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i am going to be going away for a week to aruba and that means : no cell phone service.. i might be ablt to talk to my boyfriend somedays but maybe not. i am going to miss him so much and i want to do soemthing special with him before i go, im scared he`ll cheat=( even thought i doubt he wont it still makes me scared.. anything sweet i could do?.. i was goin to right a note telling him how much i cared and stuff and sneak it in his wallet but is there anything we could do the night before? thanksss♥
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When i think sweet and romantic, i always think stars. Perhaps, if the weather is nice, you can have a little picnic outside at night and stargaze with eachother. I've always thought that would be absolutely beautiful =) or perhaps you could make him a present or something for no reason. Perhaps a little basket filled with little nick-nacks and a photo of you and him together or something. Maybe you could put the note in the basket? And maybe you could send letters to him from aruba. Postcards, you know? That'd be sweet. =) And if you need to, tell him your concerns about him cheating. There's nothing more important in a relationship than trust, so it's better to confront him about it and get your facts straight so you dont' have to worry about it while you're in aruba and can enjoy yourself all the same. IT's only a week. You needn't worry, i'm sure.
Good luck
Panda
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aw that happened to me before.. the night before, i would spend the whole day with him if you can.. if theres anything specific he likes to do, a kind of sport or something..you could do that during the day..depending on where you live, you could eat lunch in a park somewhere.. it sounds cheesy to say a picnic but if hes sensitive, he'll like it. then im sure you can find something else around where you live to do..i dont have any suggestions because i duno where you live.. buut then i would say go out to dinner and have a cute night.. maybe go back to his house or your house and watch movies for the rest of the night.. anything you think of that involves just you two should be good. i like the note in his wallet idea too. also, if your staying at a hotel, it might hav an internet connection for people to use. you could email him whenever you got the chance. hope i helped and have fun =)
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What you do would depend on how far you have gone. Just let it flow naturally. But definitely do the note idea, and maybe give him a picture of you two together with the note. That's always special and it will keep him missing you. Have fun in Aruba!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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aw the wallet idea sounds really sweet you should totally do that!
ok there are tons of stuff you can do the night before::
-have a campfire ..a romantic one you kno? you can cuddle in a blanket or something and roast marshmellows in your backyard. maybe invite some friends too if you want
-go to the mall and hang out..maybe see a movie and get somethin to eat
-watch movies at one of your houses and cuddle on the couch :)
-maybe go out with a bunch of his friends somewhere like bowling or the mall..then later it can be just the two of you watching movies or having a campfire or something..this way you can include both time for him to hang with friends one more time and then also hang out with you too.
if you would like more ideas feel free to inbox me and i will see what i can think of
i hope this helped! :)
-melissa-
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Writing a note for him to find after you're gone is a good way to make sure he doesn't forget about you.
You could take a small box and decorate it. Write short little notes to him for each day you'll be gone and put them in the box. That way he's just got to open the box and pull out a note every day that you're gone to be reminded of you and how you feel. Give it to him the night before but tell him not to open the box until the next day.
A romantic picnic or even candle-lit dinner would also work. Scented candles are great because every time he smells that scent he'll think of you and your picnic/dinner. Make sure your couple's song is playing during dinner You can even slow-dance under the stars after you finish eating.
You might consider investing in a prepaid calling card so you can talk even while you're gone without it costing too much. Another option is sending him a letter each day when you can't call him.
Good luck. Have fun on your vacation.
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if you're trying to steer away from anything sexual.. then do something that'll remind him of how great you are. like go back to your first date site or plan a late night picnic. just do something that is memorable to the both of you. for a 2 month with one of my ex's i took him to the spot where we first kissed and told him how things havent changed between us from the first moment we went out to now. also, you can bring a little wooden box or something and put a hershey's kiss in the box everytime you miss him. then when you come back you can give it to him and be like, "i put a kiss in there everytime i wanted to kiss you." get creative, i know you can come up with a billion things
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