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Hey everyone. My name is Anastasia, and I love to give advice and help others. I have experienced alot, and can understand most things people go through, so feel free to ask any quetions.
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is it possible for your period to start lasting for a longer amount of time? its always been 5 days for me...i got it 6 years ago...now all of a sudden its 6 days long. (link)
yup i can change any time


Whats a career is in the medical area where you dont have to deal with a lot of blood and surgery? (link)
wowo there are lots of those...psychology, psychiatry, tharapy, _____(macine(MRI, X-ray, ect))technitian, regular doctors(you see a little blood, not that much...), dentist, and there are alot more....but keep in mind that in ALMOST every medical currier you have to do the first 4 regular years of medical school, and at some point you will incounter blood, especially when they have you work in the ER (you see like everything 'medical' there). good luck!
ANK

PS if you want to talk more about it feel free to IM or email me...


I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy? (link)
umm...be nice to her, dont meke her mad, never ignore her, (if you dont know already)find out what she likes to do and do it, develop a close realation ship but dont pressure her into anything..ever...
ANK


is 5'7 too tall for a 14 year old girl (link)
no not really...i know someone thats 12 and she is 5'5 1/2 so...not really no...i mean if you mean for dating....if you want someone taller than you it will be hard but not impossible...
ANK


k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!

P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!! (link)
wow...harsh...ok well you are really ging to hate this answer but...its what i think...ok: i think you should talk to your parents about it again. if they still stand strong on their opinion, talk to 'D' and tell him about it. from there if you choose to date him, keep t a secret and dont tel your parents...say you guys are really good friends...hope i helped...
ANK


ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?! (link)
i think he found out his cousin told you and he got nervous...talk to the cousin...they might know whats going on...
ANK


is like right inside of your vagina supposed to have like bumps?? (link)
ummm i dont think so....i think you should go see your doctor...good luck!
ANK


ok- i'm organizing a secret santa thing for our orchestra... i can't think of anything else to put on the form you fill out about yourselves other then...
Name:
Age/Grade/Birthday:
Instrument:
Play any sports?:
Favorite:
Color?:
Animal?:
Candy?:
Sports team?:
Any additional information:

what else should i put on the form?? thanks
(easy 5's!) (link)
favorite sport?
thing to do in free time?
food?
drink?
cant think of any thing else...sry...
ANK


Today I went to see my counselor. Please note its nine weeks into the school year. I just realized I failed Algebra 1 last year, and at the beginning of the year, he put me in Geometry. So, Ive been taking Geometry & getting excellent grades in there (: But, today I went to see him because my mother wanted to find out if I could take summer / night school. He dropped my Geometry class & placed me into an Algebra 1 class. Which I wasn't too pleased about. I went to my new class & I really don't fit in AT ALL. I don't know anybody in there, and all of the people were black. [I'm really not trying to be racist or ANYTHING like that, I just felt out of place, I'm white.] & They just STARED at me, like wtf is she doin here! I was so scared no joke.

Tomorrow, I'm going to see my counselor again to find out if I can do anything to get back into my regular Geometry class, because I was doing so well & actually had friends in there. Do you think it'll be possible for me to get back into Geometry, without taking Algebra 1 first?

Please no stupid responses, for Algebra last year I had a really bad teacher & didn't learn stuff well. Thanks a lot. I'm a sophmore, 15/f (link)
its is possible yah. if they say no, have one of your parents talk to them. then it will be REALLY hard for them to say no....
ANK


tomorrow i am trying out for my favorite sport TRACK & FIELD!
i am in 7th grade so i have to try out for J.V.

for the try outs i have to run 6 laps around the track under 12 minutes [plus some other things but thats the hardest]. this is going to kill me! im not good at distance running. i do sprints. what if i dont make it? i live for track! is there any way i can get faster? i trying out with one of my best friends. we are the only ones trying out tomorrow becasue everyone else already did. i'm so nervous.


what can i do today till tomorrow at 3:30 to make me do better?
what are some tips for when im running?
anything you want to tell me!


thank you so much this is SO important to me. (link)
ok, what you have to do is do alot of stretches that stretch out your legs, and practice breathing when you run so you dont get out of breath that easy. im more of a sprinter too, and i cant run long distance, but doing that, plus sometimes trying to eignore the pain (in your lungs, you panting...ect)(i know its kind of hard but you get used to it). but if you run a mile every day (i know you dont have time for that but..) you will also get used to it. Good luck!
ANK
STRETCHES: butterfly stretch, hamstring stretch, and any one where you are stretching your legs...you should google stretches too...


