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okay my moms birhtday is here today and we are gonna go to the store to get her somthing such as wal_mart what should I get her for her birthday
please answer this quesion i will rate fives for good answers

you could get a basket and fill it with her favorite candy, maybe a cd of someone she likes, a book, a gift card, a card from you.. anything, be creative :]

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my cell phone plan is verizon and I know I have free nights and weekends. free nights starts at 9pm, but what time does it end? I'm only allowed to talk on my phone when it's free nights and weekends. Last night my boyfriend called my cell phone at 4:15am, and the day before he called me around 3am. Will I get charged for this? what time does free nights end?

usually 6 or 7 am .. but check on verizonwireless.com it'll tell you somewhere on there

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I have a social to go to soon, and I was wondering if someone can give me a couple websites or stores with really nice dresses. I don't mean prom dresses, but like a nice strapless black dress. Thanks

mandee, forever 21, zinni's, boscovs, jc penny, charlotte russe ♥ if you need any more let me know

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i wanna make my myspace pretty. so can someone give me like two really good colors that blend really good and it would be really pretty! thanks so much!

light pink & light green is cute ♥

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what are the bases specifically? you know... 1st 2nd 3rd and then ..sex. well, sorrry this is an embarassing question, i just dont know. =(

okay well.. alot of people have different 'versions' of it i guess you could say. but around where i live, first base is hookin up [ kiss ], second base is up the shirt or hand job for the guy, third base is down girls pants and bj for the guy..then sex wud be all the way, if you need any other explaining or anything, lemme know!!

ps. let me kno if yur a girl or guy & if u need specifics ill be happy to help :]


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Does anyone know any good books about like girls who are about 13 or up?

rhymes with witches is good

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Hello. I don't really know how this works, but I am taking a crack at it. Lately, I have been reading many sites that teenage girls like me have been making about anorexia. Most often then not they are praising it, but I have found few who tell me to look away. I am about to be 15 years old in a month. Soon, I am going back to school. I weigh 204lbs. Everyone tells me I don't look overweight, but its not just the way I look. I feel heavy. I feel sick and digusted, but I when I read these websites I get inspired to lose weight. Though, never to such an extreme as to starving myself. Are there any diets or tips out there that can help me? I'm feeling really inadequate.

thats good that you wouldnt think about starving yourself. its really unhealthy. its also unhealthy to convince yourself that your fat, so dont do that either. first off, i would start by being happy with yourself. you can always improve your image but your attitude has to come first. these are two sites i've used before..i have more if you need them.

http://www.whfoods.com/getstarted.php
www.am-i-fat.com

good luck with everything ♥

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I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?

ive had my boyfriend for over a year and im also jealous of my ex's girlfriend.. which is my ex best friend.. if your ex was the first guy you really cared about, then hes gonna stick to you. you'll always care about him probably. im not recommending it at all, but me and my ex hooked up a while ago and that made me feel better about missing him..maybe if you guys talked and became friends you'd feel close to him again. its hard to say exactly what to do because i dont know your situations but if you wanna talk about it drop one in my inbox, good luck

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i am going to be going away for a week to aruba and that means : no cell phone service.. i might be ablt to talk to my boyfriend somedays but maybe not. i am going to miss him so much and i want to do soemthing special with him before i go, im scared he`ll cheat=( even thought i doubt he wont it still makes me scared.. anything sweet i could do?.. i was goin to right a note telling him how much i cared and stuff and sneak it in his wallet but is there anything we could do the night before? thanksss♥

aw that happened to me before.. the night before, i would spend the whole day with him if you can.. if theres anything specific he likes to do, a kind of sport or something..you could do that during the day..depending on where you live, you could eat lunch in a park somewhere.. it sounds cheesy to say a picnic but if hes sensitive, he'll like it. then im sure you can find something else around where you live to do..i dont have any suggestions because i duno where you live.. buut then i would say go out to dinner and have a cute night.. maybe go back to his house or your house and watch movies for the rest of the night.. anything you think of that involves just you two should be good. i like the note in his wallet idea too. also, if your staying at a hotel, it might hav an internet connection for people to use. you could email him whenever you got the chance. hope i helped and have fun =)

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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)

the first day will suck.. try to stay after and walk around the school to remember where your classes are and the easiest ways to get there. its usually easier when people arent walking in the halls. making friends can also be hard.. just talk to the people in your classes. ask them if theyre in your lunch, if they are, sit with them. you'll meet the people they sit with and eventually start talking to them. i had to start at a public high school in 9th grade..all my life i went to catholic school before that. so i know how you feel. it got alot easier though. if you need anything else dont be shy. hope i helped & good luck

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I'm not anorexic i just have a problem gaining weight. I'm 13/f and appx. 93 lbs. i have an extremely high metabolism and can actually loose weight in my sleep.i eat like a pig and i eat constantly. my doctor told me to eat five meals a day but it doesn't work. i've gone to a different doctor and he says i'm normal. i want to gain weight because i get picked on just as much as a heavy kid would and i don't want my bones sticing out. Does anybody with a heigh metabolism know how to gain a quick 10lbs.?

i would just say eat alottt of fattening food but, do it the healthy way..go to a dietrician, they could probably help you more then anyone on here

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So Cheerleading.I love it but this year i didnt do it.It started today and i went and watched my cousion do it.I really started to miss doing it.So now i want to do it again.Im nervoes to tell my mom cause she will probly say i told so.I also dont want to do it because im so darn bussy.What should I do?

i cheered from 3rd-9th grade and i loveddd it. i stopped in highschool though. i went back to my school before and i coached because i missed it.. maybe you could do that? hope i helped!


