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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.

I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.

I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.

If you have any questions just come to my inbox. I'll be happy to answer them =]

advice

ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!!

Okay.. first of all just act like you are friends. Act like you've moved on but flirt with him. Play hard to get. It's exactly what he's doing. But don't move on right away. If things don't change, you can still like him but keep your eyes open for other boys.

Hope i helped
Sincerely,
Abby

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well theirs this REALLY hot guy who me and him both wanna make*out, im scared im not good enough for him =/ i need some tips on making out and exactly what to do to make my kiss MEMORABLE =) i rate really high!! ((top ratings for everyone))

Look, hun, if you worry to much about kissing him the right way you will mess up. To make it memorable do it as comfortably as you need to, and make it really romantic like at a scary movie or sumthin. Make him make a move. And take it slow since it's your first kiss .. I think .. just do whats best. And don't worry. If you want to make it perfect, then you are definitly good enough for him!

Hope it helps ~
Sincerely,
Abby

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I have been in my current relationship for 9 months. Previouisly my relationship was 4 years in which we had a child. since then her father hasn't seen or talked to her in 6 months. Now when she starts to get close to my boyfriend she takes three steps back. But if she meets someone new she walk with them and hold their hand and she won't do this with my boyfriend. This upsets him and I've told him maybe she's just afraid to get close with himbecause she's afraid he will leave her too. Please help me try to understand this better. (she's only 5 years old)

Hi. I can help with this one. My parents are divorced and my mother remarried a guy who is a total asshole. I know I am a lot older than your daughter but I went through the same thing. Your daughter is acting like this because she is affraid she will get attatched and then he will leave like her father. Also because she is affraid that he will hurt you, kids are like that sometimes because they are very protective when they are little. But if I were you, sit her down and talk about him. (not when he is there) then try to find a solution so you can feel more comfortable.

Hope I helped
Sincerely,
Abby

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im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing

thank you

Look, I have this friend named Brittany. We are pretty close and stuff and I tell her all my secrets n shyt. But I can honestly say that I've caught her talk so much crap about me behind my back that I just know that there is no use in our friendship if thats how she feels. I have this 3 strike thing. After my friends have hurt me 3 times I know it is not acceptable and I realize they arent true friends. In your case, you shouldnt have to apologize that many times. If I were you Id tell her how you feel and say that you are a damn good friend and dont deserve to be walked over like that. Just talk to her. It will help.
xo Abby

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alright well you see i have a boyfriend and we just started going out like a week ago and i really like him and all and i kno him really ggood cuz we have been friends for a while. and it seems like everytime we r next to each other and get eye contact he like come towards me to kiss me but then backs off. im 13 and i already hooked up with boys other times and had no problem but i dont kno if i should go in and kiss him when he does this. please help

Hey girlie.. I know it says im 14 but im 13. I know exactly how you feel. I had a boyfriend name Ryan and all he ever did was act shy around me. He would come in to kiss me but then back off. It's because he feels like you don't want to. Kiss him back. It might feel awkward but once its over with they'll be plenty more kisses to share.

hope i help
xo abby

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i really need help .. ok

now just now i was talking to my boyfriends friend and he was like h/o your boyfriend has to talk to you and i was like ok. and i waiting for about 5 mins and he just randomly signed off. and like earlier i looked in his rpofile and it said nothing.. so im so confused. what should i do.

Look hun, don't sweat it.. Maybe your just over reacting. Maybe he had to go. Or maybe your bf's friend was being a jerk. Don't worry.

On the otherside of it. Maybe the negative is at hanf. But you can't let it bother you. Girl it's summer time. Anyways, your sposed to be having fun. That's what life's all about. And even if worst comes to worst, your still young I`m sure. There are plenty other boys that will come. And if he isn't going to be a man about it then he isn't worth waiting for. No man is worth your tear so don't let him hurt you. Just trust your instincts.

Sincerely,
Abby..

~ Hope this helps!

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