Hi, I'm a junior in high school. I'm doing my science project on the making of ice cream with liquid nitrogen. Liquid nitrogen for those of you who don't know, can be used to freeze things almost instantly. Anyways, I've done research on both ice cream making and liquid nitrogen, but I have a problem. I need to write about how chemistry is involved with this whole process. Any ideas or suggestions? I'm looking for a lead on how exactly chemistry is involved with this experiment, nothing too general please. Thanks, will rate. (link)
well its involved because your useing liquid nitrogen to freeze somthing, in your case icecream, and it is frezing somthing faster than it normaly will (when you have it in the freezer)and it is also because the fact that somthing is freezing using somthing other than cold air.
ANK


here is the background knowledge you need to know. I have a lil bro . I am in 11grade. he is in 9th. I am the smart one. top of the class, honour roll and all sorts of crap. My lil bro is on the point of dropping out. for midsemester he got like 5 Fs (out of 10). My mom depends on me to ve the good example to him.
OK
now, today after class, I was on the bench outside od my class. My friend showed me a copy of the Chemistry test we are supposed to get tomorrow. So all of us on the bench (my freinds only) start to work it out and copy the answers for ourselves. NOW, my lil bro just comes out of nowhere and sees me copying down the answers. He was in a hurry and did not say anything but I think he saw me. what to do ?
and if he asks me when he gets home, what should I say?
i don't want him to think copying is the way to go. (link)
you really need to talk to your brother. sit him down and tell him if not to cheat (if he saw you) and if you want you could also offer to help him with his work, that way if he trys hard enough he could get to average level. and i know it isnt realy any of my bussiness, but your honors! why are you cheating?!?! you earned that spot dont throw it away!(umm sry i sounded a little too much like a parent..)
ANK


Me and my friends have been friends for 10 years (3 boys 3 girls) and one of my friends has a crush on me, i like him to but i do not want to rewin are friendship, i like him and he likes me but my other friends think it would be a bad idea if we started dating so they do what ever they can to keep us apart, i'm to scared to go out on a date with him, just incase i screwup the friendship of 6 friendship...what should i do?:( (link)
wow, your luck to have friends who like your friends and viece virsa....well on thing is for sure....if your friends are going to try to make you guys break up....no offense, but they are kind of mean..but i see their reasoning...ok, i think you should ask him out but tell him that you dont want to break up your friendship. maybe if you guys get mad and break up say you will give eachother a week or so to calm down and then act like freinds again...hope i helped
ANK


15/f Try n make this quick:

Last year this guy Rich and I were friends and he likes me but i had a boyfriend. And he openly said how mad he was and that he liked me (jokingly he wasn't like ARRRG mad) and well i saw him once over the summer n it was awesome. but he switched school so i never saw/talked to him. now he's back and im single. problem is he wears eyeliner im kewl with that but a lot of my friends will bitch about that but w/e. but he also smokes pot n cigs. like i dont care n i will never its just it makes me unhappy he does that. but like now i make sure i see him and like he is always like Give me a hug! like old times. and i really think i like him. but my mom said i couldnt date him. should i just like "date" him at school and ease my mom into it, or stay friends with this guy? how can i see if he likes me too w/o saying yo dude ya like me still? ... sorry that wasn't very quick :( thanks so much to people who answer it though! (link)
well, i think you should date him, but i also think you should tell him that he should stp smokeing and stuff. i think you should just ask him out. if he likes you he will say yes, if he dosent you can still be friens with him.
ANK


I'm about to turn 21, and I've been with my first and only boyfriend for about a year and a half. He adores me and I believe that if we were to stay together he would love me until he dies. Unfortunately, I am not so secure in my feelings.

There are some down sides to the relationship:
A) I am a dedicated student while he seems to have little ambition. He dropped out of college and works at a fast food place.

B)Because I'm in college we are living in two different cities.

C) He is extremely insecure. He gets unreasonably angry with me when he knows I've spoken to another guy. He has also told me that if we ever break up he would be too upset to want to get back together.

D) Because I haven't had a previous relationship, I often have doubts. I'm not unhappy in the relationship, but sometimes I wonder if there is a better match for me.

Should I end a relationship I am comfortable with for the possibility of one that is 'ideal' for me? (link)
i think you should tell him how you feel, thenif he dosent get mad or anything give him a month or so...i think you could find someone better...but thats just my opinion...
ANK


I met this guy, and I had a one night stand with him. I am 19 and he is 23. The problem is, I did not want to have sex at all. I just wanted to kiss, but he kept pressuring me to go further and further, and I eventually gave in to everything.

While we were having sex, it hurt so much. I was crying and telling him to stop but he kept going. I tried shoving him away but he didn't stop. I could have probably easily punched him in the face and made him stop, but for some reason, I didn't. I lied and told him it was hurting because I had been raped as a last attempt to get him to stop. He still didn't, and I eventually just sucked it up and let him finish.

