomorrow for a formal and i was wondering if i should get gel nails, tips, or acryllics? (sp) i have had gel nails before and i really liked them but what is everyones opinion? easy 5 =] xO

dont get acryllics thay are a lot of upkeep and u will be stuck with them

Q: Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.

Anyways, I was wondering:

1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.

Thanks!

1. i have a camera phone, its great and comes in handy often.
2. flip phones are more compact and practical.
3.you can get a program on your phone to buyy ringtones. they cost money though, so dont buy 50.
&hearts:

Q: Sooo along time ago i like this boy jack a whollle lot!!! And now... a year later... me and him started going out.... I dont do any drugs or smoke or anything. Andi knew he smoked cigs.. but i can deal...and then i find out he smokes weed.... once again i can deal...just as long as he dont do it around me. But now im seeing that hes a lil too obsessed with weed ...and now i find out he does dip. I DONT WANNA KISS THAT!!
I really loves him and ive waited so long for this , but the dip and stuff crossed the line .... I dont know if i wanna break up with him, cus i love him ...but it seems a little out of control. PLEASE HELP!

maybe if you lean to spell and have better grammar, you'll be smart enough to realize that he's a bad influence.

Q: My friend got mono a couple of weeks ago and she came to school for the first time since today. She said she's not really supposed to be back-doctors orders- but she wanted to come. But I don't really want to be like near her bc i don't want mono! Can mono go through the air? Obviosly I won't drink after her or anything... what should I do and can someone give me info on mono?
Thnks!

unless u r makin out with her, u should be fine!!

Q: If you know someones first and last name and age and where they work, and that they live in one of two states, is there any way to find them online? If they are in college?

Sorry thats confusing.

I want to look up these two guys from work because I want to ask them something before work this weekend. I don't have their numbers or screen names, and I cannot call work and ask.

maybe try a phone book

Q: Alright, my boyfriend is turning 14 and I don't know what to get him for his birthday. We've been going out for 5 months&&& we're really serious. For my birthday he got me a necklace that's silvergold or whatever it's called and it's a heart and theres 3 little diamonds inside. What should i get him?!

HELP. any suggestions AT ALL. will help.
BIGGGGGGG TIMEEEE PLEASEEEE.

you should make your bf sumthin, like a card, and throw him a party with all his friends.

Q: ok, one quick question. i have to type an essay and my teacher wants it to have spaces inbetwene each line. is there a spcial button that i cant find or do i just press enter on every line?
im computer literate so you dont have to have it THAT detailed. thatks
ANK

you g to format, paragraph,linespcing, then cclick double

Q: Girl gets kitten. Girl doesn't know what to name kitten.

Yup.

Here's a picture of it:

http://tinypic.com/et9qhv.jpg

First I was thinking Pixie...now I'm thinking...Jelly maybe?

Ya you should most definitely suggest a name.

Please nothing so cliche' as "Snowball". Thnks.

I rate 5s.....like 95% of the time.