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ok so here is the deal. so my friend pala well she has been ignorin me lateley. see since it is summer and all for us. she and i agreed that we would write to eachother through e-mail. but i have written her more then she has written me she has sent me fwds and that is it i mean i will write tellin how my summer is goin how i can't wait to see her cause she is a really close friend to me. or so i think. see we have this joke marco polo if we loose eachother we either yell polo when i want to find her or marco when she wants to fine me. silly i know but still it was our thing. now since i have written to her she just well she hasn't written i mean i understand she might be havin tuns of fun but u would think that after like 15 hundred e-mails sent i would at least get somthin sayin that she is havin a blast i mean somthing as little as that shows me that she still knows i exist on this planet. i dunno it may jus tbe me. but i have sent her e-mails askin her to respond when she can then i said please write back and i still havn^t gotten an answer. and i dunno do u think that she has forgotten our friendship. i mean things like this don^t just happen like it does or do they??. i dunno i am just worried that i may have lost one of the very few friends i have. i pray about her almost everynight and i pray for what friends i have also askin god to protect them and what not. and i know he is but still i dunno what to do.

anything would help

thnx

monn

i agree with the other answers, dont think negatively about it.. it might suck, im sure it does. but dont worry. i hope everything works out x3

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Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me.

thats what i did.. i had to meet all new people, it sucked.. but no, public school isnt that bad. i dont know where you live or what school it is so i cant really tell you how YOUR school is..but dont worry - you'll be fine! make friends with people in your classes and stay away from people you get a bad feeling about.

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I've been cutting for a while, and i have tried to kill myself before.And its all over a boy whos name is aaron and i think i'n in love with him. And the only time he notices me is when he wants something like sexual and then he goes to another girl when hes done with me and when hes done with the he comes back. And i wanted to know if you knew anything that might help me stop.Because everything i try doesnt work.

i used to too, i thought about everything that could happen if i took it too far. how many more people i'd be hurting. and i read stories about people who killed themselves. they dont realize how much it affects so many people. i know 2 people who i was close with that have killed themselves and a few who i wasnt that close with..they all affected me in the same way. so i hope you think about that. when i did, it was also over a boy, but alot more too. i know you dont wanna hear it or believe it but boys really ARENT worth it. if he cant see how much he means to you then he doesnt deserve you. think about this, and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox. hope i helped, keep ur head up. it'll get better

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Iam always nervous and deppressed no one around me like family,friends,stuff like that can tell. I have no brothers or sisters to help me,I'm scared of life to and of the devil I think I want a Theropist but I'm scared if I tell my parents i'll get in trouble and they wont belive me. I am 13 and female, I'm also scared of the fact of becoming one of those teens who get soo stressed they move things with there mind and don't even no it, and some of those kids become Excersist.

P.S. I'm that teen who is a Little too skinny.

im always nervous and i get depressed too. see if you can talk to your school counselor, an older family member, or one of your friends parents. i could say alot of things to help you but it depends what your nervous and depressed about, so if you wana ask me anything drop one in my inbox. hope i helped

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im not exactly the preppy girl but i want to wear pretty clothes and have pretty makeup and nice hair. i have brown hair and brown eyes. my hair is above my shoulders and i wish it would grow. how can i make my hair grow? do u have any makeup tips for me? what kinda clothes are great but not too expensive?

depending on where you live might determine if these stores are in your area.. forever 21, mandee, khols, department stores all sell cute clothes for not alot of money. for your make up, i have an obsession with eyeliner..i love it. you should try that or mascara or eye shadows that coordinate with your clothes.. then theres lip gloss, guys like it wen it tastes good, lol.. um your hair, if its above your shoulders i would say straighten it or wear it some pulled back and the rest down straight or curly. if you have any other questions let me know. hope i helped

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ok i have a quesiton about laguna beach. Is it real life?? wat exactly is it? lols thanks! i rate high!

i really dont think it is..but its supposed to be a reality show..everyones so fake ; its about drama basically and a whore named kristin ;]

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ok my friend and her friend always gang up on me and are like michelle quit and i ahve another friend but she hates when i hang out with these two girls and i cant stop and i am egtting snottyier by the minute i dont know wat i can do casue these are my bffeaeaeaeaeaeaea

im exactly like you! i think before i talk now..be aware of everyone else's feelings. talk to your friends and tell them that you dont wana lose them but you cant help being like that sometimes, and if you ever are to them..ask them to let you know. if you need anything else send me a message..hope i helped hun!



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Ok I have a really small plain room and it gets veeeery messy. the amount of space when its CLEAN to walk in is even smaller than a walk-in closet! And I can't move out any of the furniture because they're all nailed into the wall! What can I do to make it less messy and make it look nicer? It's so, well, PLAIN and I'm not even allowed to paint it. I like lava lamps and miniature desk water fountains and things like that if it helps!!!! thanx a lot, I will rate high for anyone who gives a reasonable answer

i would use alot of storage kind of things.. my bed has drawers underneath it, so if i have junk layin around i just throw it in there. if you have alot of magazines and stuff you could get a little table with a rack kinda thing under it and put a lava lamp on it..and on the rack you could put your magazines or books..if you need anymore help send me a message, my room was so messy before and i did alot to improve it..hope i helped hun

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