Throughout the whole ordeal, he said some pretty mean things to me, the worse being that he had to pretend like the sex we just had was the best he'd ever experienced, just so he'd be able to finish himself off. And you know what I said? NOTHING. After I laid on the bathroom floor crying for awhile, I laid in bed with him, staring at the ceiling for 3 hours while he slept.

I do not have the slightest idea why I let him use me. I usually am smarter than this, love myself more than this, have more integrity than this. I am numb all over and wonder what the heck happened, how did I let it happen. Please, any insight would be appreciated. (link)
you didnt let it happen and its not your fault. all you wanted to do was kiss, not to go that far. you told him to stop, he didnt. its rape. go to the hospital or the poliece. im not poliece or anythig but if they cant get a rape kit done then to prove it maybe you can (talk to the poliece about it first) take a tape recorder and put it in a pocket and go to him and say like " you know how we...blablabla" and if he says yah then he has admited it and you have him....but thats just my thoughs...if you have any mor Q. let me know and let me know how it works out!
ANK


In school, we are learning about noticing good paragraphs. And for our project, we have to identify certain writing styles. Lets say that the style is descriptive imagery. I have found a paragraph and I want to know WHY it's good. I don't know how to explain why it's good, it just is. Would anyone know any ideas on how to explain why it's good?? I'm not asking you to do my homework, I just need some ideas.

Thanks. (link)
well does it have alot of discription? doesit have sectences that are combined? does it flow? i dont know those are a few things....
ANK


sorry its long but if you try oll give a 5.. ok look i have this niebor and i go to his skool and hes 13 and i am to but he has 2 older brothers who realy like me and i think their hot to but im dating thier younger brother one is 16 and the other is 18 and i think his brothers want him to date me cuase i go to his hpouse a lot. i went yesterday to play ball and wen i like shot the ball jacob whos 16 would always like push me forward with his dik wen my bak is torward him and he does it a lot and his other brother jery whos 18 does the same too.. so i think they like me but the one im dating dont cuase i think thier just makming him to so i can come up.. wat do ya think (link)
i think you should talk to your bf. if you know him well enough you could probably tell if he was lieing. or if you want to get brave talk to all three of them and settle it....yah i know it will be hard but tell them what you wrote here...and if you feel uncomfortable with what they do...tell em!
ANK


uh, i live a far ways away from my boy freind (juss temp.) and he does not like me drinking. he said that if i want to i can he wont control me, but he doesnt like it. well, about 2 weeks ago i was drinking with my room mate. She and i only had 2 drinks each and no one else was home. so i dont see it as a problem. but the next weekend her boyfreind and 2 of his freinds came over. Now, they are in their late 20's early 30's, and we are 18 and 19. We all got drunk that night...and i know i didn't do anyhting cuz i kept saying i was not gonna betray my boyfreinds trust. my freind even told me i did nothing...she was the least drunk of all of us. she said i kept yeling at them everytime they asked me to dance for them. my question is...did i betray his trust? I haven't told him yet but i feel bad...should i tell him? (link)
well, he knew you were drinking, but i woldnt say you did because you were somwhat aware of not wanting to betray him. but if those guys were (and im guessing they arnt) THEY would be the ones betraying his trust by asking you to do stuff like that, not you.
ANK


Male 13

This is kind of long so if you dont have time to read it it is okay

For the past 6 months i have been asking questions about my best friend and how i like her and what not.

Now a little backround info i have known HER for five years we are best friends. Now for the first three years i knew her i just couldnt be around her enough i had a major crush. Then i finally started letting go or hideing my feelings from myself. What ever it was it worked i really thought i was over her. But then about 6 months to a year ago i started liking her again.

i think this happend because she almost got a boy friend. so i have gotten through all the Drama over her so far her almost having a boy friend, her moving her being pushy ext...

But the thing with her her has always been she would say she didnt need a boyfriend and she would talk to me about all of this.

All of asudden she wants a boyfriend (which of course made me upset) But on top of that instead of talking to me about it she talks to this other girl she barley knows. i mean i could understand if she wanted to talk to a girl not a guy but shes never had trouble talking to me before.

the question is what should i do ( i know thats a pretty general question but i am having trouble finding the right words for my question)
I mean she tells me i can talk to her about anything but i have trouble talking to her about her.

SO bassically i just need advice for the whole situation (link)
well, first off all, dont feel sad that she was talking to girs and not you first. Girls tend to do that, and they trust anyone. i think you should go somewhere with her and hangout for a while, thenn tell her that you like her and you heard she wants a bf. ask her out. she might not talk to you about it because she likes you and is afraid if she asks that you will say no. if you are a little nervous (i say you shouldnt be but...) then maybe you should hint to her...bring up the situation about her wanting a BF and go from there.
Hope i helped
ANK




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